Family & Relationships - 14 October 2007

2007-10-14 17:17:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Recently, I've been feeling that everything is falling out from under me, and I have nothing to grab on to. I don't know what to do. My life makes absolutely no sense and I have no one to lean to. I need help.

2007-10-14 17:13:06 · 13 answers · asked by Nick_J_is_off_da_chain 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

K i am having series problems at home.I am turning 18 in 3weeks and thats when im gonna get my first car.Anyways my mom had a misscarriage and now she has cancer and herpes.Shes at the edge of dieing and i just applyed for college.With all my family members living in portugal and in the neatherlands there's no one but me to take care of my little brother when my mother dies.How can i solv some of theese problems?

2007-10-14 17:11:41 · 14 answers · asked by domenicathesims2player 3 in Family

My husband & I got married May 17, 2006, found out I was pregnant in June & we separated in July due to major marital issues. I still have yet to divorce him do to lack of funds & still see my in-laws every Sunday; however, he sees our son MAYBE once every 2 months and hasn't helped me financial since I was 3 months pregnant. Our son has health issues that I am dealing with by myself with no support from him. He's been in & out of the hospital since he was born & his father didn't even bother to ask why he was there or if he was ok! I am looking to divorce my husband in the very near future which brings me to my inquiry for advice, because he isn't helping me with my son at all, rarely sees him & there are major issues which makes it so that I don't want him to take our son by himself I need some advice on what I should do. should I file for child support with the divorce knowing he can't afford it or should I ask him to sign over his parental rights because he doesn't see him anyway!?

2007-10-14 17:10:42 · 16 answers · asked by mournfuldriedclover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We already have cut our guest list ALOT. We have come to a number of 140 people. 70 for both sides. This is pretty reasonable considering we have LARGE families. I have 13 immediate cousins, whom I'm all close with. Nearly half are married or in serious relationships. So, for them alone I'll be inviting........20-22 people. Not including my parents, my siblings and dates, my aunts and uncles, grandparents.....plus I do want some friend there.

It's the same for this family. We are only inviting people we are close to. However, we are close to a LOT of people.

So, far we have we have 10K saved for our reception. But, with 140 people....we will need at least another 3K to make the costs. The reception is very cheap for our area (city area) $70 per person, plus tax and gratuity. Good package too, lots of food/bar I've already factored in the initial $500 deposit too.

So, what to do? I'm sort 3K for the reception. But, I can't cut the list anymore.

2007-10-14 17:09:10 · 13 answers · asked by Je Adore 2 in Weddings

Afraid to give details for various reasons

2007-10-14 17:08:20 · 14 answers · asked by Christina Bconfused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone argues, so how do you know when to much is enough??

2007-10-14 17:03:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its cause I been skatin for 2 months and now I want to play the guitar.
And im 14 years old.
and I told my freinds, and they said dude, ur nuts, u want to be a good skater and now u want to play guitar, u have to consintrate in one thing only, skate or guitar.

IS it true im nuts.

2007-10-14 17:03:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im dating this guy and he has things about him I want to change nothing major and not really things that if they didnt change I couldnt deal with, but it got me thinking that maybe he is better off with someone who loves everything about him, I told him that I was thinking that and told him to give me a reason to stay.... and he couldnt give me a reason, I mean I know hes not the best with words. but then later i told him I was hungry and he asked me where I wanted to go and I said I dunno you chose and he got angry how I never choose somewhere even though i was the only one hungry, but when i wanted him to give me a reason to stay, or even when we talk about anything serious he doesnt say anything... whats up with that?

2007-10-14 17:03:08 · 13 answers · asked by Lostandconfussed 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-14 17:02:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my son went on a trip with a club (DECA) and i had made a deal with him that he had to have Cs or better and he had a D but proceeded on the trip and lied about the D when he got back How should i punish him for this? Thank you

2007-10-14 16:59:40 · 27 answers · asked by a_l_a_n_6_6_5_0 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex broke up with me (it'll be a week this coming Tuesday) but I am still so much in love with him. We've been talking on and off on the internet and now I haven't heard from him in almost these past 2 days. I've been talking to his friends and now they won't answer my ims. I'm worried he's telling them not to talk to me...
I really want him back...I feel like he's the one...I've im'd him with talking over coffee and just being face to face and haven't gotten any replies...I'm thinking of calling him just to see how he's doing...Is it wrong that I want to see how he's doing? This is what I typed to him today: ...i just wanna say that I really want to keep you as a friend...i love you and still care alot about you...i think us staying friends is the first step is overcoming what happened between us and starting off fresh.

He's told me he misses me and wants to be close to me...so then why is he trying to push me away? (i feel he's trying to push me away)

Please help...

2007-10-14 16:55:30 · 2 answers · asked by breathe_in2687 1 in Singles & Dating

In the beginning stages of divorcing..no papers filed that I know of yet...3 kids..2 still at home with me..kids and I are going out of state for 1 week...he wants to stay in 'the house' that he moved out if 3 weeks ago while we are gone..I say no..he says too bad..if you don't like..find somewhere else to live and I will move back in perminately...CRAZY or what? Do I have the right to change the locks to keep him out? Both names are on the house...any suggestions? We are leaving this week...

2007-10-14 16:54:36 · 14 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son plays baseball and my husband is one of the coaches. There is a dad of one of the boys on the team that I have to admit I am physically attracted to. He calls me at least every other day and talks baseball sometimes for 45 min. or more. He has never really said anything inappropriate but he has said, "My wife and your husband are going to think we have something going on as much as we talk on the phone." He usually has a legitimate reason for calling but kind of drags out the conversation. I know I am probably just fantasizing about him because I am bored or something and I don't think I would ever cheat on my husband. He has never said anything that would make me think he is unhappy in his marriage either. Would a man call a woman 2-3 times a week to chat with no motive? I guess when I see his name pop up on my phone, I get excited and that scares me. What do you think?

2007-10-14 16:54:04 · 17 answers · asked by Jenn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so my boyfriend's mom told him that i was a controlling gf becuz i asked my bf can he come over cuz i was bored and then he said okay and then i drove down to pick him up. and i tuold him can he plz hurry cuz it was cold,she was talking ti him and then when he got in the car he told me his mom said that i was controlling.? wtf?...well is she being like this? i didnt mean to rush him

2007-10-14 16:53:20 · 9 answers · asked by LaShar.Baybee 2 in Singles & Dating

If you unlock the door for a girl and walk to the other side of the car are you really hoping that she unlocks your door. Is that really a test?

The only reason I know that is because a guy opened my door and then I unlocked the back door for my friend. Then I get in he shuts both the doors and walks around the back. My friend starts to tell me "hurry unlock the door!" I'm like "what" quick unlock it and so I reach over and unlock it. He gets in and he is like really exicited and says "Girls don't usually do that" I reply I didn't know that your suppost too. (Joy) told me I was suppost to." I've been doing it ever since except when I forget and recently the husband told me if we were on a date I would fail. Ooops. I didn't know it was an actual test. After that incident I thought that it was just poliet.

2007-10-14 16:51:14 · 6 answers · asked by Peggy Pirate 6 in Singles & Dating

i am 11 my dad shot himself in the head should i go to his funeral? i dont want to i am mad at him

2007-10-14 16:51:10 · 16 answers · asked by Kady L 1 in Family

I've had four relationships in the past year, none of them lasted more than a few weeks, and there was never any real reason for the breakup, we usually just sort of drift apart. I often receive the compliment that I am a gentleman, that I'm courteous, chivalrous, sensitive, and that I'm cute. I've always heard women/girls say that they want a gentleman, someone who will be sensitive and honest with them, unlike all the other jerks that just want to get in their pants. Granted, I did keep unnecessary things to myself, but if asked questions regarding the two of us, I tell the truth.

Basically my question is: Do girls want a guy that will have the respect for them to tell them the truth, provided that he is asked a sensible question? Or do they just want someone who will tell them what they want to hear, regardless of whether it's true or not? Personally, I'd rather be respected than have someone kiss up to me. Anyone want to make sense of this?

2007-10-14 16:48:31 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for those of u who have, it hurts, doesn't it?

2007-10-14 16:48:23 · 19 answers · asked by Caity 4 in Singles & Dating

Dont tell me how a man treats his mom is how he will treat you.Its bs

2007-10-14 16:46:05 · 18 answers · asked by innocentheartbreakerr 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18, so i should be able to do this, but I've been through a lot this summer. My mom walked out, i found out i cant have kids, my sister had an abortion, I found out my step-sister hates me when she pretended to be my friend for years, i moved away from all my friends, and started college at a place i hate with the roommate from hell. I want to ask my dad if i could go into therapy just so i have someone to talk to and give me actual advice. But he's really hard to talk to . Any ideas as to how to go about it?

2007-10-14 16:45:57 · 10 answers · asked by Steph 3 in Family

So my boyfriends parents separated shortly after he was born, his mother says it was because she found out that the dad may of had another son born shortly after my boyfriend. At the age of 20 my boyfriend found out that it was true. He really does have a brother out there somewhere in the world. He has an older brother that he is very close to, and neither of them want to meet him. I have been trying to convince him that he should especially considering we have children now. What do you think????

2007-10-14 16:40:21 · 14 answers · asked by lboogie 2 in Family

For me its been 3 times

2007-10-14 16:37:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance left me yesterday over hte phone. I had just come back from holidaying in Thailand and we were due to start booking upon my return. We had been together for almost four years and things were really good before I left. I moved out immediately and am camping at Mum and Dads's. Can someone tell me how to heal as I'm not angry just devastated. We have spoken about practical things like leases and credit cards etc and I have been strong but I'm crumbling on the inside. I have kept the rings as a memory and hold no grudges but I feel so lonely and upset. I don't know what to do. Someone please help.

2007-10-14 16:35:56 · 11 answers · asked by Tracey rocks in cotton socks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband fooled on me once by having an other woman for 6 months.. they stopped when i discovered it and iam very furious that i was betrayed. But my husband is very determined to win me back and i saw all his willingness to get my forgivess in so many ways.. now, we are having a nice time and wanting to add a new baby in the family. However my doubts are always there, i cant help it. I often check on him. I can see he is a changed man after confessing his fault and wanting to start again. But i cant forget what he did to me.please help me on how to manage my doubts in a way that my husband will feel that i trust him again.. Though i trust him again but not completely. Right now, he is telling me whereever the gurl tries to call her and he ignored. Once he showed me an email from a girl begging for a time but he never answered. I love my husband and we both want each other to grow old together. My problem is how to build a trust again.Thanks for your time.

2007-10-14 16:35:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there anyway I can test his interest. Should I move on?
What would you do?

2007-10-14 16:33:33 · 11 answers · asked by Hm 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf broke up with me after 4 years b/c he was suddenly unhappy and I took the break up badly. I also asked him back but he told me to not have hope, he wants to be single, and told me to find another man.

I haven't contacted him since and I just want to know if he might one day call back. Trust me, I am moving on but I just want to know if other people's ex's called back or wanted them back. Has anyone experienced something similar whose ex said the exact same thing but ended up coming back? Thanks

2007-10-14 16:32:45 · 8 answers · asked by S S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am really frustrated at myself right now.
i cant seem to FLIRT! Everytime a guy starts flirting with me, i accidentally push him away, because i dont know what to do or say, i just like smile and look down. i really want to flirt back to keep the conversation going, but i keep giving them the wrong message and they back off.
theres a guy i like, and he flirts with me all the time. he recently started backing off because i made him think i dont like him.
help me???? all i need to know is what to do, then i wont be so nervous.

you dont need to tell me confidence is the key, because i know that. but if i had something to be confident about like the skill to flirt, then i will be fine.

help???

2007-10-14 16:32:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When do I call? She is 35 and gave me her number last Friday, she came over on Thursday and nothing happened between us. I was thinking about making a move on her, but I didn't get the right vibe. We were talking about porn and wet dreams she has had, but we weren't talking about it for that long. Was that a sign that she likes me? She seems very friendly, so that leads me to belive she wants me. What 35 year old woman gives a 22 her number? after only knowing her for a week?

2007-10-14 16:28:55 · 4 answers · asked by Road House 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I play piano and sing quite well so i have been told. I have friend that is about to get married and he wanted me to sing his wedding vows for him, since he was really never good with expressing himself. If you are familiar with the Jamie Foxx show, he wants me to sing the "Wedding Vows" song which fits perfectly. My only objection is that, i don't feel right because I feel that it is his moment to express himself. Ladies if you were the bride, how would you feel?

2007-10-14 16:27:46 · 32 answers · asked by Paktown 3 in Weddings