Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

i gave this guy the impression that i have a major attitude but i don't, if i stop acting like that,and start acting like myself,he may think im fake and i dont want that! i really want him to see who i really am. What should i do?

2007-10-16 23:59:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And even problem arises, we can settle and overcome any chaos easily because we are together and we are helping, supporting and loving each other unconditionally.

When his wife arrived, she bargains him that he will never see his daughter again if he will not go with her. I know how much he love his daughter and he is willing enough to give his life for her. His wife knows his weakness and that is why she uses it as her defence. He was really torn between and so depress when his wife told him about it. So since I care for him so much, I was the one who advise him to go with his wife – but the reality, I was wrecked and torn apart. It is already 1 month since that happen but until now I am still bearing the pain and loneliness. I don’t have any other friend here because for 3 years my world is only him and him alone. Both of us are here in a foreign country and we are working on the same company. Most of the days we see each other at work and he is still close, nice and caring to me. That is the only time we can see each other. Outside work, we never see each other. People and colleagues around us are just shutting their mouth but they know how much both of us suffer with the situation. I don’t have the right to get him back because they are still legally married although it is only for formality. But I really want to win him back to me. I know deep inside that he is the right guy for me. So am confuse on what to do? I don’t want to do things that might make me regret in the end. But for now, I really want him to be back in my arms. We have more times together compared to his wife. The only thing that we lack is marriage. Please can anybody seriously help me with my problem?

2007-10-16 23:57:45 · 4 answers · asked by samm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

on any grounds character, attitude, love, care, affection, behaviour, family & relationships & marriage..... how do boyfriends/husbands expect girlfriends/wifes to behave with them & their mom, sis, bro. dad & others Totally what are those things a guy expects in a lasting relationship with a girl...

2007-10-16 23:56:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 23:53:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 23:51:31 · 9 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Singles & Dating

I have just had my 30th Birthday, My current workplace I have been at for 3 years. I have never caused any problems for anyone I work with and never made an enermy. I work well with them when I have to and have great interpersonal skills. I am polite and friendly to them. For my Birthday collection I got only £10 from them. I think this is tight and so do my family and close friends. I am upset as this shows whatthey think of me. What should I do? They never invite to the pub either. I am upset.

2007-10-16 23:49:52 · 9 answers · asked by rainbow 1 in Friends

anyone else had this problem, she does'nt know about it.

2007-10-16 23:27:32 · 25 answers · asked by dann_501 3 in Singles & Dating

am at my whits' end and feel stupid but I just dont know what to do anymore. I swear I tried all possible and radical ideas I could. I moved, I changed job, I made new friends, I go to the gym, I joined the local theater group to do some stage painting ... but I cannot stop thinking about him and now I'm at a point where I've become physically sick. I get a lump in my throat and have to run to the toilet to be sick and then I cant do anything but cry until I feel ok again. Why after 6 months does it still hurt so bad???
I know he doesnt want me and I know he is seeing someone else, I can live with the facts but my stomach just turns itself inside out.
What on earth can I do that will make me think and feel normal again? I have been on dates and met guys but as soon as it comes to kissing those other guys, I back off cause he pops into my head.

2007-10-16 23:16:04 · 4 answers · asked by soulsurfer 4 in Singles & Dating

Would it be less to engage in other sexual acts? Is there a sliding scale? It would be handy if I could guage how much I'm going to have to spend buying a girl drinks before I get what I'm in the mood for.

2007-10-16 23:01:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend has recently seperated from her husband, and i think its going to be for good...but she made a comment the other day about good men not being interested in a single mother as a partner? i said she was speaking complete rubbish, but im starting to question myself now...so...what do men think abot single mothers as a potential new gf??

2007-10-16 22:49:27 · 26 answers · asked by charli 4 in Singles & Dating

Recently my husband told me he is not in love with me anymore. I still love him very much. Do I just give him what he wants or fight for what I want?

2007-10-16 22:21:36 · 15 answers · asked by girlnextdoor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was glowing the first few months after we were engaged (after 3 yrs of dating). But now, we're less than a year away from our tentative wedding date.. and I'm just not "feelin' it" anymore. I think nonstop about how I don't want to ever divorce, or have kids w/someone if the relationship won't work out.

He and I have also lost that "honeymoon" feeling, and I don't know what all of this means. I'm horrible at figuring out my own life.

2007-10-16 22:06:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Does any one know a good hand fasting ritual?

2007-10-16 21:26:30 · 2 answers · asked by Amber W 2 in Weddings

His daughter is 10 years old and is the only child. He caters to her every whim and she is spoiled rotten. She is very manipulative and comes across as trying to be sweet, but i see through that crap, mind u i used to be her age. I keep trying to tell her dad that she does not want to see him with me, but he keeps thinking that i am trying to keep trouble going. He is good to me, but i feel as if like i am playing second fiddle. Should i be feeling this way?

2007-10-16 21:25:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how should one ensure that your parents or other gaurdians dont get to know o your marriage and that no notice is sent to your home??

2007-10-16 21:20:54 · 22 answers · asked by smart gal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best mate ants to runaway and wants me to go with her ..
If i don't go with her she will go on her own .. what do i do ?

2007-10-16 21:19:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-16 21:10:13 · 10 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...who aren't after money, and want to fall in love with a man (not bi-sexual, or gay, or some other irregular thing)? Are there any that want to just share sweet affection, and get lost with me and not worry about the next day? Possibly someone who wouldn't put a damn piece of paper or career over me in the line of importance? Where are the nurturing?

2007-10-16 20:50:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's 14 yr. old daughter has been saying how much she hates my 14 yr. old son for 2 years! He hates it. Now, they don't talk to each other at all, although they're at the same high school. Her dad says she brings stories home about my son not being enthusiastic about us moving in together and my son tells me the terrible things she says about him. My friends think his daughter is a spoiled, self-centered, brat, I'm sure his friends say equally negative things about my son. I can't see the point of putting these two together! My boyfriend says things will be rough but will work out. I am widowed, my son & I get along very well and have a very calm household. The daughter goes back & forth each week (mom/dad). My boyfriend and I have very different parenting styles. He bends over backwards having parties and driving her and her girlfriends around so she can be popular; I wouldn't spend my free time like that! He always has a houseful of girls, my son likes to chill. HELP!

2007-10-16 20:48:26 · 20 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my name is josh and i'm 16 i'm a very smart young man if i do say so myself but even if i'm as smart i'am theres no one out there who will listen to me or or if they do they think i'm jokeing.well this no joke i need someones help i need to know how i can show them i'm right and even if they are right some of the time i need to find that out on my own (that is how you get smarter u know) this is my life my story and i wanna be the one to live it so someone help

2007-10-16 20:46:09 · 14 answers · asked by josh g 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband keeps calling me a liar and I can prove to him that I am right... am I being over sensitive by being highly pissed off right now?

2007-10-16 20:41:46 · 24 answers · asked by yourbigsis 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When I wake up in the morning and when he comes back from work, my husband puts me down.
He calls me names like
stupid
dumb
useless
f****en lady
other people have better wives
you aren't smart
ugly lady
etc etc etc

Day after day it wears me down. I don't know how to react. I just feel hurt. I can aggree that I am not a good wife. I am always tired and weak and Iv'e been sick since we married, (I got pregnant). I had one sickness after the other. Boils, Pneumonia, anemia, hypothyroid and on top of having a baby. I don't cook very much. I don't wash the clothes often enough.
I don't work and get paid. What do you all think?

2007-10-16 20:39:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know traditionally there are several 'guidelines' 10% of annual salary or 2 months salary ... what is reasonable? And I am not talking about cheap stuff - something you would find at EE Robbins, Shane Co (Seattle area stores) ... your reputable engagement ring store.

Any suggestions/recommendations toward price/cost? We looked at a ring (for fun) at Tiffany - think it was 2karat for 87k ... she was laughing at my gasp for air. Didn't know if she was just messing with me or if there was a bit of seriousness to this!

2007-10-16 20:07:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is this possible?

2007-10-16 20:06:38 · 15 answers · asked by logan_1_0_1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had said that i needed someone who would want to be my friend being divorced and have had gone through a bad marriage, but people can be so mean in their reply. if only any one of those people had gone through even half of what i had been through i wouldn't know how they would go on with their lives now. if any of you can't say something good then DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL! coz you really don't have the right to put anyone down. take a good look at yourself in the mirror, you are not perfect yourself. i could even write a book on all i've been through and it's hard to want to get back into a normal world when you're so afraid of even simple things in life because of a bad experience. so please all you out there, try to be kind to those who need it. if animals can care, why can't we???

2007-10-16 19:59:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is there a legal avenue for a person making a verbal aggreement and accepting ring for encagement and marriage and backing out twice.

2007-10-16 19:56:03 · 6 answers · asked by Douglas D MacPherson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do u think a kid could actually hate their parents or one of them? or do u think they can only dislike them cause deep down they love them even though they are mad?

2007-10-16 19:53:00 · 13 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Family

READ my previous questions for the story! And yes i know ive asked this already. I just Anyway, she says that i said that the guy told me that she was all over him. THATS FALSE. but her friend told my cousin that he left and went on the couch cuz my girl was a touching him in the bed. It turns out that she didnt and that he was just sick. But all i did was ask her if the rumor was true and ask her friend and the guy. She wont even talk to me. She says "Youre a LIAR" i dont believe u anymore! I guess i should have looked into it more before confronting her. I was the one person she could trust before. And she thinks that i made this all up to get everyone mad so that she would come talk to me or sumthing stupid like that. I just want to say sorry, but she wont let me talk to her. In about a week, im gonna ask her roommate to put my flowers and a card on her bed. What should i write in the card. All i wanna say is that im so sorry for causing drama cuz everyone somehow found out about i

2007-10-16 19:49:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1.5 yr past to get marry,but since starting i m facing problem Husband is so rude he & his family so awkward behavior with me they don't tell directly about dowry but they generally told me in tonting way.I m wroking woman & gave them much amount to clear bills e1 i paid all charges for house.also give gifts and loan amount on my friend(female) name.But what he did he always kept favor of his family and they torched me too much e1 they didn't provides meals which i provided them.toting,commenting abusive language they used.Its not enough they on my marriage aniversary he avoid me and took dinner with his rest family.On that they torcher me very much dan wot i did just cut my hands,legs,neck by knife after seen this they tried to took me police station not e1 hospital.on dat that i left his house forever but divorce is still pending.I want to give him lesson,I don't want to go back.MY family is in same city.but they told me wot should I do??

2007-10-16 19:42:58 · 8 answers · asked by MR 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How are you supposed to find the right one for you? I am sick and tired of trying to change my self.... why can't i just be who i am and like it? so what if i am not the skinniest, smartest, most athletic or beautiful girl there is? Why can't i just be happy with that?
I keep trying to change myself because sometimes i feel i am a loner... i just keep to myself and am shy! sometimes i am ok with that and other times i wish i could talk to more people and make more friends! i think my deepest fear is i will never find someone that loves me... a man, that i love and will love me and take care of me... i am only inhigh school, but i really do fear that i will have to pretend to be someone i am not to find my true love....
What should i do? and why is this happening? am i really just not good enough?

2007-10-16 19:41:29 · 9 answers · asked by Seriously though... 1 in Singles & Dating