Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

Me (bride) Ivory dress with possiable purple accents, carring red and purple flowers. Groom-black suit, white shirt with purple/red boutiener. Is this way off or workable?

2007-10-16 14:37:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been with her for 5 years, last friday she asked me to leave. She didnt give a reason really, we have been fighting a little the last week though. I have been going there but no answer, calling and no answer. I took all my clothes with me. Left all the furniture. Now I talk to here tonight and she said she will call me when she feels like it. What does that mean?.......I asked if I could come see her and she says she doesnt want me right now. WTF is this? Should I wait a month and let her find someone else or should I keep calling and knocking on her door?

2007-10-16 14:37:15 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 14:35:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who doesn't do anything serious, but does a lot of little stupid sh*t that adds up. Let's say I'm going to bed, and I ask him to lower the volume on the TV. He'll turn it UP and sit there with a self-satisfied smirk on his face! Or....he'll flush the toilet while I'm in the shower, so the water gets really hot really fast. I think he does it on purpose sometimes!
Other than giving up and living in a bubble somewhere, what can I do???

2007-10-16 14:34:04 · 21 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 14:33:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hey I see this girl often and she looks at me and I look back. I mean she is always eyeing me and when I look at her she turns her face. Sometimes when our eyes meet I can tell that she's interested. How do I get a chance to talk to her, when there's no good reason to talk to her. What would I say??? Please Help!!!

2007-10-16 14:31:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok he is a catholic and I am a jehovah witness, but i really do love him and i want to be with him but my religion requirement is to marry someone in my religion, and its so hard to let him him go cause he love me for me no matter what, he is even willing to have a personal study with a sevant of jehovah witness to be with me. so i kinda dumped him today because of my religion, but then he cried his heart to me and told me he wants to be with me and said he would do anything to be with me. so what do you think we should do about this relationship?

2007-10-16 14:30:40 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay... well, my boyfriend and I.. we've been perfect for the past few months now.. and just like yesterday he starts to avoid me and not talk to me. I've tried talking to him, texting him, calling him everything. He won't talk to me. I haven't done anything, absolutely nothing that could've upset him. I really don't know what to do. I've tried having my friends talk to him too. None of it works. He just ignores my calls and everything. I absolutely love him to death and don't know why he's treating me this way.......... Help please..

2007-10-16 14:30:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which one, and why?

2007-10-16 14:30:17 · 10 answers · asked by <3 2 in Singles & Dating

What happened if a couple live together before getting married? I had a very bad experiences and regret to let my bf moved in with me, I lost all my respect to him... now we are breaking up..... I am not sure if this is my problem or it is just not a good idea to live together before married? Please share your experiences. Thanks.

2007-10-16 14:28:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like I'm judged as boring, nice, safe right from the beginning. Women, I have come to understand, don't take much time to get to know a man. The man has to be instant entertainment, and move quick, or she may lose interest. I'm just not that way. I'm cautious. The extent of my flirting is talking with a girl. I'm not all hard up for sex (most of the time). I am really nice. I don't like conflict (but will defend myself if pushed). I think highly of myself. I'm great looking (no arrogance intended). I have high expectations, and strong dreams. I play piano and sing. I feel that I'm particularly a good catch, except for maybe my present living situation, which will change. I'm not here to impress anyone, nor grovel at a beautiful girl's feet. I'm looking for mutual attraction, and a sweet, affection, long-term relationship.

2007-10-16 14:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

future.............how can I prevent a future affair, because youth and beauty are two of my husband's downfalls and this girl is sinful..........

2007-10-16 14:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

were happy? A celebrity said he would be married until it didn't work anymore....he was a newlywed.

Discounting any kind of abuse....what do vows mean?

2007-10-16 14:26:48 · 10 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Please read this before making snap judgments.

My best friend, her boyfriend, my boyfriend, and I used to go on countless double dates.

Ever since my boyfriend and I broke up, nothing has changed and I'm now a third wheel for my best friend and her boyfriend.

Lately I've had some strong feelings for her boyfriend.
He's pretty much one of my best friends, too.

Now, I avoid them so I don't have to see their PDA and because I feel terrible about it.

I don't know what to do.

I've tried everything from avoiding him to going out with someone else to replace him.

The feelings just won't go away.

What would you do?

It's so hard when they talks to me about her problems with him, or how much she loves him, or vice versa.

I just don't know what to do anymore.

2007-10-16 14:26:05 · 7 answers · asked by anon 4 in Singles & Dating

I got told that I should do this but I only got one answer. Make a long story short: I am a senior in college, chicks run away from me, that is they dont want to talk to me or be friends with me. i shower twice a day, use deodorant and keep myself in shape, but they im digustingly ugly. so here is a photo of me:

http://img339.imageshack.us/img339/817/img1685jj4.jpg

do i need to get plastic surgery or what?

2007-10-16 14:25:30 · 31 answers · asked by djmixah7 3 in Singles & Dating

I was asked to homecoming by one of my friendsfrom another school. The dance came and went and i had a great time and he said he had fun as well.
well i was looking at his myspace [cuz he updated it] and he was talking to the girl about how he was bored at the dance becuase i was "follow-ish". idk here's what he wrote her
"but yea.
not many people knew bout her.
and yea, homecomin kinda sucked.
like, the day was fun, but the dance was boring.
my date was so..follow-ish..if you get what i mean...?
like, i like her and all, but i felt bad cause i kinda wanted to hangout with my friends, and like, when people like you saw me and said hi and gave me a hug, i really didnt mind, cause you guys are cool, but like i kinda felt bad for my date.
if you know what i mean."
i mean i dont get it. like he said he had fun. and then he said that. i mean it wasnt my school so i only knew a few people and so i guess i was followish. i havent talked to him really since my friend just died.

2007-10-16 14:25:21 · 1 answers · asked by Emilee O 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with him for 3 years...I love him and I know he loves me...we have gone through alot and have stayed together when people around us have done everything they could to tear us apart...He is a wonderful person and I want to stay the rest of my life with him and he wants to be with me for the rest of his life...
my only concern is that my mother doesn't like him...she has no actual reasons...I was thinking of moving out and then letting her know because I know that if I tell her in advanced she will do everything in her power to make me stay...I know she is my mother and I respect her concern but I would like to make my own desicions and I would like for her to understand and see what I see...how wonderful my boyfriend is...

2007-10-16 14:24:56 · 7 answers · asked by Gordita de Oro 4 in Singles & Dating

not what you do after but what you do on the date?

2007-10-16 14:24:19 · 19 answers · asked by Atotalcutie 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiancée and I are trying to determine how to make reference to my late father on our wedding invitations. We do not want to give the impression that my father is alive and inviting guests to the wedding. Any suggestions?
Thank you.

2007-10-16 14:23:39 · 10 answers · asked by Stefan MK 1 in Weddings

My friend and I have a crush on the same guy. But I know this guy inside and out, as well as he knows me inside and out. But my friend has a crush (only smaller) on the same guy. I have a class with him every day + lunch and she has a different class with him + lunch too. I take violin classes together and we're playing at the Fiddling Festival together. But I'm afraid that even though he's my good friend, my friend might take him away. He seems to be flirting with both of us a lot, and doing strange things like waiting for me at the door at the violin classes, and then doing weird and random things to my friend. I'm so confused. My friend already has another crush on a different guy, so she's pretty much all set for guys. But how do I catch this guy's attention, without the direct approach (will you go out with me; i like you) ? I need help, now!

2007-10-16 14:23:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had predictable sex with a significant other?
I mean a sex life where you knew exactly what he or she would do next to get you to sleep with them. What did you do to change the predictability? Or did you?

I like spontaneity where I have no idea what is going to happen. It makes the day/night more exciting. Something new, something fresh, you know?

2007-10-16 14:22:16 · 4 answers · asked by no 3 in Singles & Dating

ok. my friends want me to meet this guy that lives like behind me in a circle (his name is bruce), they say he is really cute and my friend has really good taste. anyway, im really shy sooo wat should i do?? i dont want to be awkward or anything...were the same age. i really want to talk to him online first. but guys, what should i do!!??

2007-10-16 14:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 14:20:40 · 7 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok i have another question,
Well for the last question i posted up this girl said i was Crazy or whatever. well anways
This guy i met @ my school won`t leave me alone.
Yeah i used to like him alot
But then it just went away!
I want him to stop calling me and just leave me alone
But i`m afraid too because i don`t want to hurt him.
What should i do?! To make it sound not so bad about it?
Please no rude comments!

2007-10-16 14:18:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had this mexican girlfriend a few yrs back and we dated for 6 months and not sex in that time. she's catholic and her brother told me i dated her only b/c white guys only date mexican females for sex. her brother didnt like me

2007-10-16 14:18:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean i love her with my whole heart. But i mean i hate that she has been with other dudes. i mean i have been wit other woman. but sheesh. what should i do not to worry.

2007-10-16 14:17:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm married for past 25 years, but recently separated and contemplating divorce for good reason. I met this married man, and we got along great. Saw eachother everyday for several minutes and then started to realize that he was more interested than just a hello here and there. He approached me and we started talking over the phone. He told me he had a serious crush on me, which I didn't really know. Well, soon after that we got intimate (please don't judge, these things happen). It started getting really deep and he backed off, saying that we have such a strong connection and we should just be friends (which I agree, we have such a bond). Ok...no intimacy although conversations get deep sometimes. Didn't see eachother for several months as I relocated. But continued talking everyday over the phone. Saw eachother a handful of times. The one time we met for several hours just hanging out and having lunch, it got really heated and things happened again.

2007-10-16 14:16:50 · 17 answers · asked by BluePassion 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I was grounded like 2 weeks ago cause of my grades but now that they have improved I STILL cant go to this bday party my friend reallly wants me to go to! i am so PISSED!!!!!!!!! please help me get my anger out, i feel like i wanna commit suicide. (not really, jk)

2007-10-16 14:15:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Have you have to live in #ell ,cause you had to much to lose????

2007-10-16 14:15:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Was it a complete surprise? Or did you have an idea? Or was it more planned? Just Curious.

2007-10-16 14:15:15 · 26 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Weddings