Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

Will you be my boyfriend?

2007-10-16 14:14:33 · 21 answers · asked by mabekah m 2 in Singles & Dating

I got a new job and met a guy. He seemed into me; asked me for my number, said I was pretty and called me that same night and we talked until 3am. That's how it started. Off and on we text each other and at first, it was him more than me, and I liked the attention.
Then, he said I got clingy, which i can't really deny. We had only one official date before it turned into what seemed like straight booty calls. I kind of got the idea, but everytime i would stop talking to him, he'd say he missed me or something like that and made me think, O, maybe he's not just a booty call. I'd fall for it everytime too.
Then I quit my job to look for a better job and higher pay. 4 days after i quit, I came back to talk to someone about a new position that opened. Apparently, the guy i hooked up with told this girl we slept together 4x (it was 2) and i quit because of him, and I was too clingy. Why would he just tell someone that? should i confront him? get even? still be friends? I'm mad...

2007-10-16 14:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by Jane D. 2 in Singles & Dating

me and fiancee are getting married mid next year. sometime in the summer. and we were thinking of places to go for our honeymoon. we were thinking of the bahamas. or somewhere in the carribean. where else is a good place to go. please list at least 2-3 choices. thanks.

2007-10-16 14:13:37 · 9 answers · asked by william riveley 1 in Weddings

2007-10-16 14:13:08 · 26 answers · asked by James the Just 3 in Singles & Dating

im 15. my bf never calls me & never spends time with me. its been 2 months. he has been busy. i hate it. i cry for him everyday cuz i miss him. i call & he doesnt answer. he always has an excuse not to see me. he isnt dating someone else. how can i make him call me? someone has to make him call.

2007-10-16 14:04:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-16 14:04:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you like a girl what do u do to make sure she knows you like her?

2007-10-16 14:04:05 · 8 answers · asked by Atotalcutie 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious :) I'm not trying to say it shouldn't be that way, but I just want to know the right answer.

2007-10-16 14:04:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having a first date with someone tomorrow. We're meeting for the first time over lunch. He invited and chose the place and time. What should I do or not do when the check arrives? I want things to go smoothly. PLEASE HELP.

2007-10-16 13:59:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm disabled my husband is an acholoic. I want to get a divorce. can he make me pay half of the bills we owe with me disabled on social security. I also will have my 12 year old son with me. please help

2007-10-16 13:57:38 · 5 answers · asked by diaerwin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How does she know that? I mean how would anyone know what someone else did in the shower? She checks the shower and watches him and goes "OH, no he is peaing in the shower."
They were advised to see a marriage counselor. So this man has to tell a marriage counselor which is probably a women.
what he does. Hay, man stop it or tell your wife to get a hobby.
Do not have a wife but how many out there do and this is a problem? Are women actually that controlling?
She was complaining how he washed? Come on ladies.
Is this necessary that you give us a how to wash class when we get married?

2007-10-16 13:56:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know everyone is first attracted to someone by their looks.
but if you get to know someone, and you really like them, but they're not good-looking...
will you not be with them?
there is absolutely no reason behind this question.
just curious.
i want to see if you will be honest or not.

2007-10-16 13:56:51 · 5 answers · asked by Jenny Jean 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 13:53:17 · 20 answers · asked by . 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Afterwork? The weekend? In a letter?

2007-10-16 13:51:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy and i have been friends on and off all throughout high school. we graduated. during high school though, we had a close relationship but the closest we got to being physical is hugging. we liked each other at one point but it fell through. we reconnected (after not talking for two years) a couple of months ago. i went to a college far away and he stayed at home. he has a gf. but tonight we talked and we said we loved one another. i love him not as if i want to be with him but just...idk. neither one of us could explain it. comments?

2007-10-16 13:50:45 · 10 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl i met while working at my old summer job a year and half ago. i never thought we would talk outside of work. We have hunged out, we have gone to parties. we have watched movies alone, she came to my soccer games. she gets upset if we cannot hang out or somethin comes up when if she cannot hang out with me. Last year she came to my formal as my date. she had a lot of fun. she is in college herself. she always takes off of work whenever i come up to visit her, and after work she will hang out with me while im there. she was pissed this summer that we didnt get a chance to hang out a lot like she wanted us to. whenever she is upset or has a problem she would call me. we talk whenever were on aim all the time. we both have recently talked about startin to date. I would like to date her and make her my gf. does she like me? what should i do? what should i say to her?

2007-10-16 13:49:19 · 15 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

If a girl is freaky in bed, in spite of being previously a virgin, and is up for experimenting, being dirty, sending dirty texts, will you not take her seriously, even if she makes you laugh, carries a decent conversation, reads the newspaper, and has a life that revolves around something other than your cock...?

Thanks! Advice is always great, I love you guys!!!

2007-10-16 13:47:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i have the biggest crush on this guy from my college. we're friends with benefits (minus sex) but i like him so much more. like today we had a class together and afterwards we went to lunch together and then back to his place where we just took a nap together. we didn't kiss or do anything sexual...we just held each other. he kept asking me what i was thinking about but i obviously couldn't tell him but i've told him how much i like him a bunch of times. and everytime i see him i get "butterflies". how lame is that, lol. but he says he doesn't want a serious relationship right now but i want to fight it. it's so frustrating. advice? comments?

2007-10-16 13:47:01 · 2 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

He looks at other young women alot., he is enthralled by them and when he gets to know a girl, he is enthralled by her personality. He just loves women too much. HELP !

2007-10-16 13:44:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister and i got in a really nasty arguement today. She blocked the door so i couldnt go to my room so i pushed her out of the way and she punched me twice in the face. What should i do?? file a report? restraining order? i dont feel safe living with her anymore...HELP!!!!

2007-10-16 13:41:09 · 16 answers · asked by Ray 1 in Family

I'm going to have a first date with someone I've just met very recently, but who could be someone I'd want to have a stable long-term relationship with. As such, I want to take things slow, meaning I want to delay the intimacy as long as possible so we can really get to know whether we're otherwise compatible first. Any tips on the best way to do that while keeping him interested?

2007-10-16 13:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-16 13:40:33 · 16 answers · asked by Mario11 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked him if he was dating another person. he said no. but now im thinking about dating another man myself. should i update him about it? i really like him but like he said we are just dating and i want to know whats out there. any thoughts?

2007-10-16 13:39:49 · 31 answers · asked by chloë 2 in Singles & Dating

When start be a friend we very closed, happy, no secret and can trust each other. After a few month, they went out secretly, and talked secretly. When they need help, they will very good to me, talked to me and invite me for lunch. Just because of they need my help to get job for them. When they know the management is not approve, they start not invite me anymore and didnt call me. They direct call the management to get the job. They realy make me like a fool and feel hurt. I know its a small matter and dont think too much.Just be happy.
It is friendship always like that? cannot be forever?

2007-10-16 13:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by Lysa 1 in Friends

Okay, this might be kind of wierd...but...
I got to my grandmas fri.-Tues.
Well, todays Tuseday, I got to my house.
My grandma bought me a Nintendo DS lite, and some games.
But my grandma doesen't want me to bring it home.
Why? She thinks my two younger sisters will fight or, break it.
They have done that before, but to little things, such as sunglasses, my radio. But accidently, and when I am not around.
But if I play with it, and tell my mom to not let them mess with it, then theres know way they can break it. My mom said herself, she isen't allowring them to touch my things, anymore. And we're all home at the same time.
I told my grandma, this but she till says no. I ask her everyweek....-No!
Besides, I enjoy my DS, and honestly, I have nothing else to do at home.
My mom wont tell my grandma, and my grandma bought it for me too.

So its up to my grandma, to say yes. No one else.
How can I get my grandma to let me bring it home?

2007-10-16 13:35:36 · 3 answers · asked by This Account is not active 2 in Family

I have a serious problem. My sister is giving cough syrup to her children at night to make them go to sleep. I feel like this is serious child abuse, and could cause serious problems to their health. I am afraid of the consequences this could have on them in the future. I'm not sure if I should call CPS or not. Is their any other agency I can call?

2007-10-16 13:35:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-16 13:31:22 · 38 answers · asked by sport 2 in Weddings

Here is my last question/comment......
Ok. Here is the story. I am really against abortions and one of our friends is pregnant and is going to get an abortion. I text her and tell her that she will regret it. Told her that I know people that have gotten them and never forgive themselves for it. We went back and forth and got kinda heated. We have not gotten along cuz she sticks her noise where is doesnt belong when it comes to talking to my husband. Anyways i told him that we got in a huge blow out with eachother and dont want him to talk to her anymore. He wasnt supposed to be anyways. To put a very long story short she forwarded a message to him that i wrote her and he called me a b-itch! He admitted to it but kept saying stuff he didnt say when i had proof he said it. Not anything bad like calling me a b-itch but to me lying in a marriage is not a marriage. He is saying sorry and to not leave him but this just put me over the edge this time and i dont know what to do.....

2007-10-16 13:30:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is a guy that I am kind of into. Not exactly sure though because I don't know him well enough. He seems like he is interested also though because when I am around him he acts all nervous and I see him lookin at me a lot and there are some other things also. But anyways the other day he was walking with my friend and was askin him if i liked him and my friend said yes.Then he saw me at my locker and told my friend to put his arm around him to try and make me weirded out that he seemed pretty tight with my friend. and according to my friend he got all self concious and nervous in the process (and from my point of view he looked pretty moronic) afterwards my friend asked him if he was into me also, after his little display of "coolness" and he said not really. Then today after that happend he didnt look at me at all and even moved his seat so that his back was to me instead of facing me in a class that we have together...???? I do not understand this AT ALL...

2007-10-16 13:30:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting married in 3 weeks. The wedding is in another country so my family and I have to travel to it. WE wanted a SMALL wedding, but her family is forcing us to have a large wedding. Her family told us that we can do the invitations (nothing else has been our choice). After finishing all 500! invites her parents asked for. They tossed them out and said they were garbage, said they looked to cheap, and have since started redoing them. But only redoing 250. But my fiance and I were happy with them. we worked very hard doing them by ourselves. The problem is mostly her father, hes been pushing us both around and not letting us make choices and seems to see the reception more as an event for his reputation. My question is... should decisions on things like this be up to her family, if me AND her both disagree with them along with my family. My family also paid for the invites... It is our wedding, shouldn't we have a say regardless of who pays for the reception

2007-10-16 13:28:53 · 15 answers · asked by shock3582000 1 in Weddings