Family & Relationships - 20 October 2007

thats 18 mnths.... how long after your engagement did you get married?

2007-10-20 23:42:12 · 23 answers · asked by momma-to-morgan 3 in Weddings

2007-10-20 23:40:53 · 16 answers · asked by momma-to-morgan 3 in Weddings

if it sounds too good to be true, is it too good to be true? what is the status of her relationship? btw, she has been with him for around 7 year years, married for a couple

2007-10-20 23:28:18 · 19 answers · asked by teh smooth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I posted a question regarding my being an older virgin recently and most of the results were positive and that's encouraging.

I still can't help but be depressed though. Science says that a male's sexual peak is in his late teens to early 20's.... so according to science, I've already missed out on the best sex of my life and from here on out it's only downhill. Oh boy!

I can blame it on my depression.. or my lack of self esteem.. or my shyness and in the end these all likely played a part.. but in the end excuses are just that... an excuse and I need to accept the fact that my current situation is my own fault.

I have genuine worries about a woman being able to accept my virgin status and on top of that wouldn't even know where to begin once it became time for sex.

I feel so inadequate that it's laughable. I feel not only that I'm a loser because of my situation, but sometimes feel I shouldn't even exist because of it.

2007-10-20 23:19:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey,theres this girl that i see at a regular function that i really like, and think she likes me also,but need someone to help me know if she does or not, problem being, this function ends in another week, so i wont be seeing her for like another 2 years if i dont do anything!and dont wnna miss out on something really good. Basically i always seem to catch this girl glazing back at me at regular periods during the function(but only when shes not within close distance from me), its kind of like a look up, and as soon as she sees me looking back at her she turns away,but as soon as im in her face at close distance(cause we hand out things at this funtion), she will look in either direction but me, and then when i pass her, after a few meters and can catch her staring again at times. Im really open guy, and always make her friends laugh with things i do, but i tried my all to make her but she jst never looks at me when im in front of her. I wnt to ask her out and need advi

2007-10-20 23:15:05 · 11 answers · asked by dinnn 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I sorta like this guy.

He is sensative, funny and pretty smart. Very good at basketball and running. He has the cutiest laugh and we do flirt quite a bit sometimes. Should I go for it or just lay off?

2007-10-20 23:06:51 · 6 answers · asked by mandy ; 2 in Singles & Dating

I met my wife in china. Shortly after we got married, I had come back to the states to work. Now there is something makes me don't feel comfortable. My wife doesn't want people around her to know that she has married, she told me not to visit her at work when I go to china to see her this coming Dec. She also ask me to trust her. Now she still talks to her old boyfriend, she want me to understand that there is nothing between them, they are just friends... hell, that's not the girl I think I knew before, what should do? What does it mean?Please give me some suggestions. Thanks! jk

2007-10-20 22:49:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...or having to wait 5 years to date again, which would you choose?

2007-10-20 22:46:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We definitely want to give check. Just wondering about correct wording so that couple has not problems cashing it. Is "Mr. & Mrs. John Smith" o.k. or would it be better to use "John Smith and/or Ann Miller" or "Mr. & Mrs. Smith-Miller". Not sure if bride is keeping maiden name.

2007-10-20 22:40:44 · 8 answers · asked by Tanya 1 in Weddings

I am 24 from the uk, i have known i was adopted all my life, i found alot more out about the adoption when i was 18. the thing is it is a very strange situation because.... my dad was sent to prison for living off imorall earnings and my mother was a prostitute, this is why i was not aloud to stay with them, i also have 3 brothers and 2 sisters non of witch i know details of.
i have searched and came to a dead end regarding my parents but due to the nature of why i was adopted shoud i???? please help me out, any good websites for finding them etc, or eaven should i?

2007-10-20 22:34:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i recently had break up with my g/f simply because our family opposed the relation. we wanted to get married but consition is worsed now. we are not on talking terms since 6 months. what to do i love her and want her back in my life. i feel very lonely and dont want to get married with any other gal. moreover, we will not marry against the will of our family...............life sucks!

2007-10-20 22:33:14 · 9 answers · asked by butter-boy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean like...say this guy just appraoches u and starts chatting with u....in ur mind, do u think "he approached me cause he finds me attractive so thats lame".
does that happen? or am i paranoid

2007-10-20 22:31:21 · 3 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't know why the ratio of divorce rate is so high in america.
why the american's won't think a lasting relationship.if parents took divorce altimately the victims are childrens.i think in every realtionship some problems are there but divorce is not a good solution.why the american's won't sacrifice thier life to their family.before marriage we should know each other and love each other.

2007-10-20 22:28:30 · 12 answers · asked by p.praveen b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so why?

2007-10-20 22:28:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi

I am a single man in my early thirties and haven't had much luck with women in my life. After thinking for a while, I have decided I want to take the exciting journey of parenting and become single dad. I would like to seek some advice on how I can have a child of my own. I want to become full time dad and want a child to carry my genes. Adoption and surrogacy are not the options for me.

Is it possible to help a girl/women financially who needs it and she can help me giving a kid. If we can enter into any arrangement.

I have heard such arrangements can be made with Russian girls. Does anyone know anymore about this or any other resources/information.

Would appreciate any genuine advice I can get from here.

Regards
Joe

2007-10-20 22:27:20 · 5 answers · asked by daniele_joe 1 in Singles & Dating

I have read that the natural biological urges of the woman only guarantee a four-year period of fidelity with each man. Any exceptions are only because of extreme will power on her part and/or a disenchantment with romance. Is this true?

2007-10-20 22:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i see this girl around town pretty often lately. twice in a row, she stared me right in the eyes over and over.

since then, i often see her walking down the street when i'm at this one cafe. but, i don't know her name and don't know how i should approach her. if she were *at* that cafe (seen her there before, but not recently), it'd be easy, but she's just walking by.

what should i do? just wait till she shows up at that cafe again, or something else? help!

2007-10-20 22:25:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 22:21:59 · 22 answers · asked by Louise H 3 in Singles & Dating

I came home from work yesterday to find my wife in bed with the neighbour...who just happens to be female. She promised me she'd stop her bisexual activities. Am I wrong to consider this a betrayal ?

2007-10-20 22:17:59 · 32 answers · asked by Mr X 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you found it? Or do you think you settled? What are your stories?

2007-10-20 22:14:39 · 17 answers · asked by מימי 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just because he used to babysit her children all the time when he was living under the same roof, she expects us to do the same even when he's gotten married & has moved out. It's perfectly alright to help her out for a few hours but it's usually for a couple of days when she follows her husband on business trips.I think it's really selfish of her to ask us to leave our house & move into theirs to watch over her house & kids when they are, in fact old enough to take care of themselves. Everytime I try to talk to my husband about this, he gets defensive & we'll get into an arguement.How can I turn her down or tell her that it's not right without hurting my husband's feelings?

2007-10-20 22:12:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well, you see, I'm crazy about family trees. What's your age?

2007-10-20 22:09:36 · 10 answers · asked by Sarazeen 3 in Family

2007-10-20 21:49:07 · 18 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would you seek to have it legally changed, or keep it?

2007-10-20 21:48:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-20 21:44:14 · 9 answers · asked by rahavard 1 in Singles & Dating

well, we live in diferent countries me and my wife, not cus we chosed too but the immigration are crazy, i didnt have sex since mid june, i had lot lot opportunities to sleep with girls, but i am always run away and find excuses, i dont care if they say i am gay, yeah i admit its hard, but since i have the will, i will be able to do it, and what motivates me more is we are having a baby, so i am more and more willing to be loyal,
dont you think people should learn from me?

2007-10-20 21:32:21 · 9 answers · asked by zakk 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't even know which company's mobile or landline is being used. Its in Delhi. Its a lost friend... an old flame... was in my class. Perhaps still lives in Jyoti Apartments, Pitam Pura, Delhi, India.

Thank u.

2007-10-20 21:30:29 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

Is it ok for a person to change their spouse to "help them grow up"? Is it ok for them to make them change their habits and friends because they were a "waste of time"? In a marriage such as that, would trying to work it out still be the right thing? How would you be able to work it out when the changes would still be there and the unhappiness with it? If anyone has seen some sort of book on this topic, that would be greatly appreciated as well. thank you.

2007-10-20 21:29:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 21:26:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 21:22:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce