Family & Relationships - 20 October 2007

long distance relationship. he was leaving friday night

"just finished with dinner. now on a tram home. changed my flight this evening too tomorrow morning."

2007-10-20 02:57:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a female 21 and not been in a relationship before.
I've sometimes wondered if i was bi. I have done some stupid things while under the influence of alcohol with males n females.
I dont seem to want to be in one- why? is there a problem with me- what could it be?
I much prefer being on my own than with other people.
I am worried cos I want to eventually get married to a man but I'm worried that lack of experience and things like that will put them off.
I am a worrier with work and uni. I think i lack confidence i wouldnt say I am ugly, i am average height n weight but have aa boobs.
It's like I've just got some underlying problem i cant make out or something.
When i was about 4 my dad was away 6months of my life and when i was 10 i think my mum was having an affair while my dad was on night shifts.
I want to be normal- what's wrong with me?! Is there a website you could put me on with like conditions i could have!!! lol
i feel i lack feelings aswell sometimes. thanks

2007-10-20 02:57:07 · 9 answers · asked by tongo86 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How could the woman you have been married to for over a decade, started a family with and truly adore; say the most hurtful words to you? Based on the way she "feels". I have never laid a hand on her, or cursed her. I have addressed previous concerns that she has presented to me (Friends, spending time, etc.). All to no avail. The only thing that I can come up with is that she wants to split up, however she denies that, but I'm told that I must want to. Then, after a couple of days, no sort of apology, except for, "I wasn't trying to hurt you". No retraction on the vile words that she said. As a matter of fact, tells me that she meant them. I am truly stunned and confused about how to proceed forward with this marriage. She says she does not want to split up. Give me a break, if I were to say the things that she said to me to her; there would be a major shakeup in my home. Please give me the skinny. How do I proceed forward with this 'Sybil' situation?

2007-10-20 02:56:49 · 12 answers · asked by 2blessed2bdissed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in charge of finding a place for my friends wedding, something not too pricey and where the ceremony and reception can both be held. Does and have any suggestions?

2007-10-20 02:56:10 · 6 answers · asked by Sheyla 1 in Weddings

When you see my name (hisgirlnextdoor), what do you think? Like, what's the first thing that pops into your head? =] serious answers only please!

2007-10-20 02:45:46 · 15 answers · asked by julia 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

really serious about this. He has stable job so do I but I guess I have more earnings than him. If not is this something about security?

2007-10-20 02:45:43 · 3 answers · asked by yness 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have to ask.....They were talking about the law that is in some states where one spouse can sue the mistress or lover of the hubby/wife..If you watched it what do you think about it and making it a common law among all states?
You think it is fair to only be able to sue the person with whom they are sleeping with or should they be able to sue hubby/wife too? Cause what if they didn't tell the lover they were married?
That one woman sued for 500,000.00 and settled for 50,000.00
Think less people would cheat?
And no I am not cheating just wanted to know what everyone thought about this......

2007-10-20 02:44:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 02:15:14 · 1 answers · asked by bruce 1 in Singles & Dating

My 2 brothers are 36 & 41 and still living at home with my 70 year old mother in a 2 bedroom trailer. One is a raging alcoholic and the other is simply lazy. Both expect my mother to take care of them financially and be their maid to cook and clean for them. She lives on Social Security and is in debt up to her eyeballs. Inevitably each month she comes crying to me or my older brother to help her financially. We both have families of our own to care for and don't have any spare money to give away.My deadbeat brothers have 4 kids between them under the age of 16 and now our mom is feeding and allowing them to stay over for extended periods of time.The 16 year old has quit school and stays on the computer all the time getting into trouble. We have tried everything, but Mom has beginnings of Alzheimers and is childlike herself now. They have stolen from her repeatedly or bullied her into giving them her check. We have tried helping them get a job, housing, cars, etc.. Nothing works! Help!

2007-10-20 02:15:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I posted a question a few days back about a girl that I have only known for a few mos. asked me to be in her wedding and it is costing me an arm and a leg and she is treating me like a piece of crap. Ok...now there is another girl at work that is getting married and I have a huge feeling that she is going to aske me to be in HER wedding. How do I turn her down politely? Money shouldn't be an issue in this wedding because I don't think she is doing anything elaborate. So I don't think that me not being able to afford it would be a good excuse. I really like her but I just don't want to be in another wedding. Please offer some ways to turn her down easy and still keep her respect and keep her as a friend at work.

2007-10-20 02:14:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well I was with this guy for about a month and a half-2 months then broke up with him because I wanted to be single reallllly badly. I mean don't get me wrong... he was sooo sweet..and i still liked him after i did. Now 6 months later.(btw i'm 14) I like him more than ever..but..we're both have commitment issues.. We know that if we got back together it'd be for a loooong time...cuz..we dont believe in short term stuff. I really want to be with him but....I just don't know if it's right for me...help..?

2007-10-20 02:07:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't seen them in two weeks however the last time I saw them they yelled at me and were really mean and rude...Over nothing, I had not scolded them, I had taken them shopping and had been very good to them all weekend. They got their mother involved by telling her lies, they have every idea that it is a good one to break my husband and I apart. I am really angry at them. I don't want to lower myself to their level, however how should I act when they are here. My husband doesn't like it when I go into another room and do other things when they are here, however I am still very upset. they are all teens....I love them, but I really don't like them right now and just don't know what to do.

2007-10-20 02:02:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know why they dont like them?
People dont like their looks? height? or theire Accent is that true? DOnt bring up they have small "meat" cause I changed that.

2007-10-20 01:51:56 · 21 answers · asked by Hakoo Ma Shantai 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 01:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is this some kind of trick women play on men ? i mean she gets me all work up, arguing for nothing, and end up cozying up to me, what the hell is that ? am i getting some mixed signals or something ? is she into some crazy thing like rough sex ?

2007-10-20 01:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 01:44:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

all our friends are fighting and he's in a realy mood. I don't want to deal with him today, so I'm on Yahoo.

What should I do?

2007-10-20 01:41:44 · 14 answers · asked by Fancy That 6 in Marriage & Divorce

What should i do? he stinks.

2007-10-20 01:39:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wtf man i asked her if she would please consider gettin an abortion and she said no that shes gonna have the kid

she lied to me she wasn't on the pill i better not have to pay any child support or anything this completely outrageous

u say ur on the pill but ur not can she be charged with anything and also if someone says there on the pill should they be forced by law to have an abortion if they get pregnant

that seems to make sense to me and i really don't like the feel of condoms i cant climax at all when i wear one so dont bug me about that

she said she was ont he pill i big time dont believe it cuz she says now shes pregnant this is bullcrap i aint paying a cent or wastin a minute raising that kid when it shouldn't be happening

2007-10-20 01:39:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have custody of my cousin since he was 8. He's now 13. His mom and grandmother are both deceased. He does not know who his father is and I do not know either. Since he's been in my care he's been a challenge. I have 3 other children of my own, all girls. He's older then the girls. I have always showed him love, kindness and treated him as I would my own kids. He cries when other kids picks on him and he even starts arguments with them some time then wants to play the victim role when he can't handle it. He told his school counselor he wants to kill himself. I have done all I could for him. My cousin in another city wants him to move with her. So I agreed to it. He refuses to listen to me and take my advice. He does not like to be discipline and whenever he is, he always say he wants to kill himself. He reacts so terribly in school, but at home he is the sweetest boy I have known. Am I wrong for saying enough is enough and letting him go live with his cousin?

2007-10-20 01:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by Denese 2 in Family

My dad was adopted outside of the u.s. he hasn't found his birth parents, we are pretty sure he is mixed not sure what ethnicitys though?

2007-10-20 01:04:22 · 3 answers · asked by dsdfs 1 in Family

I know some guys go all out and get a limo and take them to a fancy restauraunt. I am not one of those guys;) I don't have an issue with a nice dinner, although I drive a truck so I would have to rent a car unless they meet me there (cheesy but they live 2 miles away so maybe).

Ultimately I would just like to go over there and ask them. Actually I want to just propose and then she and I go to her parents together to get their blessing. She already said yes and I have not gotten the ring yet even....I actually only want to ask the parents because they would like it not because I need it.

FYI they are christian...so keep that in mind...

2007-10-20 00:52:37 · 3 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 00:45:57 · 41 answers · asked by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 in Friends

2007-10-20 00:42:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How important would you say sex is in a relationship? If you're both 18. And... how many times per week is normal?

2007-10-20 00:36:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She talks to everyone else and whenever i ask her what is wrong or ask her what i have done wrong she says nothing. What do i do?

2007-10-20 00:32:34 · 12 answers · asked by Greg N 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a Bridal Registry, I know there are a few on here and many people are starting to do them they are usually free but I have not been able to find one.

I saw some that were over 500.00 and I really did not want to have to spend extra money but have family from NY to CA and they really need the Registry plus it takes a big headache off me the Bride when friends and family can just go there and see what I am up to.

I have seen all the Store Registries and this is not what I am looking for, I want a site that I can build personally and put all my info on sort of like a myspace only that people can also leave me money and purchase gifts for me from my wish list.

I have seen them but they cost so much money, they are very beautiful and it would be a lovely keepsake for me and my family to have and stay in touch since I am a year away from my wedding.

If anyone knows of a good one please let me know, thanks.

2007-10-20 00:28:32 · 7 answers · asked by jonne h 1 in Weddings

available at his resi then how will the case proceed how will she be free ??/

2007-10-20 00:25:54 · 10 answers · asked by shubha97 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 00:24:07 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know men and women can be 'friends'.. but..

Would you bother/put in effort to be a girl's 'friend' if you weren't somehow sexually attracted and maybe hoping to develop something more?

2007-10-20 00:22:01 · 6 answers · asked by grapes 2 in Singles & Dating