I am a female 21 and not been in a relationship before.
I've sometimes wondered if i was bi. I have done some stupid things while under the influence of alcohol with males n females.
I dont seem to want to be in one- why? is there a problem with me- what could it be?
I much prefer being on my own than with other people.
I am worried cos I want to eventually get married to a man but I'm worried that lack of experience and things like that will put them off.
I am a worrier with work and uni. I think i lack confidence i wouldnt say I am ugly, i am average height n weight but have aa boobs.
It's like I've just got some underlying problem i cant make out or something.
When i was about 4 my dad was away 6months of my life and when i was 10 i think my mum was having an affair while my dad was on night shifts.
I want to be normal- what's wrong with me?! Is there a website you could put me on with like conditions i could have!!! lol
i feel i lack feelings aswell sometimes. thanks
2007-10-20 02:57:07 · 9 answers · asked by tongo86 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi,theres plenty of time to find Mr Right.I married at 21 wish I had waited.
2007-10-24 02:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no tangible reasons why you think there's something wrong with you other than the fact that you don't seem to be on par with your peers relationships-wise. So what? People go through phases in their lives where they have different priorities, and it's perfectly accceptable that your priorities are not on relationships right now. That's not a character flaw; it's just a simple fact. When it's time for it to change, trust me, it will...and you'll be just as bothered and angst-ridden as anyone who's ever had the experience. So, enjoy the calm. Good luck to you.
2007-10-20 10:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you just stop thinking like this then when u finish uni you will be ready for a relation. anyway isnt uni meant to be about havin fun and gettin a degree? once u finish uni then it would probably be right for you to start looking for someone. most people has probably done something silly while drinking its ok just if its to bad - dont do it again, but have fun!! Things will plan out well for you just let it happen and dont think like this.
-Good luck-
2007-10-20 10:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r jus 21 it might be a phase that ur goin thro. Maybe the things that happened during ur childhood had some sort of an unknown effect on u & u don't realize it yet. There's nothing wrong with u, ur jus not interested at this point i ur life.
2007-10-24 09:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by black beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's normal?? just cuz someone has had relationships and those relationships are "normal" doesn't make the person normal. we all have our problems and are bizarre in one way or another.
have fun while things are fun. be careful when you go drinking. you don't want to end up regretting things you do while drunk.
eventually you'll find someone man or woman who you will be comfortable with. until then...what's the rush?
too many of those normal relationships are bogus with mates being miserable, cheating on each other, regretting their choices. that's normal. you be different.
2007-10-20 10:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by SpeedyGonz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were probably hurt in the past by seeing your mother take advantage of her relationship with your father..... I would say counseling might help or just getting out there and getting ovber it
2007-10-20 10:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just like me...the difference is i'm 17....
i think we are contented with our life so, i think the best way is let our instinct be the first priority to make decisions
2007-10-20 10:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by lost gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no thing to worry honey do some chat-shat on yahoo.& feel easy come.
2007-10-20 10:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by MS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude make ur Question smaller and ask again
2007-10-20 10:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by master2000 . 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋