Family & Relationships - 20 October 2007

I just started to like this girl the beginning of this school year. She is a very pretty 14 year old in 8th grade. Im 13 and in 8th grade too. But i dont really know if she likes me. She is very popular, where i am not. I am not the most handsome boy in school, and I think she has her eye on someone else. But I dont know if deep down, she really likes me. She is in all my classes. but really doesnt sit with me at all. or by me. but she always fools around. I think. like she says "hey honey" or she calls me her boyfriend. but how can i tell if she likes me or not? Sometimes i think she stairs at me, but i dont know if thats to see if I like her? So how can i tell?

2007-10-20 04:19:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend about 9 months now, and I love him so much. I'm currently in the process of moving in with him, and I'm very confused. I dont' know if I should move in, or if I should even be with him. Things haven't been off for a few months. I try so hard to make him happy and be a good girlfriend, but he doesn't do the same for me anymore. We never go out, he never does nice things for me, and he has no sexdrive for me at all. It makes me feel horrible. It's so hard for me, because I thought he was the love of my life.. but something tells me the love of your life wouldn't do this to you, especially when you told him how you feel and how much it hurts you several times already. I keep making excuses for him. The sex thing wouldn't be so bad if i felt loved at all. He's 26 (I'm 24) and has no sex drive. He was prescribed medicine for it, but never remembers to take it. He says he's always had libido problems, but today I found an (old?) online sex personal. Please HELP!

2007-10-20 04:19:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know aids is a given, but which ones can you catch wearing a jonny. What does a condom actually protect against. Id like to know particularly against the non-curable ones. My mate said chuck a jonny on and your good to go. Im 25 and just come out of a long baad relationship and now want to enjoy being young when i got the chance. I want to get me some young hot punanny! Yeah!

2007-10-20 04:17:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my wife have been together since teenagers and we are considering have some fun sexually with others we have been together 15 yrs and are child is older and now we get to have some fun...anyone out there that can help with advice on how the best way to approach this by the way me and willing are both in agreement on this but havent decided if another woman , and or man would be best first step!

2007-10-20 04:17:28 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Tension is high because of our money problems. We need some inspiration and motivation. Any ideas?

2007-10-20 04:10:14 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how do you make a guy want you more???

2007-10-20 04:08:45 · 8 answers · asked by STARXXX 1 in Singles & Dating

She is a really good friend of mine... but i can talk to her on the phone but not in class... niether can she.... we feel so weird around each other.... we choke while even siting next to each other in class....help me!!

2007-10-20 04:06:27 · 6 answers · asked by vanimations 1 in Friends

top during sex she says she prefers it that way to any other position, women please help me to understand why thanks

2007-10-20 04:06:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my dad does all he can to put me down and my mother hates her life and makes it known in the way she constantly whines.

I don't want to be like this when I grow up, and don't want to have kids or maybe even get married. I don't want to transfer my bitterness and frustrations onto my kids.

What do I do? if you've been in this situation and come out happy and fulfilled, please let me know how!

2007-10-20 03:58:54 · 7 answers · asked by anabanana 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

well, my husband of 18mts cheated on me and left me to live with his mistress. i have started divorce proceedings, he is not being very co-operative. child support have added an order to his wages as he was also non co-operative with them. he has had next to no contact with the children and everytime we speak we end up argueing, i have now blocked him from my messenger as im sick of the arguements. he still has my phone numbers and my email address so could contact me anytime. the answer i need is iv told him he can see his children any time he wants but he is not allowed to take them anywhere near his mistress, to which he replied im not going to stop them seeing her she is my life now. so i told him he is not allowed to take them out of the house but he could have them at my here so i can keep an eye on who sees my children. am i wrong to do this? he has said b4 he is willing to never see his children again if his mistress cant have a relationship with them. i think this is ridiculou

2007-10-20 03:56:12 · 36 answers · asked by Kristie R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i miss my mom she passed away from cancer and this was her favorite time of year. i was reading my what would you like for christmas post and all of sudden i started to miss her we used to have so much fun at this time of year. i wish she was still here

2007-10-20 03:54:51 · 39 answers · asked by jerseygirlprincess 3 in Friends

A guy tells a girl that she has to give him sex..and tries to stick his hand up her shirt and down her pants..


he tried to force my friend to give him sex!

and he broke up with her because she won't!

& he tried to put your hand down her pants..and up her shirt..AT CHURCH!

and lastyear..at a school dance..my OTHER friend..he cornered in a hallway..but he didn't do anything BECAUSE she pushed thro him and away and said she had to go really quick


can my friend take him to court? or HOW can i handle this in a good way..

i kinda already told him that if he EVER toouched one of my freinds he'd deal with me.. but that's NOT enough!

2007-10-20 03:51:55 · 7 answers · asked by Kathleen 4 in Singles & Dating

My partner and I have been deeply committed for 6 years. Due to painful emotional issues, we eventually decided that we would not marry but have tried in every way to live as though we were. My partner recently took a new job that only provides health insurance to full spouses. I work serveral part-time jobs and thus don't qualify for health insurance on my own. So we went to city hall and got married(meaning we had a judge sign our marriage licence-there was no ceremony or emotional involvment). Since it means nothing to us, we're keeping it secret so that other's won't try to make it mean something. We thought that only the book-keeper at my partner's work needed to know but now we find out his boss does too. His boss is kind of a clueless guy whose also loud and chatty. So we fear that he will make a big deal out of our "wedding" and/or spread it around the office. How do we approach the guy to get him to respect our feelings? Or should I just give up the insurance?

2007-10-20 03:48:49 · 11 answers · asked by KazaKu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I fell in love this girl and she said she loved me. The next day she broke up with me. 10 months later I'm still in love with this girl. I thought things between us were getting better. I asked if she'd go to a football game with me at school. She said sure. We're there but she's ignoring me. I tried to talk to her but her friends can't mind their own business and I don't want them hearing what I have to say to her. I know it would be hard for her to love me now and it's uncomfortable for her to be with me and her friends (cuz her friends and I are mortal enemies). My friends tell me she's not worth it and everyone wants her but she's no better than the other girls I could get. Most people think I just want to sleep with her but it's much more than that. I don't care about any of that stuff, she's not a trophy, she's the most beautiful most amazing most wonderful girl ever. But I love her and she is special and I feel like dieing with out her. Why do I love some one who doesn't love me

2007-10-20 03:45:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17 and shes 32 we've been seeing each other for 2 1/2 years now.i want to start having sex but she says shes not ready yet.all my friends are jealous of our relationship as are hers.how do i trick my girlfriend into having sex?

2007-10-20 03:45:23 · 6 answers · asked by the flying dutchman 2 in Singles & Dating

What can i get my wife to make this anniversary special and memorable ?

2007-10-20 03:41:33 · 12 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have math, english, science and social studies together.



We dont have get project partners at school so thats out of the picture and i cant really ask him about homework because we dont get much

2007-10-20 03:38:33 · 10 answers · asked by ஐ♪♫♥atomic.angel♥♫♪ஐ 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee has picked a best man that isnt his best friend and his best friend has never been included in any of this (Wedding plans). His friend has always assumed that when my fiancee gets married he would be best man. I know when he finds out he will be very upset should i do anything to avoid this or just let it be.

2007-10-20 03:36:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

3 LISTS PLEASE

2007-10-20 03:36:38 · 6 answers · asked by Yahoo Answers 1 in Singles & Dating

I am with a man who says he loves me, a bigger woman, but I get the feeling that i am not enough. Now I don't care if he checks out other women, he's a man he is going to look anyways, but why does he only check out skinny women? And if this is what he likes then why should I believe him when he says he wants to be with me? I know not all men tell the truth when it comes to issues like this, they just dance around the subject, so I want to know why would men say one thing and do another?

2007-10-20 03:34:17 · 20 answers · asked by Kikikins 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 03:33:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Some of you might already be married so tell us what you said on your joyous day.

2007-10-20 03:26:54 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

How well do you as an adult manage your life without the assistance of your family's financial support? This is especially important if you're a parent. How would you evaluate your prosperity in the context of this question?

Shingoshi Dao

2007-10-20 03:22:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I write:

Mr. and Mrs. Joe and Ann Smith
or
Joe and Ann Smith
?
Does it really matter?

2007-10-20 03:20:05 · 13 answers · asked by LoLo 4 in Weddings

what's the normal range of the penis length?

and do girls prefer the longest one?

last question,
It's said that as the penis become shorter (within the accepted length) it's easy to become more harder as it needs less amount of blood than the long penis needs, is that true?

2007-10-20 03:13:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm currently 29, and I'm dating another 29 year old girl. Both of us are going to be 30 in few months.

A lot of dating advices I get from dating this girl is to play the usual waiting game. Act like you are unavailable, call back once in a while, don't act needy, etc... But the matter of the fact is that I really like this girl, and I really hate playing this game.

The question I have is whether playing this game is actually counter-proactive. Do girls at her age have less patience in dating and want guys with more direct approach? She told me before that she is thinking about marrying someone EVENTUALY and having a family. She's an attractive girl, and I'm sure she has experienced all this game before.

I'm sure the answer would depend on the situation and the person, but I want a general answer. Thanks.

2007-10-20 03:11:45 · 10 answers · asked by HJC 2 in Singles & Dating

I think i quite good looking well not bad anyways, but no boy seems to like me at the moement???
Is it because im not the flirty kind should i be more flirty or what?

2007-10-20 03:08:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was at school, at a football game, and me and my friends were just walking down the sidewalk when all of a sudden we turn around and see a billion football players running towards us ((because it was the end of half time and they were going back to the field)) and we tried to get off on either side of the side walk when all of a sudden my sandal falls off while im running and i turn around and run back to get it and it was practically ON TOP of the coach's shoe. i had to bend over at his feet and get it! this coach also happens to be my TEACHER! and he starts yelling at me like "GIRLS GET OUT OF THE WAY!!!!!!" in a really angry voice. i was soo mortified i had to run out of the way limping in one sandal.. i really have alot of respect for this teacher but im so embarrased and ashamed, he might feel that i did this on purpose or to gain attention, (which i obviously didnt)..

how can i best handle this?

2007-10-20 03:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by rinn 3 in Singles & Dating

but without sounding desperate. i dont want to scare him away. i dont want to tell him that much, and i dont want my friends to tell him. i want him to figure it out.

2007-10-20 03:04:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I prefer to only date with the premise that my boyfriend could potentially be someone I marry. I am not ready for marriage right now, but will be in 3 to 5 years (I'm 24 years old now). My current boyfriend has revealed to me that he has no desire to marry at all. I don't want to be foolish enough to think that he will change. We have a great relationship right now, but the future prospect of being with someone who won't want to marry me is bothersome. Am I thinking to much about this or is it a valid concern? Should we call it quits or should I just enjoy what I have in the present?

2007-10-20 03:04:12 · 11 answers · asked by alisafmorris 1 in Marriage & Divorce