anyone ever miss there loved one that passed away?

Question

i miss my mom she passed away from cancer and this was her favorite time of year. i was reading my what would you like for christmas post and all of sudden i started to miss her we used to have so much fun at this time of year. i wish she was still here

she died right before i gradurated high school so it was very hard i went to school the very next day so i could be with my friends. plus i knew my mom wanted me too.

Answer 1

I miss my loved ones every day.
Every day I think of something and think 'well i didn't know that about him or her'
Until recently, i dreamed about them every night.
Im writing a book about one of them.
I think its worse when it was suicide and you think you could have stopped them.
And its even worse when the people carrying the stretcher drop them and break her arm. And she dies two days later, with bruises all over her face.
When you try to tell your friends, and they laugh.
RIP
a dozen souls... whose stories left like a footprint stretch far and wide... but I wish I truly knew.
But what you learn is to value other's lives and know them in their time.
Lena :(

Answer 2

Yes! I miss my sister every single day. We are 11months apart in age. My father died of cancer in 1984 and my mom in 1999. My sister passed in 2002. It is by far the worst and hardest death I have ever dealt with. We were very close and spoke to each other either in person or by phone at least 15 to 20 times a day/night. Most painful experience I've ever had. I had a break down and wound up in the psych ward for a couple of weeks. It helped me be able to deal but the pain of losing her never goes away.

Answer 3

The Traveler
She has put on invisibility.
Dear Lord I cannot see---
But this I know, although the road
ascends and passes from my sight, That there will be no night: That will will take her gently by the hand and led her on
Along the road of life that never ends, And she will find
it is not death but dawn.
I do not doubt that you are there as well as here and you will
hold her dear.

Our life did not begin with birth, It is not of the earth,
And this that we call death, it is no more than the opening
and closing of a door--------And in your house how many rooms must be---------Beyond this one where we rest momently.
Dear Lord, I thank you for the faith that frees,
The LOVE that knows it can not lose it's own:
The LOVE that, looking through the shadows sees
That you and she and I are ever one.----(James D. Freeman)

In time dear heart your pain will grow less in tense, Let her
love live in your heart, and draw on that for strength, for the
love left behind is to draw strength from that is the victory!
Start a journal only to write her letters of your feelings.
I send you blessings and (((HUGS))) in honor of your Mother.

Answer 4

I do too, I miss my Mom every single day and have dreams about her almost every night. In the dreams I see her and sometimes when she starts to leave I ask her if she can stay a little longer. She was my Mom and my best friend and we did everything together, shopping, going out to restaurants, etc watching TV at night. Now I am alone, really alone; I have nice neighbors but everyone I know has families. I am OK and all but I do look forward to seeing her again and being with her for eternity.

Answer 5

I miss my dad all the time he passed away 3 years ago and I dont think a day went by that I havent thought of him. I miss him even more when I see a father daughter thing on tv or a father and daughter out together and I really miss him when I need someone to talk to.

Answer 6

I think I know how you feel. I think of my dad almost everyday since he passed (about 12-13 years ago I was 15). The brief time I had with him, looking back at it now I feel I took my time with him so much for granted. He really was an amazing person. A person that made a big impact on me, as well as others. You never truly realize how much a person like that can mean to you, until you no longer have them. I miss him just from writing this....

Answer 7

You'd be very odd if you didn't feel like this!
I miss everyone I've loved and lost including my baby son who died 30+ years ago, I sometimes look at my other children and wonder if he'd have been like one of them.
My Mum knew she was dying and the night before she passed away told me she was ready to leave and not to grieve for her too much as we'd be re-united one day and she wanted to be with my Dad now! I still miss them and often think of them but I dont cry now I laugh at the silly things and pass the stories on to my own family.
It helps to remember that they are together and no longer in pain!

Remember the good times with joy and pass on her 'fun' attitude to your own children and then you'll find your loss a lighter burden to bear.
Best wishes to you!

Answer 8

Yes, i lost my mum to cancer 12 years ago - i was 20. It was really weird cos we had big celebrations the following year, it would have been mum+dads silver wedding anniversary, my 21st and my brothers 16th.
I miss her everyday and this time of year is her birthday and she died 5 days before xmas so still very sad for me even after 12 years.
I still talk to her when i'm alone in my house it kind of makes things better.

Answer 9

HI, Really very sad incident.. Same situtatios for me also..
i lost my parets..feeling alone.. Even for me i dont have words
when type this iam crying.. How can i tell you. But every relation there will be replacement but no replacement for paretns thats why there are great.

Change the place or have peace or some historical place try to keep you and mind busy that will help u to come up from your sad .. If you have best friends go with them or ask them come to your place..if you dont have we will be best friends.

pl dont struggle yourself by thinking of your mother.. You have beatiful life in future.. Think that ur mother is always with me..
how ur behaviour earlier means when she is alive do now also just practice that then you will never feel alone.Just talk to you mother daily like earlier how you talked.. it is not possible to forget to ovecome this situations i have given sollution..

Take care all the best.. if you need any kind of help pl mail me

Answer 10

Death is just another extension of life. It leads us to the next realm. A better place. We all are sent here by God for a reason and when our time is up we will go to be with him. It is not painful. Seconds before death a calm and stillness takes over. The soul is lifted from the body and all is left is the physical body.
It is good to remember someone. Try to remember her for the positive things. Remember that you will be with her one day and the she is probably watching over you now.
Remember, everything in this life has a purpose and reason. We may not know the exact answer now but with the faith of God one day when we meet our maker we will all know his true Glory.
God Bless Your Mother!!!

Answer 11

Yes. My dad died from cancer about six years ago. What makes it harder is that we weren't as close as I would have liked; I wish things had been different between us when he died. Be thankful for the time you had with your mom, and remember the good times. These memories are a way of keeping her alive and in your life.