I fell in love this girl and she said she loved me. The next day she broke up with me. 10 months later I'm still in love with this girl. I thought things between us were getting better. I asked if she'd go to a football game with me at school. She said sure. We're there but she's ignoring me. I tried to talk to her but her friends can't mind their own business and I don't want them hearing what I have to say to her. I know it would be hard for her to love me now and it's uncomfortable for her to be with me and her friends (cuz her friends and I are mortal enemies). My friends tell me she's not worth it and everyone wants her but she's no better than the other girls I could get. Most people think I just want to sleep with her but it's much more than that. I don't care about any of that stuff, she's not a trophy, she's the most beautiful most amazing most wonderful girl ever. But I love her and she is special and I feel like dieing with out her. Why do I love some one who doesn't love me
2007-10-20 03:45:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-10-20 03:46:55 · update #1
She acts like things are going to be ok when we're alone. She says she doesn't care about what her friends think.
2007-10-20 05:53:20 · update #2
because the head cant tell the heart where to go...or what to avoid
2007-10-20 03:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Patti_Ja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. This is an impossible situation and you seem to already realize it. If she does not give you the time of day and ignores you for her friends then being with her must be torture for you. Sometimes we fall in love with the wrong people just because our hearts and minds like to keep up in a jam. Intellectually we know it can never be, but you cannot tell your heart that! It will not listen to reason. I'm afraid you have some suffering to do before Ms Right comes along to rescue you from the self imposed hell. Fear not. We have all been there. And this too shall pass.
2007-10-20 03:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Shelley C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if we knew the answer to that question, then we would all be able to sleep at night after situations like this. Apparently you love her, and you feel, for the reasons you stated, that she is the best thing out there. I've done this myself, so I understand. Like you I dated a girl, and things were supposedly great til the moment she split with me. She had cheated on me, didn't want me back, and I still couldn't convince myself that I needed to be with anyone else, because of the love I had for her at that time. However, four years later, I'm happily married to a woman who my ex could never compete with. Time heals all wounds, it took me meeting my now wife to overcome my ex, and that was almost a year and a half. It takes time. If her friends don't like you, then you are fighting a losing battle, they'll do all in their power to keep you from getting back together. If she really likes you, and wants things to go back to the way they used to be, then she'll push their advise aside and work things out. If it's meant to be then your patience will pay off, if not then fate will bring you to someone better.
2007-10-20 03:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by John S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Nick! Not to worry. She is just the wrong girl for you. You obviously have strong feelings for her, but the feelings are not mutual. I found out a long time ago, there are more fish in that sea of life.
There is no one worth dieing for, so you really should pursue a new love, and let that one slide. I know what you are going through, but she just doesn't seem right for you.
Hang in there buddy, thing WILL get better.
2007-10-20 04:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by smittybo20 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact the you feel that she is ignoring you makes you love her more.
I forgot what it is called in psychology. The more the person ignores you, the more you want to be with the person.
Observe the cat, the more you ignore the cat the more the cat sticks with you.
I think she might still be interested with you but you are just leaning too much. dont lean!
Dont let her friends bother you! always control the situation and dont let her friends control it. show to them that you are not bothered. interact with them.
Start living in a new world. make yourself busy. enjoy life.
2007-10-20 04:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by jon27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This world where we live is full of animals, including us, after all we also are mamals. But although superior than other animals. But we have to prove it all the time, some do and others take lightly and go on. Now this crush for the dame is very good, this sort of involvement it rarely seen in this world, but one must always remember, In LOVE one has always forgotton oneself and made sacrifice. LOVE is not to gain or expect but to transform oneself, the other counter part gets transformed magically. God wants us to experiance this crush and wants us to have this sort of crush for HIM. Just fall once and see the real magic. (If at all you do it,do not forget me to know)
2007-10-20 04:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by sgog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems when your younger you become more attached to someone because of the way it makes you feel. I was so obsessed with girls when I was younger, especially girlfriends. I would get so jelous and make a fool out of myself. I think it's all part of growing up and finding yourself until you find the right one and settle down. After time you just develop self esteem and don't worry about it anymore. Look within and find your strengths and don't become so attached anymore.
2007-10-20 03:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by freekin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you still have feelings for her.but u know u cant change the Way u feel.i understand.but Hun u are Going have to move on.i mean if shes ignoring u what makes u think shes going to pay u mind wen u tell her how u feel.there is so many other amazing girls out there.u can do better.trust me.
2007-10-20 03:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by LaShar.Baybee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously the wrong person for you if she won't even give you the time of day. It's time to move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea.
And no one is worth dying over. There is always someone out there better for you.
2007-10-20 03:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl does not sound to be good girlfriend material. if she was, she would not be this way with you, do you agree? nice people don't act this way. it sounds like she may have been playing you a bit...and in those times when she was nice, you thought there was hope.
you deserve someone who can treat you well. you have to believe though, that you deserve someone better than this person. when you feel good about yourself, you recognize what you allow to happen to you and what you won't allow happen to you...you are setting boundaries. you may need to look at yourself, and ask why am i ok with her treating me like this?
you have a choice of feeling good about the situation or bad about the situation. you've chose to feel bad about the situation.
2007-10-20 03:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally what i observe is she is ignoring you but ur still loving her means your love is great..But still if you want her love
today onwards dnt talk her and dont see her dnt observer her
dont do anything to her.. If anybody asks tell them not to talk before me .. Just do this one week.. no female tolerate this
she will definitely change and come back to you..
But there will be another reason if loves another guy that thing also will be come out with your actions..
2007-10-20 03:55:02 · answer #11 · answered by gdp_durga4444 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋