Family & Relationships - 20 October 2007

I am 22 and still a virgin, by choice ...its not like i dont like sex, just waiting on the right girl.....and it is seen as a bad thing. most people look down upon it and guys try to find me someone........everyone around me tells me that im young and should have a little fun ,be a bad boy.

I went out with this cute blond and we fell apart because i dint want to do it.

do you think its a bad thing to wait ??? lately i have been having second thoughts :(

2007-10-20 07:46:05 · 23 answers · asked by r0manticforlife 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 07:43:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like I'm living a double standard. My pledge is to keep my virginity until marriage for my future wife. But then, I remember, when I was 12, me and my childhood best friend (sweetheart, whatever) tried to see how it feels to kiss. We did it in the hayloft of our barn. Looking back, that was a step too close to the brink!

Think about it, people! Considering how close that was to our teen years--I mean come on! Raging hormones! We were near 13 at that time! I think it was close to the brink! I remember laying her down on the haystack! This is serious! You guys think I'm joking!? Raging hormones, for cryin' out loud! This is no joke, people!

2007-10-20 07:41:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i left san francisco because the cost of living and ive had nothing but bad luck since i moved to Az..as far as jobs and stuff like that...nothing seems to get better.. im seriously thinking of going back..would you go back hoping things would get better or the same as they were before you left?

2007-10-20 07:40:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

As a child I wasn't told that I had a different father. My Mom told me at the age of 25, but I had already figured out what family name I came from, just not which brother it might be. When she told me, it took me 4 years to build the courage to approach him. I went to his home and his NOW wife made me feel as if I had no right to be there. (I was conceived BEFORE they met) She acted as if I were out for money. I was not prepared for questions about my blood type etc; She even suggested that I may belong to one of his brothers, not him. She began to demand DNA testing. I began to cry, I felt just like a child and I felt that the burden of proof should be on my parents NOT me. He said that he didn't deny that I am most likely his child and that I look just like his mother. I would love a relationship with my Dad. I feel that I've been cheated out of major experiences and denied the right to know my Dad. But he's made no effort to contact me. Should I try again to connect with him?

2007-10-20 07:40:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-20 07:34:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's irresponsible, we broke up so many times because of this and he always says he'll change he's good for a little while and he goes right back to his ways. He likes to go and do as he wishes, if he feels like going to a club or a bar and drink his *** off he will, i have no say, and he smokes pot, sometimes he does coke and extasy too. . . he says im askin him to change and im motherin him and as a girlfriend i should accept him for who he is and be cool. . . he says im too controlling too. he said he wants to live his life but wants me at the same time cuz he loves me but its so hard for me to deal w those things when he does them, it bothers me a lot. should i leave him ? he told me no guy will be with me cuz im too controlling

2007-10-20 07:34:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my wife now for six years (three years married, three years bf/gf) and it seems it just keeps getting worse with her hatred of everybody. I know that her being a CSR doesn't help because she has to deal with the worst of everybody that calls but what can I do? I try to be as good to her as I can and try to tell her a lot there are great people out there in the world but she just constantly says she hates everybody and everybody sucks. What can I do to help her be more positive regarding people? Any help would be greatly appreciated. God bless you all.

2007-10-20 07:30:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you had to choose for one to be alive an well who would it be

this is just a question doesn't mean anythin would actually happen if you pick one

2007-10-20 07:28:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you guys think is an appropriate age for lovers to get really "serious" and start thinking about their future.
I'm 18, and I've been with my boyfriend for a little over two years, and we're very much devoted and in love with each other.
We plan on getting an apartment together once we finish school (graduating mid-term) and starting our lives.
Do you think 18 is too young to have your future set? I'm a very mature 18 year-old, and I know what I want in life, so I don't really think age matters, but I've been told differently by my friends and other non-supporting individuals.

2007-10-20 07:23:27 · 5 answers · asked by Magnolia 2 in Singles & Dating

i was riding home on the bus (i was at the very back seat) talking to a friend when all of a sudden i saw one of my other friends giving a guy a B.J to her guy friend (shes only 13)! they were also in the very back across from my seat. i thought it was disgusting. So what do you think of sex in public places and sex between young teens? Also is this type of thing common? sorry if this is to long

2007-10-20 07:20:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am looking for the periwenkle,silver, & ivory coloers

2007-10-20 07:18:58 · 4 answers · asked by tyronda h 1 in Weddings

2007-10-20 07:18:20 · 2 answers · asked by Kit 1 in Family

Ok, Its like this. We recently got married, and My wife is now prego. we live with her also. My mother inlaw (and family memebers) constently make remarks, and offend me right in front of her. Whats worse is they are good at menipulating her to get her to do what they want. I get no help from her mom even when it would be easy to do so, I have helped her mom so much. I pay her $$$ for her house. I mean I get it I am stealing the baby (shes 18 and I am 29) I am not here to just take her away, but do want to spend my time when I am not working with her, not alone. She wont stand up to her mom,and when she does she makes her feel like crap. It would be easy to get an apartment and leave, but I dont want to leave her behind, or my unborn child. (it kills me..) I am afrade everyday that where heading for a devorce. Most of the time there is so much tension, that it's unbearable. There has got to be a better way, we need to take control of our own lives. any advice?

2007-10-20 07:16:14 · 20 answers · asked by Robert W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 07:09:22 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is your opinion of women dating a younger man? I went on a date with a guy who is almost 6 years younger than me, I'm in my early thirties and he is 26. I know age really shouldn't matter, actually he seemed more mature than some thirty something men I've went out with!!!

2007-10-20 07:05:04 · 7 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Singles & Dating

So my 6 year old is a bit on the "difficult" side. But he's just a kid. My Husband is super hard on him and constantly argues with him and acts like a 6 year old himself. I feel like I cant be a good mom and a good wife bc Im constantly stuck in the middle of their fights. I beg my hubby to work on it but he wont. What should I do??/

2007-10-20 07:03:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As most guys would know, if for example your girlfriend's guy friend goes over to her house you start getting jealous over such small things. Anyway to refrain from getting SOO jealous?

2007-10-20 07:00:48 · 4 answers · asked by Epicurean@heart 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at a friends house the other day and this girl went up and slapped this guy right in his parts. It looked sopainful for the guy, but for some reason all the girls were laughing histerically. what do girls find funny about a guy being hit down there?

2007-10-20 07:00:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

because of a fall out between me and my sister. She chooses to side with my sister rather than helping us forgive each other. I really miss my mom even though she's shuned me (which has happened on more than 1 occassion) So much time has elapsed that I would feel foolish to even step forward. She's played this game before on me but it's never lasted this long. Why would a mother do this to her own daughter. I feel so unloved and abandoned. With my father having passed and my only other sibling living so far I don't even feel like I have family. I'm really sad. What do you make of this.

2007-10-20 06:59:42 · 14 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Family

Okay, here it is. My friend has partial custody of her kids because her a$$hole boyfriend who is the Father of the kids decided to come back after a year of disappearing to be a dad to them. The kids do not like it (they are 5 and 3 years old) and their mother (my friend) hates to see them sad whenever they go over his place every other weekend.

Recently, she blew up cursing at him on the telephone and now he wants partial custody of the children (50%).

Now, the question is: How can we prevent this?

2007-10-20 06:59:25 · 1 answers · asked by WJ 1 in Friends

My avatar has been meeting in secret with a beautiful vixen & I can't seem to stop. Should I? My real life is in a huge mess right now, because all I do is spend all my energy on the avatar of my dreams. Should I marry her? Or continue living the life of pleasures in the flesh (so to speak)? Please help!

2007-10-20 06:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by Andy K 6 in Singles & Dating

Please, please help me. My fiance and I got into in argument last night about past relationship history (previous partners, etc.). It was started by me, but he got into the fight too.

I don't know how to not care about past history and not bring it up. Also, what happens after things that shouldn't have been talked about were. Is this the beginning of the end?

Please help me, I'm so upset.

2007-10-20 06:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by footballer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my friends who has been upset lately because of her boyfriend who went away to college had cheated on her, recently started seeing a new guy. I was happy for her since she deserves it but then I found out the guy was my ex boyfriend that I dated a couple of years ago in 9th grade. I was so pissed off! Because I don't think friends are supposed to date each other exs I thought it went without saying. I have a boyfriend now but I can't help but being upset about this espeically when I saw him with her at the teen club we go to on Saturday nights. He was hugging and kissing her and it upset me. I couldn't even concentrate on my own boyfriend who got pretty upset with me about it and accused me of still liking him but I really don't since it's been almost two years and I haven't even seen him since he transferred to another school in the county last year. But I think she was wrong to date him and my boyfriend has no right to be mad at me for being upset. Am I right or not?

2007-10-20 06:47:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 27 year old guy living with my parents getting married to a22 year old girl .Our is a arrange marriage & I love her very much So I would be graceful to you if you can give any advice or suggesstion to me so that I can keep my bride happy

2007-10-20 06:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

But idk if he likes me back because most of the time he'll be flirting with me or calling me
but sometimes he will be looking at his shoes and he blushes when he sees me
and he knows i like him but this girl asked him out and he said yeah
he stopped calling but still blushes when he sees me
i've liked him since kindergarden and i now in 7th grade
and we've been best friends all those years and he barely found out i liked him last week
I sorta think he knew
i'm done playing games
how do i get over him?
or
do i ask him out when he breaks up with his girlfriend?

2007-10-20 06:38:28 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Twilighter♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

I am having so many problems with school, family, friends, and relationships that I just have to leave but I have no where to go to no one to talk to I have lost all of my friends to other people I feel that I can't talk to anyone. I have a chance to apply to go on a exchange for 7 or 8 months and I want to take it but my parents dont want me to leave but I know that it is what I need to do or I will do something that I would regret greatly. What can I do who can I talk to nothing is working my GPA is falling I need to have a 3.8 just for my self to feel like I am doing well and I only have a 3.5 it is not good enough I just can' t take it anymore I want it all to be over

I just want to start over. Anyone else going through this?? How can I deal with my parents and going to England??
Please help if you can

2007-10-20 06:37:17 · 4 answers · asked by bball91300 2 in Friends

Look i am very small (not midget small but small) so every one beats me up and i am sick of is so how can i get them to stop beating me up?

2007-10-20 06:33:25 · 15 answers · asked by Marty C(stalker of fear) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so i like this guy and i added him on myspace and we go to the same skool and stuff and i sent him a msg saying hey thanxs for the add and he said no problem cutie and then he kept calling me sexii and beautiful and i dont kno if he likes? Hes in the 11th and im in the 9th so idk if hes a player and i dont want to get my hopes up over him wut to do ?

2007-10-20 06:32:18 · 8 answers · asked by valeri ann 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband are going on a cruise for our honeymoon, but the problem is that he is somewhat ugly but very caring and he is a virgin obviously cause of his looks. cause he is a virgin i dont think i will have a good time, he also doesnt party much, so if i party more than him and meet someone and come back in the morning after spending time with someone else will he notice or will he think i just partied? what should i do?

2007-10-20 06:30:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce