Look i am very small (not midget small but small) so every one beats me up and i am sick of is so how can i get them to stop beating me up?
2007-10-20 06:33:25 · 15 answers · asked by Marty C(stalker of fear) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey i thank you all for helping me out but how am i ginna get friends that will help me when i am an outcast????
2007-10-20 06:48:15 · update #1
Yeah you should definitely report it. Adults don't beat each other up at work and young people shouldn't have to be beaten up at school, which I presume is where you are.
Also you should take up boxing or a martial art like karate or Tae Kwon Do. It will give you a feeling of confidence that people will pick up on and they will stop hassling you when they know you can take care of yourself.
Well you need to stop thinking of yourself as an outcast. If they don't appreciate you it's their loss, not yours.
Take up one of the martial arts as everyone is advising you to do, and it will help you make new friends as well!
Hope this helps :-)
2007-10-20 06:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by 2kool4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is a serious question from you. And I will try not to make light of it. But its hard because me I am a very large person and I get beat on all the time too but its just my brother and hubby playing. But I dish it back just as much if not worse. We are a very loving couple and a very close family so no it isn't abuse but its how we play. I wish I had some advice for you to makethis stop for you but I really don't. I'm sorry.
2007-10-20 13:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Megan E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy, nice name... first of all
It takes a lot of guts to stand up to bullies.
One of the things you could consider to help you find the confidence and the knowledge of what to do would be to take some martial arts classes.
You learn that there is a time to fight and a time to run.
You can report it to a guidance counselor or the principal or a teacher, but I know all too well that there are times when you just have to kick a little a55
good luck
2007-10-20 13:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join your wrestling team and train like a madman. Think about how sick you are of getting beat on as a way to motivate you to train hard. You can be a small dude and still learn to take care of your business.
2007-10-20 13:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight back! They won't stop unless you fight back. If they know your not going to stand for it they won't keep it up. If they are a lot bigger than you try grabbing his balls(NDG) and don't let go or go for the nose. You might get beat up but they will stop. What do you have to lose their beating you up anyway so fight back. no one is allowed to touch you. Or you could go tell a teacher so they make fun of you nd beat you anyway when the teacher leaves. Good luck! & always remember the NDG!
"Nut Death Grip"
2007-10-20 13:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jonny B Bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I would take boxing lessons - but they aren't usually available. So, I would pick a form of martial art, such as kung fu, karete, Twai kon do, etc. and devote myself to it. Learn fighting skills to give yourself the confidence you need to stand up to these bullies. Let's face it, if they are going to beat on you, at least you can beat on them back. And that might be all it takes to get them to back off. Build your body up, get into weights and build those muscles. In boxing, there are lightweight boxers that are 105 lbs and their hands are deadly weapons, so size doesn't matter. They need to RESPECT you, man. Good luck.
2007-10-20 13:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look very sad
i bet youre like in middle school right?
you can stop easily, try acting cool
get friends os they can back you up
try telling the teacher i know everyone says that
but complain. tell youre parents you need help
with school
and if you are in the hall alone run!
you can do it!
2007-10-20 13:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to stop. Report to the guidance consulor to start a no bullying program
2007-10-20 13:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by sales10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u in skool?? cuz if u r u should learn karate or get bodyguards jk. but u shouldtell some1 like the principal or police or a teacher.
2007-10-20 13:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you do is act tough...or just find someone and wail on them to get your CRED up....wouldnt suggest that last one it is risky..
always hang in a crowd with your friends..*
take martial arts*
talk to counselor*
talk to them
or be scared the rest or your life
*try these first
2007-10-20 13:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by Tim S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋