I am 22 and still a virgin, by choice ...its not like i dont like sex, just waiting on the right girl.....and it is seen as a bad thing. most people look down upon it and guys try to find me someone........everyone around me tells me that im young and should have a little fun ,be a bad boy.
I went out with this cute blond and we fell apart because i dint want to do it.
do you think its a bad thing to wait ??? lately i have been having second thoughts :(
2007-10-20 07:46:05 · 23 answers · asked by r0manticforlife 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it has always been a personal choice for me. i came pretty close when i was younger,with a girl i though i loved. it does not bother me if the girl is not.
2007-10-20 08:08:29 · update #1
sometimes i feel pressured ,its an acceptance thing.
i want to have really bad. but with the right girl :p
2007-10-20 14:59:00 · update #2
It is not bad.
That's having respect for yourself.
I'm seventeen, and I've made the choice to remain abstinent until marriage. I'm an attractive girl, and I've had to tell guys I've dated "no" several times.
Don't listen to them, your choice shows that you have respect for yourself and the girls you date. I'm a lot more comfortable with a guy who respects himself enough to have made that decision. If a girl doesn't want to be with you simply because of that, she doesn't deserve you.
Don't let people cause you to degrade yourself to double-checking respectable decisions.
=]
2007-10-20 07:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 05:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start hanging out with woman that share your morals. Dude, good girls would kill for a guy like u, so just start hanging out at places where u could meet these good ladies. The people that are putting u down now will be the same ones who are too shallow to keep a long term relationship going and will never find true love themselves.
Keep waiting my virgin brother, but at the same time put yourself in places where nice women who share your morals are at.
Remember one thing......
VIRGINS RULE!!!!
2007-10-21 06:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your name Brady? Jk. I know a guy just like you. He is a really attractive guy, very talented and creative (writes his own guitar music that isn't the typical norm stuff), very intelligent and carries a 4.0 in college. (Not saying you do all of those things, just that you could get a girl, obviously). Yet he is a virgin. And trust me, I know there are plenty and I say PLENTY of girls that would jump him in a heart beat. I've had girlfriends say so as well. So, there are guys out there like you, more than you would think. Just be true to yourself. Besides it will make you more desireable to the right girl, if you can honestly say I held out for you. What woman wouldn't just melt at those words. Stay strong and true to yourself!! I very much respect you!!
You will be some girls gem beyond her wildest dreams.
2007-10-20 10:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do not NEED sex right now wait. If u feel like u r going 2 die if u do not have sex then have sex. just so u know sex is awesome but u have 2 wait 4 someone that u want 2 have sex with. i had sex with a bunch of guys but one guy was the one who i thought was the best one with having sex. now we have been married 4 three years and r happy. do what ur heart tells u.
2007-10-20 14:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Zoe B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO!!!!!It shows that you have self control and when you start to date the girl you love then when that day comes when she asks you if you have had sex with someone you can say truthfully that you haven't.She will first trust you and feel that she knows you really love her because you should only have sex with the person you love.Don't (have fun)Like most people say just be yourself so you don't regret anything in the future!You are a very great man for your self control!
2007-10-20 07:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by A writer waiting 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Romantic sorry that I cannot agree with your friends. I do however have to agree with your life choice and feel that the decision you have made is a very proper and manly decision. Trust me that you are not the only male that is still a virgin at your age, although it must certainly feel that way especially with all the media bull. Best of luck and when the right lady does come along she will admire you and your decision also. Kudo's and best of luck.
2007-10-20 07:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
come on... all the cool kids are doing it!!! lol j/k
Personally i don't think its a bad thing. I would have probably missed out on a lot of heartache had i stayed a virgin. Besides, the less people you have sex with...the less a future GF will have to worry about!
Good job on holding out!!
2007-10-20 07:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep waiting, Its the right thing to do.
If you have sex with a girl you dont like it could ruin your life.
You should only do it when your ready to and when you find the girl that you know you absolutly love.
2007-10-20 09:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...wait...it will mean so much more if you save it for someone special. Dont let people peer pressure you into losing your virginity. Lots of guys are virgins....alot of girls love virgins...there is nothing wrong with waiting....I wished I would have waited...my boyfriend didnt lose his until he was 18..so wait
2007-10-20 07:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kristi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋