Family & Relationships - 20 October 2007

2007-10-20 05:29:03 · 35 answers · asked by raman k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I justed turned 19 and have grown like an almost 3/4 of an inch in the past year. However my growth as always kind of been steady, during my growth spurt I grew a little over 2 inches. I grew almost 3/4 of an inch since last year. Can I push out 5'11 1/2-6'0. My voice started cracking a year ago, and I have light facial hair, and chest hair starting to appear last year. I seem less developed then other kids in my opnion

Mom almost 5'5
Dad 6 feet
grandfather 6 feet
grandfather 6 feet
grandma 5'6 1/2
grandma 5'3, her father was 6'2, but her mom was 4'11
2 of my dads brothers are over 6 feet, one is 6'3, the other one is 5'11. my dad grandfather was 6'3-6'4.

I am 5'9 1/2, I was a little under 5'9 last year. I got to atleast reach 5'10, I mean come on.

2007-10-20 05:27:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a 27 year old virgin and were going on our honeymoon, my husband is a virgin too. we have read some books on "getting intimate" but maybe your help would be better, any ideas??

2007-10-20 05:26:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean i have always heard to never get involved with a co-worker but we were friends for a year before we started dating and have been dating for a while so should this matter?

2007-10-20 05:26:16 · 25 answers · asked by Big A 2 in Singles & Dating

She has now ended the relationship and he says he want us to get back together again. However, I must accept that he will not give up his job and he wants her to continue texting him because they are still "mates". What do you think?

2007-10-20 05:25:47 · 20 answers · asked by fluffy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-20 05:25:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im leaving for switzerland in 3 days, to separate from my husband for a bit. Im thinking of asking him to move out for a bit to give us a break from one another.
what do you guys think i should do?
serious comments please theres been a lot going on in my life.

2007-10-20 05:24:24 · 22 answers · asked by Lucia F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

one is an early 60s dial phone,, old kodachrome that works things like that that i could get some money for, or should i keep them to show the grand kids how it was back in the day,

2007-10-20 05:23:38 · 3 answers · asked by MR MOM USMC RETIRED 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

meeting new people?

2007-10-20 05:22:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey peeps!!! So this girl started working at my office, and I think she is real cute. I asked about her and said I thought she was cute to someone. And she said the same. I then asked her to lunch. We went, and really actyually had a great time!! So we got back, and I got feedback from a girl friend of mine there that spoke to her without me knowing. She said the girl said she had alot of fun. BUT. She thought I was a little weird at first, and thought I was like stalkerish ( I've had plenty of gf's, long term, all that so I'm def. not one), but now she thinks I'm great. And wants to go eat out again next week. I am maybe trying to chalk this up to how hard it is to start something in the office? How it's almost nearly impossible not to be a little weird?? Ok well what do you guys think? And what can I do to not have her think that???? Ok thanks!!!!!!!

2007-10-20 05:21:54 · 11 answers · asked by Tim R 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a good guy with lots of sense of humor and kind. Everyone likes him includes me. When I'm sad and need someone to talk with he's always a good listener and teacher for me. We have known each other for a few months now and become good friends. Sometimes I kinda miss him and this makes me worried too because I don't want to be in love with him. There are thousands reasons I can't love him.

- I'm too young for him
- He's close friend of my uncles
- He has experienced the life much more than me so of course he has had many gfs
- He's a party guy. He drinks with my uncle and friends every night.

So I think that's enough reasons for me not to be more than friends with him. But I like him very much so I often try to find an excuse to see him, mostly for good talks. But on the other hand, I worry I'd be obsessed by him and then I'd turn to love him or just I'd think that. I hope you know what I mean.

what should I do to avoid being in love with him and obsessed by him?

2007-10-20 05:21:02 · 3 answers · asked by me 1 in Friends

i stayed up pretty late last night (like 2:30 am) and im having a sleepover later. i REALLY dont want to fall asleep because this will be such a fun sleepover. any tips on how to NOT fall asleep?? thanks much.

2007-10-20 05:18:32 · 6 answers · asked by Midnight Rose 3 in Friends

we've been going out for about a month now since he asked me to the homecoming dance (were both juniors in HS) and he's my very first bf, and i'm his first real gf, and we hang out all the time before and after school and in the hallways between classes and on weekends and we've had some pretty fun times alone and with his friends. yesterday when we were over at his house "watching" a movie, if u get my drift, he stopped and told me that he loves me. but i seriously have never been in love, and i'm not exactly close with my family, i basically just live with them (it's a bit hard to explain) but yeah, i'm not sure if i completly love him back, but i do always look forward to when we can see each other

and btw, we both aren't into drugs and stuff, i kno hes not cus hes diabetic so it'd probobly kill him, and hes not like the ganstar type either
but i mean i just don't kno, i don't want to tell him that i don't love him back cus it's not entirly true, cus i really really do like him

2007-10-20 05:18:21 · 4 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Singles & Dating

what can i do my dad move out the house
what can i do

2007-10-20 05:15:13 · 6 answers · asked by fredisha 1 in Family

HE WORKS AT A BOOK STORE AND HE IS FINE SMART, AND SOOOO LUSH SO PLEASE LET ME KNOW HOW I CAN LET HIM KNOW THAT I LIKE HIM? WE FLIRT AND THATS IT. I CAN TELL HE LIKES ME FROM THE WAY HE LOOKS ME IN THE EYES, SO TELL ME WHAT TO DO HELP,

2007-10-20 05:14:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He doesn't yell at me, at least not in the sense of him raising his voice. He just...get's mad at me, get's mean, or ignores me. When I confronted him about that, he told me that he didn't mean to hurt my feelings and that he was just in a really bad mood.

How can I react to that?

2007-10-20 05:10:45 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

10 points anyone!!!!! what is it about a woman that makes you think she is speciall!!!?
i really like this guy and he is friendly to me, says i look good etc has definately flirted with me-im quite conservative he has loads of friends is a footballer and is really out going i want him to think im really special and different from the rest what can i do

i feel like im not good enough and slightly intimidated by his friends etc- i do have a good job am doing better than most of them in terms of career- but it also takes over my life and sometimes i feel like im not as social as i should be what can i do so he will like me

he facebooked me the other day i started it by asking how he was

he put back "hey babes im good u ok? looking good by the way?x

what should i write back i really really like him dont want to put me foot in it though if he does indeed just see me as a friend

2007-10-20 05:09:38 · 10 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

I am leaving this as a general question because I am writing about it in a paper for college and need opinions. Thanks.
Do you cheat? If so why? Is it peer pressure? Not wanting to work on the current relationship? Can you control yourself? Do you just not care? Etc.

2007-10-20 05:04:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there a way to remove the monotony of a relationship so that partners keep interested in each other for ever ! I mean the feeling of excitement ... the feeling one gets from being on a roler coaster ... does it have to go away or are there ways to keep the fire burning ?

2007-10-20 05:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is a wonderful woman and we've been married for year and a half. We rarely argue and have no major issues. However, my wife tries to solve her parents problems on a daily basis. I can understand if they are health related issues but they are not. She gets involed with their marital problems and all other issues that should be handled by them. My wife and her dad exchange emails on a daily basis. Today I walked in and she was arguing with her mom on the phone. I tried to politely inform my wife that they should deal with these issues themselves and not involve her married daughter. we got into an argument and there goes my weekend. how do i solve this ? I'm beginning to get irritated with my in-laws and rarely talk to them on phone.

2007-10-20 05:01:34 · 16 answers · asked by Bike Lover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My small sis (8 y/o) noticed my boobs the other day. She asks why my boobs are so big and hers R so small. Then I told her it was hard to explain. Then she said if she could see me naked. We are really close. Should I let her see me naked? Nothing sexual. She asked me this an hour ago.

2007-10-20 04:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-20 04:58:09 · 20 answers · asked by cinders912423 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a special event going on nov 11th for wedding dreses. The dresses are worth $400-4,000 and they are all on sale for $250 for the one day. I asked my maid of honor 2 go and i got no responce (text message). I asked again and she said "whos going? and i have to see if i have work" The thing is she works at cvs and if she needs to go out with other friends she takes the day off she even lied and said her grandmother is sick once to go out with a friend. So I told her she should switch days now, way in advance so its not a problem. she never text back so then I said did u get my message. She said "listen i will try to go it i don't have work" I totally understand she has work but this is a one time thing its very important. and i feel like she just doesnt want to go. Do u think she should change her work day ONCE for me? Now she is going let me know the very last minute because she wont know if she has work until that week! isnt that mean of her?

2007-10-20 04:57:02 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

We are getting married in his hometown's Methodist church which is 4 hours away from where we live now. Me being Baptist, I dont fully understand the Methodist rules. Can anyone explain to me the rules of the church such as music, paying the church, and other subjects that maybe different from baptist? Thanks!

2007-10-20 04:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by Red Sunshine 27 1 in Weddings

my husband is telling me that i have to help with baby while hes at work. understandable. and that i have to wake up every time at night to help with baby too and let him sleep and hes isnt to help at night at all ""because hes tired"" and he has to sleep so he can do his job or he cant do it waa waa waa. i want to know how many of you out there atleasts wakes up durring the night even just for a little bit to help the stay at hom mom? to me all he is is worthless now because hes here but he deserve not to help caz he works.

2007-10-20 04:47:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So this is the 2nd time that my in laws come to my house un-announced. (they live out of state) Why do they feel like they can do this. I mean if they feel like they can stay at my house why can't they at least give us a courtesy call.
My apartment is so small. yes I have a 2 bed room apartment but i also have a son. And here they are My in-laws and a grandson that they are raising as their own. Why can't they go stay with their 2 daughters since they are the ones who are picking them up from the airport. What bothers me the most is that my in laws and my sister in laws call my husband every day for petty stuff now you tell me that they couldn't tell him that his parent are comeing in. Then my hubby is so kindhearted that even though he thinks his parents are rude for doing this he doesn't want to tell them anything cuz he doesn't want to make them feel bad. Oh Lord! What can I do? I guess nothing huh? I guess all I have to do is count from 10 to 1 and take deep breaths in between.

2007-10-20 04:44:37 · 11 answers · asked by ◄Rainy~♥~Rain► 3 in Family

My boyfriend and i have been going out for a little less than a month. I want to kiss him really badly. Obviously ive been kissed b for.
but im his first girlfriend and hes quite nervous.
should i make the first move?

2007-10-20 04:39:13 · 23 answers · asked by mollie4423 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy (Tom) that I am friends w/ benifits with.we both have strong feelings for each other. we makeout, cuddle, hold each other in our arms for hours...but we arnt going out beacuse of age issues (im 16 hes 19). Well beacuse of that we are aloud to date other ppl. There is this guy (Kevin) at my school that my friend is trying to hook me up with. I am suppose to see Tom next month cuz he is comming down to see me beacuse he misses me. I miss him 2 and I cant wait to see him. But if things work out between Kevin and I, would It be concidered cheating If I were to still go see Tom, weather Kevin knew it or not. I really like Tom, and part of the reason Im interested in Kevin is b/c, as much as I want to,I cant wait for Tom, especially when he could find a girl at college anyday now.I do want to have a chance to date Tom in the future, and that is also y I dont want to tell him about Kevin either, Im afraid he will lose feelings if he knows. What do I do?

2007-10-20 04:36:53 · 5 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are so in love, we have a very happy marriage. But, his brother is always trying to cause problems between us...he hates me, always has. My husband does his best to keep his relationship between the two of them, but his brother always finds a way to weasel himself back in and start causing problems again. What should I do?

2007-10-20 04:22:14 · 9 answers · asked by loquita.bella 4 in Marriage & Divorce

yeah i'm boreeeeeeeeeeeeeeed

2007-10-20 04:19:52 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends