Family & Relationships - 20 October 2007

Is it really just not that important to you? Like it is something to be crossed off a list? Do you anticipate it? Do you think that just because you're married, you don't have to put the effort into it anymore?, now that you bagged your man?
Case in point: I know two husbands who have very pretty wives, and think their lives are all hunky-dory. What they don't know is that they are being cheated on when their guys are out of town for work during the week. One paid for some nasty hookers in Raleigh, and the other brought a 300-pound gal back to the hotel room on a different job trip. As it stands, this is a fairly regular occurrence, and shocks the hell out of me, because I find their wives attractive.

They both claim they don't get any from their wives and are tired of the non-attention.

So wives, my question to you is, why does sex become an afterthought to you. Why is pleasing your man not as high on your list as watching Survivor?

2007-10-20 21:19:57 · 18 answers · asked by lovinglifeina69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just because i wasn't tight and he cheated on me. So now i GOT to be cheating on him

2007-10-20 21:03:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why would a married woman once they get caught or tell on who they been with this isnt right to get the other party involved in what they happened to get caught doing .why drag the one who was with them in it no caring if it causes the one problems with there wife or girlfriend . and why even tell your husband you was cheating on him. makes no sence to me telling there husbands this. why dont they just keep it to there selves.

2007-10-20 21:01:40 · 4 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

or he/she never appriciate every little good things that you've dont to him/her....

2007-10-20 21:01:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

to eat tomorrow for breakfast with our 1yr and 4 yr old.
Is he bipolar?

2007-10-20 21:00:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think if you want to fight, why not use a karate chop to the back of the head?. That will put them down faster than any blow to the body, and I once used it to great effect.

2007-10-20 20:56:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have been living together for 3yrs and because one thing or another it has gone on and on and still no job I have total financial responsibility. I can't do it nomore he says his trying to look for work ----somtimes when I come home from work he still in bed. We have a good time together but does he really LOVE ME or is he MUCHING.Please I would like to hear from girls & guys (remember) I love him very much

2007-10-20 20:55:42 · 11 answers · asked by missrosie4you 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to know some things that I can say because he has been REALLY mean to me and I just want to get him back.

2007-10-20 20:51:36 · 23 answers · asked by emluvsmatt 2 in Singles & Dating

pick one

2007-10-20 20:47:25 · 8 answers · asked by jkorchai 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend went to a football game today that was done by 3pm. I spoke with her briefly on the phone around 3:30 at which point she said she would call me back cause she was driving. So I called twice around 6 to see if I should get dinner. I tried again around 10, then again around 11 and then again at midnight. It is unusual not to hear from her for this length of time and for her not to be home at 12:30am when she wasn't planning on it. We are the best friends who talk every couple of hours just to check in so I am just getting a little bit concerned. At which point should I get really concerned?

2007-10-20 20:38:04 · 6 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Friends

In this last year alone, I've had my father come to visit and see family at my expense, with the promise to pay me back. My mother had money problems to get the bond of a house she's renting, which I had to take out a loan to get her the bond so she can have a roof over her head (and my brother too), with the promise to pay me back.
Both are paying me back, however I have to prompt them for it everytime. My parents are seperated and they live in the same city. I'm beginning to feel like their my children now because I'm having to bail them out with money. No matter how many times I say no and find another solution, I'm pressured because they have left it to the last minute.
I'm seriously considering in cancelling my tickets for my xmas trip to mum's (no refund) to have a holiday to myself because I feel I need to be selfish for a change. I can deal with bitterness from them if I do cancel.
Should I do it for the sake of my sanity? I have my own money problems to deal with too.

2007-10-20 20:36:03 · 20 answers · asked by commander_palpatine 2 in Family

This may seem like an odd question to some but I really need some advice, so if you could just hear me out for a second. I have never been good at expressing my feelings and I just want to know how I can show my boyfriend how much I love and trust him. He is my first boyfriend so I am very new at the whole girlfriend thing. Although my boyfriend makes me feel like a queen I still feel inferior to his ex-girlfriend. He had sex with her several times when they were together and I don't plan on having sex with him... at all. I'm just a teenager. I just want to be close to him. My heart is sooo full. I don't really know what I'm feeling.
-thanx for reading this. any advice would be great.

2007-10-20 20:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do any other girls do this because I find it disturbing and it turns me off. Sometimes she takes it out and smells it which really grosses me out. This sounds like a joke but it's not.

2007-10-20 20:30:19 · 10 answers · asked by John W 1 in Singles & Dating

i sent a funny email meant for one person to my entire list of friends! thank goodness there was no nudity, sexual, or racial content. just a few curse words. i am so embarrassed- what can i say to 23 people?!?!

2007-10-20 20:23:59 · 6 answers · asked by rebecca e 1 in Friends

2007-10-20 20:23:54 · 13 answers · asked by mony y 2 in Marriage & Divorce

was using his laptop yesterday and found out that he had been googled search for news of his ex-fling (he had an affair with her 3 years ago). what should i do? is this just out of curiosity/boredom/something more? obviously he doesn't know where she is right now, so what is he trying to achieve? should i confront him? i should also mention that he had done this before a few months back, when i confront him about it, he apologised and said it was silly of him, and he was just bored?

2007-10-20 20:22:39 · 14 answers · asked by kate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Honesty, they're good parents and they provide and care for me, it's just they have these kind of problems. I've tried talking with them and showing them all the negative effects it has and they are fully aware and won't stop. They always say "oh I'll stop", but of course never even an attempt happens.

They seem to have some type of motivation to stop (not wanting to smoke), but there is no ignition get them actually going. On the other hand they give me bullshit excuses to why they smoke. Ex. "Smoking gives me a brake from everyone.",

2007-10-20 20:16:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I can't go to my mom she lives 6 hours away and has blocked our number because my dad kept calling her, so we have to wait until she calls us and I don''t know when that will be...
I can't talk to my dad he will think I am copying off my sister who already had a problem with cutting.
I just need help!!
I have felt this for almost two years now.
I am tired all the time, I almost eat nothing, I am concentrate and I freak out on just about everyone...like once a teacher ask me a question and I just freaked out on him.
I believe no one cares for me. My dad has said on several occasion that he wishes I wasn't here so he doesn't have to deal with me. My sister is the worst, and I would think if she has already gone through this she wouldn't . even if she doesn't think I am picking on me, basically bulling me could cause it.
What hurt the most....was the one person I though still care about my mom doesn't want me staying with her when I asked her...

2007-10-20 20:15:39 · 11 answers · asked by Jenniefrizzzle 4 in Family

what if your wife stated out all night and wont tell you were she was and that i should trust her what true

2007-10-20 20:14:05 · 37 answers · asked by sparo425 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 20:13:02 · 20 answers · asked by David V 6 in Marriage & Divorce

How do parents of large families, those with 15 to 20 children, managed their kids? What did they do?

2007-10-20 20:12:16 · 2 answers · asked by StandTall 4 in Family

I have been reading "The Sociologically Examined Life" by Michael Schwalbe.

Here is a quote from it followed by a question Schwalbe later asks. please answer and explain.... Thanks

"In the past, women gave up their family names upon getting married and took the last name of their new husband. This practice served to indicate that a woman as a piece of property, had been transferred from one male(the father) to another(the husband). Men did not change their names. Men were owners, not property.
Today we reject the idea of women as property, yet this name changing practice persists why"

2007-10-20 20:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by Atomic New Theory 5 in Marriage & Divorce

have you ever fallen in love and loved that person so much but that person did something to you that just maded you hate them so much but you can help to love them

2007-10-20 20:12:08 · 19 answers · asked by Joc164 1 in Marriage & Divorce

our relation goes back to 6 months ago,,,he seemed to be a nice guy then with time he started to chabge,i never thought to be in love with him but what was i escaping from happened n now our relation ends every time n it's me who call him back begging him not to leave,,,,i don't know how to forget him though he's causing me an enormous harm...............please help;;show me the way i feel adict to his love,,,i'm lost n wanna truly to forget him.

2007-10-20 20:11:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 20:10:35 · 14 answers · asked by Gabe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a teenage girl who has no boyfriend!My friends all talk about their bf.I feel so ashamed and jealous.Why do I have no boyfriend?I really feel so down!

2007-10-20 20:09:24 · 6 answers · asked by Elena 2 in Singles & Dating

ok ....... me and my boyfriend jay got into a fight because he cheated on me and i caught him well he denied the whole thing and i was thinking well i will just give him another chance so i did and yea i was really hurt because he cheated on me but im in love so i let him stay..........tommorrow would be our three month anniversary so we was going to make up for it bye hanging out on saturday so he could stay with me write..........well today came so i woke up around 9:in the freaking morning and he was supposed to come over write after football practice so i hurried up and got ready put make up on and did my hair really cute and he had me waiting all day for nothing because he never showed hge never even thought to call me and let me know and i caouldnt call him so what does this situation look like to you all i am just a little confused white girl with no one to get advice from so plz give me the write advice and i might give you the best answer award ♥amber♥

2007-10-20 20:09:23 · 5 answers · asked by lovergirl_82 1 in Singles & Dating

I am currently dating online, a gentleman @ i were messaging eachother back and forth a few times he asked for my #and never called a week went by he didnt message or call so i sent him a message he said he lost the # so i gave him the # he still didnt use it it has been a couple of weeks now am i overreacting all that mess is just getting a little played to me i dont have time for foolishness

2007-10-20 20:07:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To tell you he loves you after only dating for 2 weeks or would you say that was a huge red flag? We haven't been intimate-sexually anyway.

2007-10-20 20:04:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my friend she's 16 years old and she met this guy while she played online on her Xbox, and so she tells me that she's been talking to him online through headphone for some time now, Now she says she loves him, she's in love with him etc, and they even chat online (myspace) But here's the part where I think it's dumb and kind of pathetic!
Well she's here in California, Los Angeles and He's All the way over in New York Bronx, Plus She's 16 a minor and he's 18 years old,
When she talks to me about him that she loves him, that he has a sexy voice, she tells all other girlfriends the same, I feel like letting her know how I feel about this!
But I just can't, She's living in a fantasy world! but i just can't believe it! She thinks that's love lol, IDK but I don't see it,

Also she's been asked out by many other guys and she turns them down for the online guy! i thought that was odd! and weird

Give me opinions what u think of this? How you see this as? dumb or hopeful?

2007-10-20 20:03:06 · 14 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Singles & Dating