our relation goes back to 6 months ago,,,he seemed to be a nice guy then with time he started to chabge,i never thought to be in love with him but what was i escaping from happened n now our relation ends every time n it's me who call him back begging him not to leave,,,,i don't know how to forget him though he's causing me an enormous harm...............please help;;show me the way i feel adict to his love,,,i'm lost n wanna truly to forget him.
2007-10-20 20:11:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this guy was only nice when he tried to get to you but changed later. Then he only pretended to be nice, what he is no is his true colors. Guys like that would get girls and dump them afterwards. It is not worth for you to go back to beg him.
There are many other good men around, just be yourself and look hard, try to make more friends with more people. You would find a suitable man that really loves your and cares for you, rather than the other way round.
2007-10-20 20:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Thinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I really don't know what answer to give you here considering you posted this two weeks ago....
"i'm engaged to my first love whom i've been waiting for a long time,he left me to travel abroad n came back after three years ,,,meanwhile i started to feel a great gap bet us n inspite of all that i could not think of someone else,,,,after few time he proposed n i accepted just because i didn't want to lose those memories................i was mistaken but can not make a step backe in these times i met a guy with whom i felt alive again,n was ready to start over,,but the fact of cheating drived me to ruin eveything,,,,i'm lost n could not find a solution...am i sick n have to see a psycho?"
So what happened to this guy you got engaged to?
It sounds like to me that you have two men here you are playing with, one of which you are engaged to now and the other you started seeing for 6 months ago when your first love was not around.
First question to you is this....how can you accept an engagement when you had someone else on the side?
You have stated you love both of them, yet your lost on both as well?
Only piece of advice I have to give here is this....tell both of them the truth, then tell both of them your sorry for misleading them....be single for awhile, rethink your life and what you want to accomplish in the future, I doubt you can have a relationship with either of these two gentleman considering that what you've been doing with both while the other had his back turned.
If I am mistaken on the situation then let me know.
CT
2007-10-21 03:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousTiger77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip on reality and be strong so you can step back and see this situation for what it really is (SAD) and where it will eventually go (NOWHERE).
I don't think you are addicted to his love. You are just afraid to be left alone....or else addicted to pain.
Let go so you can deal or get help for a much deeper problem you seem to have.
It's time to realise that Men aren't the sole purpose of a Woman's existance.
2007-10-21 03:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by bluegumpixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to get over him, then date new guys. Eventually, you will find someone new. However, you HAVE to be actively looking. Trying to make the same old, failed relationship work will not help you in the least.
2007-10-21 03:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourselves busy on your favorite things.time will tell and in no time you will forget him.breaking up at the moment is hard and both of you would cherish those wonderful days together but if you guys don't see each other for a while you will forget the whole episode.
2007-10-21 03:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by rootbeer_118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait 6 more months , it is true that you can get adicted to someone , you will have the same manifestations as a drug addict who quits in the end you will be better off.
2007-10-21 03:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by gjmb1960 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know it is hard to try and get over someone that you really care for, but it sounds like it is for the best. just try doing things to keep your mindoff of him. it sounds really bad, but try going out with or meeting a new guy. sometimes meeting a new guy will help you get your mind off of the other guy.
good luck
2007-10-21 03:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Youre just used to his company.
By you acting needy makes him dislike you even more.
just forget about him and date someone else.
The fact that he doesnt want u but u want him angers u.
Just let him go and get over it. Theres so many guys out there.
Dont lower your self worth.
2007-10-21 03:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by loveithateit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋