Family & Relationships - 20 October 2007

So i met her at this bar I frequent and had a good 20 -30 min. conversation ,and then I asked if it was out of line to get her #,she said no and we exchanged #'s..interestin girl and had a good conversation so now I just want to know when to call..thanks

2007-10-20 18:44:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lies about everything... Why?

2007-10-20 18:43:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-10-20 18:43:28 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Its a really long story so I am going to try and shorten it the best I can, I am 24, my brother is 28, he has never seemed to really like me, and when we were younger he was physically and verbally abusive, I always looked up to him and would always try to please him, he is very materialistic, so I would buy him lavish gifts with the little bit of money I did have, nothing was ever good enough for him, as we got older, I would watch his kids for free whenever he wanted, when I had kids, he and his wife would rarely watch them even if I offered money, but what plagues me the most, is that my brother, out of nowhere, will go on verbal rampages, he will attack the first person he can, and you never know when its going to be you, its been me about 3 times since I have been an adult, and it happened again tonight, his words are poison and I mean his words are just downright cruel, he hits below the belt, I told him never to talk to me again until he apologizes, he said he will never do that

2007-10-20 18:43:27 · 8 answers · asked by This girl 3 in Family

i love a girl and i had sex with her but now my parents are trying to get me married with a girl who is our relative and they are not listening me but i feel guilty that i caused my girl friend to loose her vergien

2007-10-20 18:42:51 · 10 answers · asked by touhid m 1 in Singles & Dating

During my last year of college,I had a sexual relationship with this guy.It didn't end all too well because he claimed that he thought I was me who had been prank calling his phone.Anyhow, after he did accuse me of that we still continued to sleep with each other, I called him, he called me, there was no problem until suddenly I text message him about something I left at his house and he tells me to not call him anymore and threatens to tell people we mutually know about our relationship. And that he will put a restraning order against me and that He said he would'put my business out in the street" so the next day I get a call from one of his close friends whom never calls me inviting me to his event.This particular friend happens to be his best friend and who happens to be one of the members of the club I tried to join)so she invites me to his event, but I didn't go, and so everytime I see her school she ignored me, he ignores me, I'm feeling bad, feeling like I did something wrong
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I try to reach out to her to wish her happy birthday, and congratulations on her performance at a school event ad I get ignored, I see him at school he ignores me, then I see him again and he smiles and calls me over so we can talk, but I tell him I have to go to class, but wish him luck.The other members of the club speak to me , another member even gave me a hug, so i guess my question would be should I still try to join the club even though my reputation might have been ruined by me having a relationship with him?

2007-10-20 18:42:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have fancied this guy for a few weeks now, and I think he likes me too... We catch each other staring, talk on msn a LOT and on facebook... We are friends, but if I see him in the hallways at school it's not like we're friends at all. My stomach goes nuts and he goes shy (and he is quite extrovert normally). I have no idea whether I should take the plunge and do something to show that I definetly like him, or wait it out and see if he stirs up the courage to do anything, if he does like me.

Please give me your thoughts =]

(PS I'm only in grade 10 so although I feel strongly I know that I will not impact my life.)

2007-10-20 18:41:49 · 4 answers · asked by sulch_nina 1 in Singles & Dating

whenever i pick my girlfriend up when we go somewhere i usually say hi and how you doin and whatnot but after about 5 min i run out of things to talk about. How can i avoid this awkward silence in the car?

2007-10-20 18:41:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we had decided to wait til the honeymoon...but we just cant wait any longer!! will my vagina feel tighter to him??

2007-10-20 18:39:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do you think it is right for a stay-at-home mom to ask her husband, who works on average 80 hours a week, to help with household chores? there are 2 children, 1yr. and 3 yr.

2007-10-20 18:39:04 · 16 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Seems that all they want when they set out to date a woman is to hurt her in the end...is that just the way they are or are there actually some gentlemen left in the world who know how to be kind?

2007-10-20 18:38:37 · 31 answers · asked by female 1 in Singles & Dating

I have no idea what to say on those things. I don't really know how to talk about myself very well. I am a confident person. I just don't know what's important to share and what is not important to share in those things.

thanks

2007-10-20 18:38:33 · 3 answers · asked by art_flood 4 in Singles & Dating

two 16 year old boys to be staying the night together? Sleep in the same bed? Is it kind of too old to be staying the night? Give me your opinion!

Thanks for your time =]

2007-10-20 18:37:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-20 18:36:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as soon as I woke up and told me she was "ratgirl". She slaps my butt when I'm brushing my teeth, and follows me around- then as SOON as I sit down she sits in my lap! When my boyfriend comes over she tells him she smokes and drinks beer (neither one is true, she's 5 by the way), and when I leave with my bf she says "see ya later alli-poo-poo" to him. ERGH!

2007-10-20 18:36:00 · 5 answers · asked by Jessie K 1 in Family

2007-10-20 18:34:59 · 9 answers · asked by Hector 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance' and I went our separate way a little while ago, we split on mutual terms, no cheating, hate etc....but now I have this problem, she has a sister whom I always thought was very attractive and even had fantasized about several times in the past, of course I never acted on them knowing the problems it would have caused so our relationship basically was that of in-laws as we were going to be.
Since my fiance' and I split up I have seen her sister out several times and we always talk very friendly, but I found out that she has always been attracted towards me and never acted on it like myself.
I really am not sure what to do here, we both have stated how we feel towards one another and I honestly don't think anything would be wrong with us going forward in dating, yet a part of me feels like I would be cheating on my ex with her sister still, I have spoken of this to several friends, I suppose I just wanted to get someone elses opinion who doesn't know me nor her.
Thank you.

2007-10-20 18:34:25 · 16 answers · asked by CuriousTiger77 2 in Singles & Dating

I have found the church to be very limiting in this the never ending facet of ones life. Where do we go? To whom do we see?

I hate to get rash but I must not be stuck with having to do the boogie dance on my bed! There must be an answer! Perhaps some sort of diet or cream?

2007-10-20 18:33:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've posted several questions asking various things like how to talk to girls, ask a girl out, etc...I'm 15 sort of overweight,im a little short,unathletic,smart,nice,a good person,very funny,a great guitarist and whenever i talk to anyone(if i can get over my initial shyness)they will almost always end up my friend.So why,then,have i yet to find one girl i like that feels the same way about me.Fat people get girls too,so do people with faces that have more zits than skin,and i barely have any.Im a lot funnier than the average guy and can make almost anyone laugh easily,but any girl i like im pretty sure doesnt feel the same way about me.I was getting into this one girl who was a friend of one of my friends. I hadnt met her, but wed seen pics of each other and talked through facebook, she sed i was cute, she thought i was reely funny,she was single,but my frend talked to her an dshe sed she doesnt like me, Why?! Am i cursed or sumthing? Every time this happens, why?

2007-10-20 18:33:20 · 35 answers · asked by Gordo_e_Gringo7 1 in Singles & Dating

Im not married i dont have a girlfriend, but i think America is as only as strong as the family is strong and divorce in America is a way of life single mother homes are very common...will it always be like this and why has it comes to this does the blame fall on any one thing? if youve been divorced or been married for awhile id apprecaite if you could explain this to me since im not in your shoes and havent experienced anything like this...if there is any way that marriage in our country can be fixed what do you think it is...thanks.

2007-10-20 18:31:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I talked to the person on the phone who saw my husband making out with some woman in Walmart's parking lot, her description of his cloths and vehicle matched.

After he came home with a Walmart plastic bag, I kicked him in the nuts and proceeded to grill him for an hour about what happened, yet he denied everything saying it was a misunderstanding.

I packed up some cloths and I'm now at my brother's and his wife's house. My husband came over finally admitting to kissing this lady and in tears, he was begging me to forgive him. Being angry, I told my brother send him on his way.

I asked my brother and his wife what I should do and they said for me to do what I think is right and I can stay as long as I need.

The problem is, not only did he hurt me, but he also humiliated me since all my friends now know. I wondered if I could forgive him, yet when think of him I'm disgusted and have no trust anymore. I can't see myself going back.

Am I being to harsh? What would you do?

2007-10-20 18:30:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It is apparent he still liked her while he was with me.

2007-10-20 18:29:51 · 15 answers · asked by Alex J 3 in Singles & Dating

there's this co-worker that i dont really get along with, she talks trash about me to everyone and lies about me to our manager who scolds me for things i didnt even do, and the worst part is; i've been nothing but nice to this co-worker, i dont talk trash to her i dont bad mouth her but she still gets me in trouble, its driving me nuts and i cant take it anymore, i am afraid that she might lie about me enough to the point where they fire me, that would be the worst, what do i do?

2007-10-20 18:29:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whenever i see this guy he stares into my eyes, and i cant help but stare back,, and then we both cant stop smiling LOL why is this?

2007-10-20 18:28:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can you tell? Does she bite her lip, stare at you, etc...??
If a girl does this to me should I go for it and kiss her?

2007-10-20 18:27:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 and im a virgin. i have a boyfriend. the other day he asked me if i was a virgin and i didnt want him to know i was. so i said i had sex with an old boyfriend once. and then i asked him how many times hes had sex and he said none that hes a virgin. so it sucked cause i could have been honest but thats not my question. i think me and him will end up losing are virginity to eachother because were in love. but im kinda nervous about it. but not about having sex impaticular but i kinda wish he was'nt a virgin because i want him to know what hes doing. what do you think? and please dont judge me

2007-10-20 18:27:54 · 20 answers · asked by Kacie B 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife and I are going through some major issues of cheating from the past....we were both guilty of it. I was a merchant marine traveling all over and we would fight all the time. now we are trying to striaghten things out but my wife doesnt want to go to counseling because she doesnt want to re-live the past. What good is counseling for me if my own spouse wont participate. at times im like should we stay together or just split but i really want it to work at all cost. My last resort was this marriage counseling before I make make any stupid decisions. appreciate the advice

2007-10-20 18:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by Mr Confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he says he stoped befor ne thing happed should i belive him PLEASE help..

2007-10-20 18:25:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I swear my life can't get any worse
my dad is drunk again and his dad came over to 'talk' to him but all their doing is laughing about the whole thing
my mom is crying, I'm crying, and my two little brothers are crying
there is no place to turn and no place to go now
I think he did something to his dad because they haven't been talking for a while and he brought a knife out to the garage with him and scared the **** out of all of us
I know only I can go through this but not even the most hated girl on earth diserves this
so please someone help me
give me advice to get through this before him and his knife get to me
please I'm begging you
if I get nothing I'm going to be dead and if you help me who knows maybe I'll make it through
so please I'm begging for any advice as to getting through this
please if this were you what would you do?
please help!

2007-10-20 18:24:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my boyfriend have been dating for three weeks now and he wont do anything with me. He says he loves me too. My friends try to talk to him about it and he only gets mad and doesnt say anything. What can i do?

2007-10-20 18:23:41 · 4 answers · asked by Dani<3 1 in Singles & Dating