im 15 and im a virgin. i have a boyfriend. the other day he asked me if i was a virgin and i didnt want him to know i was. so i said i had sex with an old boyfriend once. and then i asked him how many times hes had sex and he said none that hes a virgin. so it sucked cause i could have been honest but thats not my question. i think me and him will end up losing are virginity to eachother because were in love. but im kinda nervous about it. but not about having sex impaticular but i kinda wish he was'nt a virgin because i want him to know what hes doing. what do you think? and please dont judge me
2007-10-20 18:27:54 · 20 answers · asked by Kacie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seriously you are too young. wait on it, and there is no shame in being a virgin at 15. i would tell your boyfriend somethin like "that time i had sex with my old boyfriend was rushed and it didnt feel right, so im just not ready to rush into sex again."
2007-10-20 19:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, when u are 15 yrs old, ur are not in love, u just like the opposite sex because of the raging hormones. I am 18 yrs old and still a virgin.
I think that u should put it into thought and know that the consequences can be vital.
But if u are desperate then just tell him the truth and if u decide to be intimate then i think its ok because he's a virgin (if he is telling the truth) and u are a virgin. I no possibility for STD . But, u should take the proper procuations like:
taking birth control pills a a few days before sex
and tell him to have a condom (its vital) so that u don't get pregnant. Check in a clinic for Pregancy test and HIV days after the incident.
Good Luck
2007-10-21 01:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just to let you know from the start I am not judging you in anything I say. So here I go. Honestly I think that you a really young and should think twice about having sex it is really emotional and can connect you to someone In a very strong way. I dont think many people realize that and I think young people are getting involve way to young. I think you should hold out a couple more years. I was a virgin, and I gave it up to my boyfriend when I was 20 years old. I am very glad I waited because I was able to handle all the emotional attachments that came with it. And since we were more emotionally mature (not saying your not mature) we have been able to last longer in our relationship in fact I have been with him now for about 5 years. I'm just saying think twice before giving it up, having sex isnt everything.
2007-10-21 01:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by princesshotty02 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Everyone starts out as a virgin. Look at it this way; the two of you will be able to share something special with each other, that you can never share with another person.
As for the skills, they can be learned (see link below). "Foundations" is a great place for your boyfriend to start, so that when the time is right, he is ready and the sex will be better than average. Be certain to use at least 2 forms of birth control when you do have sex, so if one fails, you aren't totally hosed.
Good luck... and in the future, just be honest with your boyfriend!
2007-10-21 01:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be honest with your bf or he will end up being angry with you later. It is a wonderful experience to lose your virginity together. If you are concerned about what to do, read some books about sex and male-female relations. Learning together will be exciting, and you will never wonder if the other has experienced better sex with someone else.
God Father is right about the protection. It only takes one time to get pregnant.
2007-10-21 01:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are he is a virgin too. More important is that we women and men dont have the 18-21 age limit hardwired. In was a minor when I lost my virginetry. I wish I cold tell you my first time was wondrfull and perfect and romantic but.....
it was not. the truth is that there is no one age to lose your virginity but if you do you should be convinced and in love.
2007-10-21 01:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by gloria d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to give advice, and pretend you are old enough to handle the emotional and physical affects of a sexual relationship...
First off, he is a virgin, you could let him practice and get back to you.(Bad advice, bit it's pretty odd you would expect him not to be a virgin at 15.)
Seriously, it would be best to wait. Once you do "it" you get emotional attached, and if you break up, it'll break or heat o billions and billions of pieces. Plus, if you got pregnant, would you be ready to deal with it?
2007-10-21 01:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by SnowLight 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey u know all those movies where girls brake up with guys for not being honest? yea other way around right now tell him ur a virgin he wont care. and heres a tip *condom* every time for the guy dont mess up ur life at 15..
2007-10-21 01:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by TG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are truly in love, things will happen naturally. You can learn together. I would tell him you lied about sex,. This might actually put him at ease, knowing he will not be compared to someone else, plus you shouldn't start a serious relationship with a lie,
2007-10-21 01:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by charm1936 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no judging here just the truth, if you don't want to do it don't but if you do read a lot about it and ahve him read too and make sure to have protection when you finally do ahve sex because your too young to have a baby
2007-10-21 01:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋