he says he stoped befor ne thing happed should i belive him PLEASE help..
2007-10-20 18:25:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him. Find someone better. If he couldn't wait two weeks without hooking up, he is a dog. Sorry. :-(
2007-10-20 18:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as though he has completely disregarded your feelings and stopped what before anything happened? Isn't a hickey enough to have happened? I would tell him that you are not going to accept that behaviour from him, its basically unacceptable! He is either 100% with you or 100% with a hickey sucking whore. And any other incidents and he is 100% out of your life...Please stick up for yourself, you deserve better than that half assed explanation. And if you do end up dumping him, you may lose him, but you'll gain some self respect. Good luck with it all.....
2007-10-20 18:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by bahl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess he doesn't define getting a hickey as "anything" happening. Did you break up during this week or was it understood that you were still an exclusive couple, just taking a break? If he's been totally faithful and trustworthy up until now, I might consider giving him a second chance, but I'd keep my eye on him very closely from now on. If he hasn't been, I'd probably let this be the straw that broke the camel's back and move on.
2007-10-20 18:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He didn't stop before anything happened, that's how the hickey happened. It is up to you if you want to continue. I'm not sure why you two took a break, but did he initiate it so he could go and be with someone else? I'd feel betrayed, especially if the break was agreed to be for just one week. Get rid of him and find someone that deserves you.
2007-10-20 18:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it was a hickey and not razor burn? Some of us guys have sensitive necks! Actually since you took "some time apart" you gave him the greenlight to get a hickey. You need to get over it and move on. If it is meant to be he will pursue you, but remember to keep your best assets as bait.
2007-10-20 18:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by kwoogief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt he stopped before anything happened. I mean, it is pretty hard to get a hickey, if you don't want to be making out or whatever. I say, don't believe him unless you totally trust him, but since you guys weren't together for a while, you probably weren't that close, so...he's probably lying to you.
2007-10-20 18:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it a break like "hey we need time apart from each other"?? if so read on otherwise this is obsolete info.
You had a "break". He was allowed to do what he wanted, unless u had set guidelines not to do those things then he is within his rights.
IF it was made clear not to do those things then sure he did the wrong thing but it sounds like a proper break where it's each for themselves.
2007-10-20 18:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by Xavie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you take a break, it means break up and the male usually goes out with other women, while the girl sits around and decides her future. Boys don't work like girls, if you're not going to be there for him, he will go find someone else.
You admit, by your own words, that you were on a break, so therefore, whatever he did during that week is none of your business because he wasn't with you.
2007-10-20 18:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he had the nerve to get a hickey from another person he doesn't care about you. True love is not even thinking about another guy/girl.
2007-10-20 18:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by U Wish 2 B Me 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't believe that. When someone says they want to be apart or to have space that alone means they want to explore. Never trust that
2007-10-20 18:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋