Family & Relationships - 20 October 2007

Everytime I would like to talk to my boyfriend about something he says that he "doesn't want to deal with it." I mean, he's a grown man. Should I just get the hint and move on?

We've been togehter for a year and are living together. I think sometimes we have communication problems. I was telling him something today that was really on my mind and that I needed to talk to him about and he started getting frustrated with me and yelling. So I hung up on him because it was making me more upset and I didn't want to fight with him.

He just called me back and was trying to attempt to talk to me and he started yelling at me again. When I asked him what his problem was he told me he didn't want to deal with it. I can't be with someone who treats me like that! He should be my partner and listen when I speak.

He's 30 years old and I think he still doesn't get it. Should I stick it out or stop wasting my time?

Keep in mind that regardless of this flaw, we are deeply in love.

2007-10-20 17:33:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well this dude i like he and i was talking on the phone and we express we like each other and we got to talking about orther things and he wanted to have sex with me but i'm still a virgin and i said no and we finish talikng but i think he's rteally cute and sweet because we've know each other for a long time and that's like why i haven't went out with anyone since 7th grade because every one i meet wants sex and i want to wait untill i'm 18 or 19 and i'm only 15. Now he have a girl friend and we don't talk much anymore because i have nothing for him.

2007-10-20 17:32:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Seems to be that the college generation lives together before marriage, then after one graduates they get married, one moves away to their new job and other stays and goes to school another 4 years and the first 6 years they are married don't live together but for 5 years before marriage they do. I know it is short term and eventually they will get on same path, (I hope) but I've seen couples do this and studied it in school also. Nobody says what happens to them?

2007-10-20 17:32:38 · 14 answers · asked by Peggy Pirate 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 17:31:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've always complained about DeBeers' stupid monopoly on diamonds and how diamonds are so overrated. I also said that engagement rings are a waste of money. I also said a few times that the idea of marriage scares me.

Why then would my boyfriend propose to me with an engagement ring with three diamonds on it?? It seems sweet of him, I know, but at the same time he totally disregarded my opinions and fears. What do you think?

2007-10-20 17:31:34 · 35 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She is 30 years old, married, and she has a new baby. I am petrified when she comes to our house. She opens drawers in our bedroom, takes things she wants without asking, and I am over it.

2007-10-20 17:30:47 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine75 3 in Family

He kisses other girls, and i get so jealous. what should i do?

2007-10-20 17:29:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are all the beautiful girls in the United States immature, b!tchy and sIutty?
Since I came to the United States, I've never found one who is mature and have personnality.
People doesn't know that ugly= immature, beautiful= mature.
The reason why I'm saying this is because you can be beautiful but when you don't have personnality, you are immature and this is not beautiful, that's ugly.

2007-10-20 17:28:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm fourteen and I never found it important to be one of those kids who dates all the time and doesn't even like the person. But, at the same time, right now since I haven't dated anyone, I'm completely and totally afraid of it. Everything. Like having nothing to talk about, rejection, close contact, not having a crush on them anymore, having to break up with them or vice versa, and talking to them alone. I have no idea how to do anything, and you all might say, "Just be yourself!" But how can I be myself when I'm so afraid I turn down everyone who asks me out?

HELP!

2007-10-20 17:28:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 17:27:14 · 7 answers · asked by Shopnil 3 in Singles & Dating

Can a women with 2 kids relocate to another state by going directly to a shelter, or do you have to be a resident there first. I want to leave my abusive husband and move to another state. I want to move near Allentown PA.

2007-10-20 17:25:53 · 8 answers · asked by Suzie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 17:25:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So my BF has hidden pictures on our computer. I can't open the file, I don't know the name... so would anyone know how to open it.... I think he's up to something not good..... What if its pics of another girl???? I need to know we've been together for almost 5 years!!! someone help me...

2007-10-20 17:23:46 · 12 answers · asked by pinayprincez17 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean, I know anger is justified in this situation, but as he's obviously a selfish narcissist and not worthy of any of my time or consideration, I'd like to write him off completely. Thing is, everything seems to remind me of him and all the recollections make me angry.

Will it simply take time? Should I just grit my teeth and tough it out? Should I throw myself into a hobby or a job? Should I sleep all day and all night until I forget about how much he hurt me? Should I get a tiny voo doo doll and stab it in the eyes?

2007-10-20 17:22:31 · 31 answers · asked by ZER0 C00L ••AM••VT•• 7 in Marriage & Divorce

please read my other questions, you will understand the situation alot more, and it will be easyer for you to answer me. if you dont read my other questions, dont bother answering becuse you wont have the information.
my parents kicked me out as soon as lana got pregnant, they never contact me, exept in a christmas card once a year, and when i call them and ask if they would like to meet my daughter they refuse. she is 14 and i think that they suld meet her, as she is there only grandchild, and i am there only son.

2007-10-20 17:21:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

not once did i get on and flirt sure i said hi but nothing else now shelia gets on and says this to single guys i havent cheated and saying hi aint nothing to what she just did i guess what good for the gander is good for the goose To the SINGLE GUYS I got question?
I got question for u guys but read on to u get to the question.ok first of all I got eye problem my right eye hurts were my online boyfriend made me cry and holler back in august cause he was neglecting me for others so I hollered & cried.Then something happen to my eye.And I havent been happy since.Anyway Im trying get cheered up so if my eye was ok and I was better and I was your girl what would u do cheer me up? would u take me across the world to Paris or France? Italy? or Hawaii? or wine and dine me or what? My fantasy is to walk hand and hand on the beach maybe tropical island on the outskirts of hawaii as I said hand and hand walking threw sand with the water splashing against our feet and legs u holding me in you

2007-10-20 17:20:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend keeps stressing out that shes u.g.l.y.
shes 13.
is she ?

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2007-10-20 17:17:07 · 2 answers · asked by lOlii !! 2 in Singles & Dating

What should are wedding song be? I was thinkin somethin like Welcome to the Jungle (GNR!) but the misses ain't to excited bout that. She wants somethin slow and romantic, but that ain't me? Besides, I don't think the legion has any slow stuff like that an that s were the reseption is gonna be.

2007-10-20 17:15:36 · 8 answers · asked by Ghimraab 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend, and we have been together for awhile now, but I rarely get to see him because of his activities, i dont want to be jealous..but its hard.
He is one of those guys that a lot of girls tend to like.
Well, i just found out that one of our friends likes me, and I see him all the time.I'm just confused on what to do. Can you help me decide..and figure out if he really likes me?

2007-10-20 17:15:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband left to work about 5 hours away, I already miss him alot. He will be away for 1month, could be more. What are some things that I could do to keep me busy??
Since he just got this new job we don't have much money right now so I can't go shopping or anything like that.
Also I have 2 kids ages 1.5 and 3 what are some things besides going to the park??
Does anyone have any advice on how to make this month go by quickly or any advice at all. He's only been gone 1 day and it already seems like it's been alot longer!

2007-10-20 17:13:44 · 18 answers · asked by ~Mommy*of*3~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I ve been looking for a friend that is like me all my life. I feel uncomfortable with my other friends, they are just not like me!
I want someone with the same built and good looks, a friendly and happy girly girl like myself in my age range, with the same life experiences ..... that has kids that are about the same age as mine, husband about the same age as mine, the same problems and fears, the same inspirations and goals.
Sometimes I find someone I think is like me ... but I just get disappointed because she is just ... not like me.
What should I do?

2007-10-20 17:13:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a good place to chat?

2007-10-20 17:12:28 · 12 answers · asked by flashlight 2 in Friends

sorry, this is a statement not a question

im a man btw (straight) i want to say now ... some woman endure more than men will ever imagine ... and most men are cowards!! ... im almost ashamed to be one .. i just want to extend a kudos to all the single mothers out there

2007-10-20 17:12:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a very great relationship for 5 years and friends for another 2 now i am engeged. to my fiance would like if i decided not to work . We do plan on having kids in the future and i would love to home with them but i do have a pretty good career at the moment but it would be no problem for me to be at home especially since we want kids in the future.

2007-10-20 17:11:10 · 13 answers · asked by cash 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 17:02:39 · 5 answers · asked by Fancy You 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

When he gets paid, he faithfully gives us the money & we pay the loan. That's not the problem. My son has a junior license which means he must be off the road and home by 11pm. He cannot drive between the hours of 11pm & 7am. On weekends after work, he works till 8pm, he goes straight out with his friends and doesn't come home till 12 or 1am. I'll call his cell phone and he says I'll be home soon and doesn't show up till 45 minutes later. He has straight A's in school and is respectful in all other ways. He just got the car about 2 months ago. I understand it feels good to have freedom at his age but I worry something could happen that late. Especially drunk drivers. I always see him wear his seat belt and obeys road laws but he won't come home on time. I was crying the one night cause he forgot his cell phone and didn't call me I didn't know if he was okay. I was so mad I didn't speak to him. The car is in our name.

2007-10-20 17:01:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

fell in love ?

2007-10-20 16:42:39 · 26 answers · asked by Sarah L 4 in Singles & Dating

ok well there is this guy at my school and he has asked me out like 4 times. i really like him but i am not supposed to date till i am 16 and i am 15. anyway i really like him so i am going out with him cause i finally said yes to him, but i feel bad for breaking the rules, but i just like him to much. i know i am young to have a boyfriend, but it is just amazing when i am around him. so what should i do about this problem????

2007-10-20 16:36:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 16:32:47 · 18 answers · asked by Pariah 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont even know where to begin. i feel lonely, sad and frustrated at times, especially when i fight with my husband. he frequently lies to me about things that have to do with money. when we fight it gets ugly but when things are good, theyre real good. i dont know if im depressed or if these feelings i have are normal to have. my question might not even make sense to u because my state of mind right now is unstable and confused. please help

2007-10-20 16:32:04 · 8 answers · asked by mich 2 in Marriage & Divorce