ok well there is this guy at my school and he has asked me out like 4 times. i really like him but i am not supposed to date till i am 16 and i am 15. anyway i really like him so i am going out with him cause i finally said yes to him, but i feel bad for breaking the rules, but i just like him to much. i know i am young to have a boyfriend, but it is just amazing when i am around him. so what should i do about this problem????
2007-10-20 16:36:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For every lies there is a 99% chance it will come back and bite you...the rules are for YOUR protection.
But if you don't want to be protected, don't whine later about your bad judgement.
2007-10-20 16:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anna C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand both sides, but keeping a good trust with your parents at this age is very very important, I know you might not like a compromise, but maybe you could like double date or spend time together at your house in a living room without others but family in the house as chaperones sort of ?? Something can be worked out if you admire your parents enough to try to honor them here, so they must be pretty good parents and not bull headed
2007-10-20 23:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by I Love Jesus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestley it doesn't really matter what age you atart going out at beacause i started going out at 13. and yes i had my heart broken but at 14 this amazing guy came into my life and i accaepted him and we have been together for 2 years now.
anyways i know you are breaking rules and the reason your parents proabably want you to date later on is because they don;t want you to get hurt or heart broken or have to deal with all this boy stuff at your age.
but really it doesnt make a differnce at what age you start going out, if it's meant to be it will be.
if you are really scared. you can tell the boy that you tow can be really good friends and he can wait till you are 16 to date, if he understands that will be great, he is the one but if not, than you should wait for the one who will understand.
just good luck and don't get hurt and don't hurt anyone because people have feelings.
just talk to the guy if you are really concered.,
you can also tell your parents about the whole sistuationa and maybe they will understand.
but that's a risk.
so i'm not saying that you shjould go against your parents but sometimes people have to follow there hearts and take there path to find out for themselves. and than it's there fault at whatever happens.
it's all up to you.
follow yourr heart.
it's always good though to listen to your parents.,
they usually want best for there children.
2007-10-20 23:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them ur 15 to me thats old enuf but ur not my kid lol im only 16 so ask ur parents they might go 4 espshly if they meet him and liked him a lot
2007-10-20 23:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur parents and tell them about this boy that has ask u out like four times and tell them about u really feel about him and every thing and see if they will let u go out with him
2007-10-20 23:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by flickadreamergirl2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell yr mom, she'll probably understand. if yr birthday is just a few months away then its ridiculous for you to not go out. but if you just turned 15 they might not be to nice about letting you go out with him.
2007-10-20 23:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to your parents abuot it! hey i got my ears peirced wheni was 11 rather than 13 like i wus sposed too lol
2007-10-20 23:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop dating him and be good friends
better things will happen when you are older and allowed to date him
2007-10-20 23:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Be MIne.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋