Well this dude i like he and i was talking on the phone and we express we like each other and we got to talking about orther things and he wanted to have sex with me but i'm still a virgin and i said no and we finish talikng but i think he's rteally cute and sweet because we've know each other for a long time and that's like why i haven't went out with anyone since 7th grade because every one i meet wants sex and i want to wait untill i'm 18 or 19 and i'm only 15. Now he have a girl friend and we don't talk much anymore because i have nothing for him.
2007-10-20 17:32:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stick to your guns, sweetie. You are right, wait on the sex. If he has a new girl friend it's because he's fishing to get into her pants. You will meet many of these sharks, don't get bit. Better to be a little lonely right now that to be dealing with all the baloney that comes with sex........yes, the pregnancies, diseases but also the emotional baloney. You think your life is complicated now, throw sex in and it gets 10x worse, not better.
Boys are incapable of meaninful relationships, they just want your body. So cast this one aside. Good chance all the guys you meet will want the same thing, so be willing to stand up for what you know is right even if it means casting all these idiots back into the sea. You have to live with yourself, don't let some guy tell you or pressure you into something.
Later, when you are more emotionally mature, have met more guys, then maybe it's time for sex. I only hope you wait until you have at least an engagement ring on your finger.....I realize that's a lot to ask. Knowing your partner is emotionally tied to you eliminates some of the problems.
2007-10-20 17:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your question!!!!!!!!!.... and you shouldn't have sex just because a guy tells you to OK....only when your ready...... thats what all guys just want ... they just want to have sex with a girl and then they dump her..... he probably just wanted to get with you to have sex.... because if he really liked you he would go out with some other girl..... and he wouldn't have stopped talking to you just because you didn't want to have sex with him..... he should have understanded you and gotten with you even if you weren't gonna have sex...... so think????........ don't just go with any guy that tells you that they want to have sex with you....... you are actually lucky that he has a girlfriend and that you guys are not together... because if you were.... he probably was gonna keep on buggin you and forcing you to have sex with him until you said yes.................. and its not worth it
2007-10-21 01:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by KeepCool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you for not going to bed with him .... look what he just did, he left you for another girl.... maybe that girl gave him what he wants...to have sex with him... that's what he only wants from you... sex!!!....
just wait for the right person who would like you for who you are not by the sex you can give him.... atta girl!!!....
2007-10-21 00:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by gorgeous_gigi66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! Thats just wrong!! Im sorry but at that age they shouldnt be a doin that!! Find a guy that isnt intrested in that yet! PLEASE!!
2007-10-21 00:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋