I ve been looking for a friend that is like me all my life. I feel uncomfortable with my other friends, they are just not like me!
I want someone with the same built and good looks, a friendly and happy girly girl like myself in my age range, with the same life experiences ..... that has kids that are about the same age as mine, husband about the same age as mine, the same problems and fears, the same inspirations and goals.
Sometimes I find someone I think is like me ... but I just get disappointed because she is just ... not like me.
What should I do?
2007-10-20 17:13:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all,you should accept people for who they are,good or bad,because would you like it if people treated you the way you treat them?
2007-10-28 09:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by †[L]oveless®† 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If we were all the same, life would be so boring. Friends have common interests but it doesn't mean they are identical in every aspect of their lives. I gather that you are very comfortable with yourself, and that is not a bad thing, But you are seeking someone that is basically a mirror image and that is not so good. People just like yourself are individuals. There are many journeys in life and each person handles them in their way, which defines the person they are. . Therefore the only way you will ever be satisfied is to clone yourself and that is not possible. Stop being so picky or you will end up with No friends.
2007-10-21 00:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never find someonelike you because you are a unique person and everyonehas seperate fears and problems. You should be happy with those friends you do have and see what you have in common with them and work on those. It's not necessary to have everything the same or there'd be no differences between you and them and that would be boring. You need to stop tryin to find what isn't out there. and be happy with what you have.
2007-10-21 00:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by jaineelyse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How boring!! There are so many more interesting people to get to know, to learn from, to enjoy their differences. Sounds like you are too wrapped up in yourself. No wonder you can't find someone. To be a friend is to forget one's self and concentrate on another.
A curious thing happens, by forgetting your needs they are suddenly fulfilled.
2007-10-21 00:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept people for who they are, and learn from eachother's life experiences. That's what friends are for.
2007-10-21 00:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so picky -
2007-10-21 00:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by bee p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is wrong with you.
2007-10-21 05:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋