Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

Why is it when boys cheat they get cheared on by there mates. When gals do it then get called names.

How does that work.

2007-12-30 23:58:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in Ireland with my new wife, my daughter lives in UK and I visit at least one w'end a month. My boss is getting angsty about the no of w'ends I have off to visit, my wife gives me a hard time about the no of visits, and as she is pregnant this is likely to get worse with the arrival of the new child. Daughter's mother is putting pressure on me to come over more often, saying that daughter is not happy about the amount of time she gets with me and this is resulting in behavioural problems.
Daughter won't be honest with me about how she feels, because she doesn't want to upset me, or so her mother says.
I don't want anyone to be unhappy, and I am trying my hardest, but I'm struggling to see how I can find a solution to this. When in the UK I stay with relatives, and my daughter's mother has a problem with this, but I can't afford to stay anywhere else. I'm doing my best, but my best doesn't seem to be good enough for anyone, I'm at my wits' end, please help

2007-12-30 23:57:30 · 6 answers · asked by Chief Justice 1 in Family

2007-12-30 23:50:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just got married and me and my husband were very excited. For some reason lately we havent really been communicating very well. Were starting to sleep with out holding each other anymore and we havent been talking lately. He just switched jobs we had worked together and worked well together. We got in an arguement and he said some not so nice things to me, he apologized and got me roses and really apologized but for some reason every since then I havent been able to feel the same. He didnt call me any names or anything but we're having a new baby and I have two young children 1 and 2 yrs old and work 45-50hrs a wk. I dont have energy to do house work exc.. so I feel like I am about to break down b/c I want to make sure eveything gets done.He helps clean exc..but its still overwhelming to me. I dont know what to do we just got married and shouldnt it still be peaches and cream. Should we do counseling or what he says he doesnt want to argue and we havent since just not really talking.

2007-12-30 23:42:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i guit drinking and this will be the first sober new years for me.im just going to watch some tv and probably fall asleep before 10 hits.are you planning on getting trashed,have a good time or do the same as me,nothing.

2007-12-30 23:36:37 · 24 answers · asked by mr. y 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Dont wanna fight - jon young

my boyfriend is gonna make the remix of this song with jon cause he's his step brother

what do you think about this song ?


I love it .my boyfriend says he listens to it everytime we fight .when im sad or mad and he's not there i listen to the song . it reminds me of him and im happy again . I dont like fighting with my baby I love him to much so we try not to fight as much as we usto cause everytime we fight it hurts bad . i dont like hurting him and he dont like hurting me.

2007-12-30 23:36:29 · 2 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

As a last ditch attempt to make our relationship work we got married.We have now split for good 4 months later.Can I get a divorce,I have been told you can't within the first year?

2007-12-30 23:36:20 · 21 answers · asked by ellie2324 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for the past 1 year. A typical arranged marriage. But now my husband says he does not like me since I do not respect his family. But I am also from a joint family and respect his family. My mother in law keeps on complaining about my small mistakes to everyone and my husband believes her and has now totally stopped talking to me in such a stage where I am pregnant. I do not understand what kind of respect they expect. I am professionally educated and working in a reputed organisation. I have been bought up freely, independently and take my own decisions. But here I have to give my salary to mother in law, ask her before taking any decision. Now my husband has turned up very stubborn and does not even talk to me....saying that he does not like me and hates me

2007-12-30 23:36:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In Dating, people know what they want and look for,BUT also, people get use to being "independent".It's hard to
break-into peoples independent bubble and get them to change. I'm not saying to change someone because it's a challenge or fun game,but to change a little for sake of a new relationship. Does anyone understand what I'm saying???

2007-12-30 23:34:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few months ago. I was very crashed over it. I asked him not contact me in order to move on but he has always contacting me, saying he finds it hard, he misses and loves me. He even came to see me twice as he missed me too much. But he said we cannot get together as the long-distance situation hasn't changed. Last time he contacted me, he told me he wants us to work things out but then he backed off again saying it's still not the right time for us. I was hurt again so I asked for no contact even though I really love him and want to be with him. Its hard really. But he eamiled me a week ago saying he can't help his feelings but he misses me, thinks of me and doesn't want me to think he doesn't want me anymore.I replied but I got upset when he said he is going abroad with his friends to celebrate New Year. He said he will leave me alone now as he can't take blames from me. I am so hurt. I love him. I am 30 yrs. Now his phone is off.

2007-12-30 23:34:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few months ago. I was very crashed over it. I asked him not contact me in order to move on but he has always contacting me, saying he finds it hard, he misses and loves me. He even came to see me twice as he missed me too much. But he said we cannot get together as the long-distance situation hasn't changed. Last time he contacted me, he told me he wants us to work things out but then he backed off again saying it's still not the right time for us. I was hurt again so I asked for no contact even though I really love him and want to be with him. Its hard really. But he eamiled me a week ago saying he can't help his feelings but he misses me, thinks of me and doesn't want me to think he doesn't want me anymore.I replied but I got upset when he said he is going abroad with his friends to celebrate New Year. He said he will leave me alone now as he can't take blames from me. I am so hurt. I love him. I am 30 yrs. Now his phone is off.

2007-12-30 23:32:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am ussually bubbly and fulll of confidence but at the moment i am feeling very introverted and teary and not wanting to go out. Why is this.

2007-12-30 23:22:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My relationship with my fiancee is in a shambles because we do not have sex. I'm always being pushed away and it seems like shes never in the mood. I don't think that shes cheating on me but I have reason to believe that she is having intimacy issues. She says that she just doesn't feel for it. And even when we do occasionally have sex. I can tell she cant wait for it to be over. Could it be the abortion she had about a year ago troubling her. Or the birth control shot she took after she terminated the pregnancy the she still continues to take. I just don't know what to do. I really love my girl but I cannot live like this for much longer. She tell me that if I'm really not happy with her that I should move on. She is aware of the problem and my fustration but I really don't see any effort on her part to compromise and please me in other ways. Or fix the problem all together.

2007-12-30 23:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by KEVIN B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes I don't do it at all but other days I do it a lot. What do you think?

2007-12-30 23:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by kirabailey666 1 in Singles & Dating

She is very conservative in her opinions and also very conservative in the bedroom. I just found out she has a VERY promiscuous past. I feel so deceived... She never claimed to be an angel, but her personality gave me that impression. Do I have a right to be angry about what happened in her past? Was I deceived about who I thought I was in a relationship with? Should I stay with her?

2007-12-30 23:18:05 · 22 answers · asked by Was i deceived about her past? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 23:16:03 · 14 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 23:13:47 · 17 answers · asked by MSMajor 2 in Singles & Dating

This past friday, I had a date with a famous actor/model. The date was perfect, and it both seemed like we had tons of fun. Spent the night with him in a fancy hotel, the whole nine yards. He told me how beautiful I am, and treated me like a princess. But...the thing is...I am still married...I am seperated...and I think that freaked him out. I told him at the very end, when we were talking about relationships. Since then, we sent a few emails back and fourth...but its not the same since it was before we went out. I really like him, not because of who he is, but because he treated me wonderful, and was a perfect gentleman. Sometimes, he sends a few one worded emails, but then he sends a few like 'where were you this morning when i woke up" or "good morning." But then..sometimes when i write him, he doesn't respond. So...my question is...now what?? Do I just play this cool and forget about him or do I tell him I really really like him?

2007-12-30 23:12:08 · 9 answers · asked by Amy B 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 years old, a freshman in high school and stupidly I got sucked into the pressures of high school parties. I went to a party 2 months ago, drank way too much, and had sex with a guy i barely knew. He is 17, a senior. I have not talked to him since the night and I'm not even sure if he remembers. I know how completely terrible this is. MY ONLY QUESTION IS: how should I tell the father that I am having his child? Should I even tell him?

2007-12-30 23:09:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is this normal? And if so--why? I've been married 16 years and just turned 40 a few months ago. I've always been satisfied with sex once a week (more in the early yrs of our marriage), but I want it ALL the time now and I'm going crazy! Hubby loves it and is able to do it on average once a day, sometimes twice (at least 12 hrs in between). But I'm still constantly horny and wanting more. I've never ever ever cheated, but am now fantasizing this and it scares me. On top of that a few weeks ago some guy called the wrong number looking for his wife (supposedly) and talked me into having phone sex. He calls maybe once a week, sometimes less, but this has just added to my already high sex drive and now I want to meet him--although scared he might be a freak. I am exercising more than ever because that tends to get rid of some of the sexual energy. But, like I said, is this normal? If so, why the heck is this happening and how long will it last?

2007-12-30 22:56:32 · 8 answers · asked by kk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hello all!! my countdown is 27 days right now. we are having a destination wedding and i would like to have my grandmother give out little favor bags. so far i have shell picture frames, and tins with candy. does anyone have any other ideas that won't break the bank, to put in these little bags?

thanks :)

2007-12-30 22:44:50 · 9 answers · asked by jamaican me crazy 3 in Weddings

2007-12-30 22:43:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-30 22:42:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

See, I really love this guy at school. I see him everyday. It hurts really bad because he doesn't like me the way I like him. I want so badly to tell him, but I can't. This is because 1. he doesn't know me well and 2. he's too gorgeous for me to be around. I can't look away from him. I see him walking down the halls and I have to jerk away. He has the most gorgeous eyes, the most gorgeous body and the most gorgeous EVERYTHING. I haven't loved too many times. I know that I will always love this guy. He's everything to me. I am so offended when I see or hear people talking so bad about him. I don't know what to do. My friends think I need to get over him, but I honestly cannot. I liked him a long time ago but I never knew who he was. Now, I know tons about him. He seems like a perfect guy for me. I don't know how I can keep this up. It's been around five months now and I'm still in love with him.

pLeAsE hElP mE!!!

What should I do?

2007-12-30 22:39:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was once outside a bar in Japan just after a brawl, and a Swedish man asked me what that was over, and I said probably a woman, and he answered, "Oh, in Sweden, we never fight over women..."
I got to thinking that he made real sense, because if a woman wants to go with another guy, that's her choice, yes? and no amount of violence is probably ever going to change anything... Do you think he was speaking true?

2007-12-30 22:33:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so i liked this guy and all..and i told him that i did...and for the last few weeks at school (he was a senior) he was really interested in me...heavy flirting....talking more...even this girl that had no idea i liked him coz no one does...reckoned he like me...then a few days back...i asked him if he like me...and he said that i was an awesome girl...that i always have a smile on my face and that i don't care what anybody says..but he just doesn't like me in that way...he reckons he's too old for me..but i know that he does date girls my age...he's 18 and i'm 15...what happened? and now how do i let him go?

2007-12-30 22:20:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Short, tall, skinny, fat?
Funny, serious?
I'm interested in your opinions!

2007-12-30 22:18:12 · 11 answers · asked by Edman 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 22:01:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont know if i should sleep with or not because
i think that all he really want is sex
because every time i see him
he would be like plz i really want to
and like now im confuse
cuz i want to but i dnt

2007-12-30 21:57:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my best friends of 15 years is getting married to a man that 'everyone' feels is the wrong person for her in so many ways. I know that I will be asked to be a bridesmaid. Do I say yes or no to becoming a bridesmaid when I feel that this decision could ruin the rest of her life?

2007-12-30 21:54:42 · 31 answers · asked by Xpat in Asia 1 in Weddings