Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

but she is dating someone .. do i keep trying to pursue her

2007-12-30 19:41:46 · 3 answers · asked by warhawk1017 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 19:39:48 · 27 answers · asked by TT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If your GF is spending time with her other friends but guys are there and she tells you nothing will happen because she cares about the realationship and loves you, but you have a hard time beliving her way,

2007-12-30 19:30:57 · 12 answers · asked by Soccer Geek 1 in Singles & Dating

I even know one, but she is married. How can I do it so she divorces him and marries me?

2007-12-30 19:26:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes we take our anger about work or school or whatever, out on the very people we love the most. Whjen you are on the receiving end of someone's anger, what hurts you the most, emotionally? What did that person do? What did he or she say that hurt your feelings?

2007-12-30 19:24:37 · 15 answers · asked by ThisIsIt! 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I found out the guy I have been in a relationship with for over four years has had a relationship with this girl for almost three years. I was devastated by the way, It is factual because she apparently has met our son, his mom and is great friends with his sister, I know this because I talked to her. She told me that my fiancee had said that he (23) was with an older woman (me) 27 with kids and that he was no longer with me because he just lost interest in me.. This girl is 21. I have always taken care of myself physically workout regularly and have three kids one with him. I make really good money and have never taken bull from anyone. I am all about my kids but, when she told me he had said that about me to her, it made me self conscious about myself. I have never had a problem attracting the opposite sex and in fact, I have always been loyal to him turning down others advances. My self esteem has been a little low since then and when I think about it, he is not even all that.

2007-12-30 19:13:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to know why most of you like going out with girls based on looks. All I really ever hear is wow shes hot I would bang her, or I cant go out with her because shes cute, bute shes not drop dead sexy. or shes really nice but her looks arent so nice so shes not my type.

I understand not all guys are like this. and I know all people are attracted to attractive people. But why is it most of the time a girls personality doesnt really count for anything. If you have looks and personality its ok but if looks arent involved then your screwed. Girls do this too but girls tend to be more leniant when it comes to looks.

2007-12-30 19:11:43 · 26 answers · asked by sarah 3 in Singles & Dating

I think that a lot of people especially women think that men are not physically abused by their female partners. So I would for myself like to know how many men out there have experienced this problem and what they actually did about it.
It is also important for me to say that whether you are a man or a woman, no one should feel they have the right to abuse you in any way.

2007-12-30 19:11:07 · 5 answers · asked by suerone 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay. well a person who i have been friends with for 10 years asked me for topess pictures not too long ago. im taken so i told him no. but he will not give up! he keeps on asking. then he asked me to be friends with benefits. i also said no to that. he also asked me to give him a bj, lap dance, and to make out. i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. so my question is why is he asking me to do these things for him? and does this mean i have to stop being friends with him?

2007-12-30 19:03:49 · 40 answers · asked by vy (: 2 in Singles & Dating

its pissing me off ...me and my sister are really pretty and some of our female relative aint happy with that..like one of my uncles wife is always after my sister oww she is short oww she is chubby oww how come your weight is so low while you look so fat...argghh and last night when we went out for dinner this other cousin started commenting on me your teeth are out(which aint) blonde highlightes doesnt look good on you, you need to have brown highlightes instead..Man that pisses me off and i seriously dont know how to answer them back...what exactly should i do to get my attention off when they say such things about us and why are they doing like this ?why why why?

2007-12-30 19:02:26 · 13 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i talked to them pretty much everyday all the time on myspace a few months ago, then for the first time we hung out at a football game. then after the football game she stopped talking to me on myspace, then i guess deleted me. so i added her again, then she deleted me AGAIN! so, im just wondering what happened.....why do i think she hates me? why does she probably hate me?

2007-12-30 18:50:45 · 33 answers · asked by skye 1 in Friends

I'm dating this girl. She's great. she's smart, beautiful, funny and is alot of fun to be around. Problem is, she has all guy friends. And these guys are all up in the kool-aid. She's also friends with all of her ex boyfriends. They keep calling her to hang out and she goes out with these dudes without me. She says "there just friends." Am I just trippin on this for nothing or should I be alarmed?

2007-12-30 18:30:22 · 10 answers · asked by tightlawmd 1 in Singles & Dating

1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date?
3 1st marriage?
4 how old were you both when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily married?

Write as much as you like.

Thank you.

Fine Print: No rude remarks against me or my question allowed. This is just a question. I am sure you will understand.

2007-12-30 18:26:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 and I'm wid my bf it's lready 10 months. There's this girl whoz lways fta him! Was his frn n lately she wnts mre! She noz everyfin bout me and him.
My bf put thngs straight wid her. But yesterday I found that he still had sme of her messages saved on his fone since August. He snatched the fone when I reached one mssg bout "taking your time... and u still kissed me". I cudnt read d whole mssg.
He did kiss her before knowing me...
I didn't say anyfin on the spot bt the fact dat he wudnt talk bout it makes me mad!!!!!
Js hearing that girl's name gets me in a state! I'm at the moment really pissed off wid him.
Am I being unreasonable? Help plz!

2007-12-30 18:25:57 · 17 answers · asked by Who cares?! 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been together almost 6yrs & have a beautiful daughter and for the past year we're drifting apart. i don't feel the same way for him anymore. we never kiss and sex? i would say we go weeks without it :( he smokes(weed)-i don't, he's a homebody-i'm not, he gets his freedom yet i don't, i'm not happy. i tried to leave because of the name calling and the disrespect, but couldn't because i didn't want to break up our fam. & because he promised everything was going to change. i don't want our daughter to grow up around all that...i feel stuck. i know better but don't know how to go about it. is how i feel a good enough reason to leave? i really don't want to end up like my parents :( sad but that's how i see us ending up--NO LOVE, JUST IN IT FOR THE KIDS.
am i just being selfish?

2007-12-30 18:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why does a spouce who is married cheat and chase younger ones who is not intersted in them only looking to make a *** out of there selves why cant they act there age and grow up like that trailer park trash woman in w.va really sicking those streach marksshe had

2007-12-30 18:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend seems to know how to make me feel bad so he uses that against me and he is always making me feel bad for him. He wants to spend new years with me and i want to spend it with him but now im having second thoughts. And he is always talking about my Ex and asking me questions about him.... I know he loves me a lot but i dont know what to do!!!

2007-12-30 18:23:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we cuddle.. we call it bravo. He kisses my feet. I suck his neck and he sucks mine and we call it bravo. One time he fell asleep in my bed and my aunt flipped out. I lay on him, he lays on me. I mean it the real way but he says he does it cause its comfy, not cuz he means it that way. Ummm... what does this really mean?

2007-12-30 18:19:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok well i was a virgin but then i slept with my boyfriends friend (sluty i know) and my boyfriend dosent know but he dose know im "am/was" a virgin..is there any way i could fake my virginty for him so he wont find out?

2007-12-30 18:18:16 · 10 answers · asked by shalom 2 in Singles & Dating

Ohk so as a girl Im been well endowed since i was in probably grade 8 or 9. I've always had larger boobs than other girls, and now I have size F. I'm not fat or huge or anything like that, just randomly very well endowed. I've read a bunch of questions about whether guys prefer big or little boobs but I hear a lot of them don't like them. Really? do guys rather small boobs?

2007-12-30 18:16:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 18:15:58 · 21 answers · asked by Istis 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont wanna hurt her feelings nor be a bad friend, but i want to at least tell her some things. but how do i telll her these things?
-she overdoes her makeup
-her crush doesn't really love her back
-that she isnt older than she really is
-she is a bad singer
-her clothes fit too tight (chubby friend :( )
-that whatserface isn't a real friend
-she is not a celebrity
-she thinks her crush is into overdone dark makeup but hes not

2007-12-30 18:14:15 · 6 answers · asked by [[Mosh&Roll]]< 3 in Friends

20 yr old son ran away from home??? and has been taken in by 16 yr old girlfriend and her parents. He met her in Sept and since day one has thought she lived at our house. His grades slipped, he dropped 2 classes and his focus is gone, at least it seems that way.The way she used to bad mouth her parents in the beginning it seemed she thought that she was trying to move in with us. My wife has been very supportive and cordial but during conversations with her, redflag, redflag redflags are appearing, something is amiss. We have decided to stay calm and supportive since he is an adult but I don't want him to do something he will regret.

2007-12-30 18:10:42 · 19 answers · asked by junior 1 in Family

My Girlfriends parents are very over protective and wont let her "date" until she is 16 (which will be next month) but the crappy part is that they consider EVERYTHING a date if she wants to come visit me AT MY HOUSE with my parents there at all times its a date and vice versa but whats weirder is that i knew her and her parents before we started dating and they liked me and at least her dad still does but her mom seems like she hates the very ground i walk on, okay for example she got to come over to our house last night and we had a nice time and all but when we took her home (my parents and i) i walked her in to drop off some presents for her parents and said merry Christmas her dad smiled at me and her mom gave me a soul piercing scoul.So i don't get it her mom has liked me since we met and her dad too,there Christian and so am i i don't swear never drink or smoke or anything and she herself has NEVER done anything to prove herself untrustworthy to them so please help how to cope.

2007-12-30 18:09:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

it is often said that a man understands the woman when he can diffrentiate between the "No" that means really "No" or the "No" that means "Yes".

For example, a guy would ask a girl if she wants to share an ice cream with him, and she says "No". We guys, most of the times, take your word and understand that the girl didn't want that it. Later on, to our surprise, we find out that she was upset because we didn't insist.

Now, it can happen with food, sex, money, selecting tv channels or a song on radio ..etc you name it.

2007-12-30 18:05:37 · 24 answers · asked by wow.man 2 in Singles & Dating

last two years me and my best friend have been hanging out with diferent people. He started hanging out with stoners and trouble makers, liars, people that want to fight people for any reason. Yeah I have friends that are stoners but not all of them and I don't want to see myself as a stoner, I to like to cause trouble here and there but not everyday and for some reason he thinks that getting with the trouble with the cops a lot is fun can some please tell me if that is really fun? And for some reason I think he think he is better or tougher then me because he has done some pretty bad stuff, does that make them tough or stupid? He called me a pussy one day because him and another kids were making bombs trying too with gun powder and oil and I told him I didn't want any part of it. I'm starting to find him someone I can't trust I feels as though he says **** behind my back so I have no idea if I'm jealous because some things he likes to do I don't and there something in my mind saying..

2007-12-30 18:04:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-30 18:03:53 · 4 answers · asked by terry c 3 in Singles & Dating

If you were with a girl who had a breast reduction and she had scars, how would you react the first time you saw them? The scars are not that bad but they are very noticiable.

2007-12-30 18:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We live several states away from my brother and father in law. My father in law, step mil, 1/2 and step brother came out for X-mas. They went to my grandmother inlaws house stayed one night and then left to go on a family vacation. I have 2 little boys 4 and 8 yrs that they only see about once a year. They open presents with us then insisted that we watched a movie and said they were all going to bed, so we left. They came back in town yesterday and spent the day with friends. We had asked them to take a box back with them to my other brother inlaw, his wife and daughter. They called tonight to ask about the box that they had OPENED. Saying that they weren't sure it was for them and then questioning everything that was in the box. I ran out of wrapping paper and my bil said don't worry about it so I didn't wrap them. My SMIL was saying things like are you sure it's for them it would be better for such and such. My husband says Im over reacting, am I wrong for being mad?

2007-12-30 18:01:52 · 5 answers · asked by 3Xmom 2 in Family

2007-12-30 18:00:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships