Guys!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

I want to know why most of you like going out with girls based on looks. All I really ever hear is wow shes hot I would bang her, or I cant go out with her because shes cute, bute shes not drop dead sexy. or shes really nice but her looks arent so nice so shes not my type.

I understand not all guys are like this. and I know all people are attracted to attractive people. But why is it most of the time a girls personality doesnt really count for anything. If you have looks and personality its ok but if looks arent involved then your screwed. Girls do this too but girls tend to be more leniant when it comes to looks.

Answer 1

Yeah, it's stupid..
I judge by the heart and personality

I <3 my man

Answer 2

Basic Physiology...Men are Visual Creatures..and pursue what is pleasing to the eyes.....survival of the fitest...it even occurs in nature......

~~now w/ that said......let me add on.....*ahem*.....yes its one thing to pursue someone based purely on looks...."however" if you want a relationship to be sustained there has to be more to it that just fluff n stuff....like a giant balloon.....it's pretty to look at...but on the inside is not solid material~

Answer 3

Because guys are more visualy attracted to mates while girls are more romantically atracted. and because (well in my case) you notice the looks way before anything else. sure a girl may have a good personality but that takes time to see.But you instantly know if you think a girl is pretty or not

Answer 4

it's just that as men we are always kind of tought by friends and our culture that if we get a good looking girl you are good at bed. also as a bang as you call it I would prefer a good looking girl, that all i want her for for a good bang and thats it. I my self dont care how a girls looks (not that much) but her personality is a make or break for me I dont like daddys little girls or girls who think they are better than other people just cuz they do.

Answer 5

Im not one of those who look around and BANG girls purposely. But males are naturally like that. They judge girls by the looks then the personality. Unlike most girls, they judge the character then the physical appearance. And thats why most societies do not allow girls to go around barechested. Unlike guys, their chests will not really seduce the girls... Its just nature.

Answer 6

ive been screwed over way to many times by girls... i've been told i have one of the most funny and best personalities of any guy ever. but im pretty skinny and most of the time i feel like thats the reason that i never get any girls that i like. i guess it mostly depends on what a certain person is looking for and there personality.

Answer 7

that chemistry of attraction was put there by Mother Nature to get your attention. because people buy into advertising and tv theres a lot of social pressure to be with attractive people. its actually a measure of success in our society in some ways. chemistry doesn't last though personalitiy and intellect and friendship win out in the long run.

Answer 8

what if she was the 1 who acted like she had a great heart & cared when she didnt? what if it wasnt all about the looks?

Answer 9

sounds like you are dealing with immature guys.
find guys from other places, from different walks of life. church, civic activities, broaden your search Field, look for more mature guys elsewhere if you are currently having little to no luck.
don't give yourself up to satisfy the wants of a little brat

Answer 10

Because we are evolutionarily designed like that.

We are attracted to our partners because of the sex right? If that wasn't the case then what stops you from treating a man just the same as you would a girl friend.

We want the best genes to pass on, so we bang the hot girls.