we cuddle.. we call it bravo. He kisses my feet. I suck his neck and he sucks mine and we call it bravo. One time he fell asleep in my bed and my aunt flipped out. I lay on him, he lays on me. I mean it the real way but he says he does it cause its comfy, not cuz he means it that way. Ummm... what does this really mean?
2007-12-30 18:19:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You shouldn't be this close together! Even if you want to, you can't be doing any of these things.
2007-12-30 18:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by hplyevr4evr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in an unhealthy relationship with someone with whom you could never really be satisfied or happy. We were created to be creatures of affection, yet we need to be aware that intimacy is intended to be shared within a pure, clean and healthy monogamous relationship. One can be 'comfy' with a soft pillow and a fuzzy blanket. Set your thoughts and effections on things above, concerning Christ and eternity, not on earthly (temporary) things. Focus on things that will bring lasting joy and peace. These kinds of healthy thoughts need to originate in the 'new' heart that can come from a personal relationship with Christ. It is amazing how much better and happier one can be within the guidelines of the word of God, because we need to realize that the Lord wants his very best for his people. I wish for you real happiness and also for your cousin. May the Lord grant you new insight and desires. If you continue in such unhealthy ways, the end result can only produce pain and suffering. The end result would yield destruction to both of your lives. I pray that you do not continue this course!
Dr. Bob
2007-12-31 02:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by BoomBoom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Err..it means you're playing at sex but dont have the guts to call a spade a spade.Eventually the two of you may do something you'll seriously regret the rest of your life.Peace.
2007-12-31 02:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Incest. You guys are sick individuals.
2007-12-31 08:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is jus WRONG !!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-31 04:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by foxc21203 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing good will come of this, Believe me you will be sorry right now you might take it as a joke. But one of this days he will get out of line or go over board then you will be crying and it will be too late stop while you are ahead.
2007-12-31 03:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by birdie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm personally i don't think it is a good idea for u and Ur cousin to be alone together if that's whats going on its not good to be in that type of relationship with a relative
2007-12-31 03:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by brina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down some,,,he wants sex with you. You and him should not be in the same bed together, even if it is playing.
2007-12-31 02:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by cm f 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your Aunts advice on this.
2007-12-31 02:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop doing what you are doing NOW! What you are doing will inevitably lead to sex, and you CANNOT have sex with your cousin. You would never be able to live with yourself afterwards.
2007-12-31 02:29:06 · answer #10 · answered by Applepie33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋