okay. well a person who i have been friends with for 10 years asked me for topess pictures not too long ago. im taken so i told him no. but he will not give up! he keeps on asking. then he asked me to be friends with benefits. i also said no to that. he also asked me to give him a bj, lap dance, and to make out. i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. so my question is why is he asking me to do these things for him? and does this mean i have to stop being friends with him?
2007-12-30 19:03:49 · 40 answers · asked by vy (: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im only 14!
2007-12-30 19:16:24 · update #1
I would say that whatever friendship you had with this guy is pretty much null and void now. He keeps advancing, and you keep saying no. You should only have to say no once. He has now officially crossed the line by continuing to proposition you. A LAP DANCE?? A B.J.?? How completely absurd. This man is not your friend. He is totally disrespecting you on every level.
Even if he stops, how comfortable would you be in a friendship with him now? Sometimes we have to let people go, no matter how long we've known them...
He apparently is not who you thought he was.
2007-12-30 19:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by ☆ Spharoe 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've known him for 10 years? What has gotten into him lately? I think he may be jealous of what you may have with your boyfriend and doesn't want to lose you to him, even though he doesn't seem to care about his girl. Tell him how you feel about your boyfriend and how you feel about him, then tell him if he doesn't stop that you'll tell your boyfriend what's going on. Don't bluff! My girl told me after all of her attempts so I knocked the **** out of the other guy after I warned him once and he still kept on! After that it was all good!
2007-12-30 19:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a pig...you don't need friends like that!!! Find better friends.
2007-12-30 19:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. he's asking you that cuz he wants you... that's pretty much all there is to it. He wants to be in you. And if you just talk to him about it you might be able to settle things. but do you REALLY wanna be friends with him? I mean.. It'd be hard to be friends with him if you know he wants to do you, and is willing to cheat on his gf to do so..
2007-12-30 19:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by mabdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why? because we are guys.
can i have topless pics of you ?
i ask all my female friends for sex and topless pics. they just laugh at me.
2007-12-30 19:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't respect you nor does he respect his girlfriend. He isn't worthy of being called a friend.
2007-12-30 19:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bilal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz u may be better looking than his girlfriend and he is more attracted to you
2007-12-30 19:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by winRAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him... if he not stopping... leave him! He sound like a creep. Get out the situation if you can.
2007-12-30 19:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Obviously he wants a sexual relationship. He's crossed the friendship line.
2007-12-30 19:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he doesn't respect you or his girlfriend.
you might want to drop the friendship.
2007-12-30 19:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ravë Øñ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋