Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

I'm not stupid. I found a very expensive piece of jewelry and a sappy love card that my husband had bought and I assumed he was going to give me for Christmas. We exchanged presents and the jewelry never made a showing. Thinking that he was being cute I snuggled with him and asked him, "Is that all?" And he laughed and hugged me back and said, "That's everything but me."

Well... I kept waiting and it became obvious that he wasn't giving me anything else. I wasn't sure what to make of it at first but he is going to be out of town for Christmas, he said for work. He has been acting funny for awhile, saying he was working over and staying late an often lot, I'm not asking if people think he is cheating. I made that mistake in my last question and received some rude answers.

What I want to know is how do I approach him with this? I have had my suspicions but this present thing, it can't be put off or ignored and I want to ask him about it. How should I go about it?

2007-12-25 23:52:00 · 15 answers · asked by Bailey J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have am confused between TWO guys,one is extremely handsome with a cold heart and feelings and the other is a person whose heart is filled with joy and happiness,always makes you see the cosy smile of his,i learned from him a lot,how to be confident.i know have two problems,how to show my love and know who actually loves me,who to CHOOSE?this is my thrid one but not the major,i actually dread love as i have been through a harsh break up,three years ago?!!!!!!! actually,may be they both do not love me and take me just as a bestfriend,how SHALL i know?help plzzzzzzzzzzz

2007-12-25 23:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by skull92 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 23:44:28 · 11 answers · asked by Snowflake 2 in Family

I’ve always felt more like girl than a boy and I’ve been afraid to tell anyone. I sent off for information on the internet from a councellor I found on through the web, I didn’t tell her my true age and she sent me lots of letters and suggested I could take hormones. I bought them off her last year telling my parents I had ordered vitamins and have been taking them for 9 months I stopped taking them last month because of the the problems the changes they have made are getting impossible to hide I’ve been hiding the breast development with baggy clothes at school and changing in the toilets , hiding myself at home. I stopped taking them a month ago and the changes are continuing, my beard growth has stopped completely. Will it all the changes stop now I’ve stopped taking them?

2007-12-25 23:39:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-25 23:39:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 24 year old female. I dont see my parents or any of the adults in my family. I have no one to go to if things go wrong. I was close to my ex but we are not close anymore.

I am scared and feel alone. I feel insecure about my life and i want some security. I will have a degree in a year but my job wont be very well paid.

What should i do to survive on my own? I dont feel safe being all on my own and think i need to find some security.

I am seriously thinking about finding a guy who is a bit older than me who can take care of me financially so i can be comfortable and follow my dreams. By a bit older I mean 30.

How can i build my life up from nothing?

2007-12-25 23:36:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know theres birth pills and stuff like that. but i want to know what to use if its a spur of the momnent kind of thing and im at my house and theres no condoms whatcould iuse. i dont want to risk getting pregnat.

2007-12-25 23:31:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what if your best friend of 7 years suddenly told you that he loves YOU??? BUT you are both committed???

2007-12-25 23:30:40 · 14 answers · asked by _onlybabygrl_ _ 1 in Friends

Hi sorry about being morbid over the Christmas period but Ive been dumped by my boyfriend of 5 years just before Christmas day, think is, is he's still here do you think its because he still loves me and is testing me? or do you think he's still going? I mean wouldn't you have found somewhere to live 1st before dumping me? He say's he's looking for somewhere to live but if he felt like this a few weeks ago wouldn't you be looking for somewhere to live 1st then tell me it's over as he has somewhere to go? I'm so confused about it all and ive asked him but he says its definetly over. But seriously would you not have found somewhere to go before you finished it?

2007-12-25 23:29:59 · 26 answers · asked by vikki w 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my ex just over a month ago, but we still see eachother casually and are trying to work it out so we might be able to get back together. But we are constantly fighting, most of it, is over stupid stuff.

A couple of days ago, we had another fight and i told him i couldnt try anymore over text. There is this other guy who has been msging me the last couple of weeks, coz he wanted to take me out to dinner and watch a movie at his, so after this arguement with my ex, i finally agreed.

My ex sent me a text later that night asking if i was with a guy and i said that i would talk to him later. I ended up sleeping with this guy who took me out to dinner, and i told my ex the very next day.

My ex acts like i cheated on him, but said we can still try to c if we could have a relationship, if i get this other guy completely outa my life.

I told this other guy that i was guna stop seeing him and explained. He was really pissed off, even tho i warned him it might happen.

2007-12-25 23:27:19 · 21 answers · asked by louise 3 in Singles & Dating

she is 28 mum of 2 but still sexy. 10th anniversary is in nearly 2 weeks. I want to get her a piece of jewellery and something sexy. But not sure of exactly what.
suggestions please.

2007-12-25 23:23:40 · 15 answers · asked by DI 3 in Weddings

I've never saw her,just photos of her as a baby.All the details I have is her name,mothers name,her date of birth & the last address they lived in in 1997.Can anyone tell me where I should go to start looking for her? Thanks.

2007-12-25 23:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by JohnAE86 1 in Family

I was away for 2 weeks. We both have AIM
and when I checked her Aim info "I love (my name)" font
got smaller font and size..she gets mad whenever
i make mine smaller. She even said she made a new
SN while I was away and she did IM me with when
I was using AIM epxress but I didnt receive. She said she was bored. What would it mean?

2007-12-25 23:18:45 · 2 answers · asked by trickybryan 1 in Singles & Dating

**serious answers only**

2007-12-25 23:17:07 · 27 answers · asked by Drews Princess 4 in Marriage & Divorce

she is now meeting her dad whom she hasn't see since she was three she is six now. the last time she saw him he was married and had one child.now he is still married and has two children.she cries and says she doesn't want to meet him.she doesn't remember him at all.she thinks he only loves his new wife and sons and that he hates her.The first time she saw him was when he was at the park kissing his wife with their kids playing.He didn't know she was thereand i didn't know he was there.he insist on meeting her with his wife nd parents there. how can i help her get through this?
when we saw them at the park she new him right away by a photo i had show her.and was sad when she saw them together ans started crying. this happened a couple of days ago.
she does question why we broke up
i never filled her head with anything. she is accustom to her my husband whom she has know since she was 4

2007-12-25 23:14:59 · 10 answers · asked by Hmmmmmm 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am in love with my good friend but he tells me he doesn't want to go that way. I think it's partly because I'm too just an ordinary girl and there isn't anything that will make him want me. his friends are dating singers (famous in town) and pageant winners.

I've been offered a modelling contract. But I wouldn't be signing up if it were not for him because the modelling assignments will take away a lot of time off my school work and I know I might be under a lot of stress. I don't like posing and all that, which I find very tiring and i get all nervous and get stomach cramps from all that stress.

Should I?

I know i'm pathetic but I just want to make myself a girl that my guy will be proud of.

2007-12-25 23:13:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel like i am loosing everyone. My family hardly talks to me when i call them. My husband hardly talks to me anymore. We seem to fight more then anything with everything we are finding in our apartment, along with everything missing.
I gave him a gift for Christmas and he did not open it at all because the gift he got me magically is missing. He says he got it before we moved had it in a spot where i would not look and now he can not find it.
what can i do to cheer up --
how can i get everyone to come back to me
i feel so alone right now

2007-12-25 23:09:05 · 8 answers · asked by jamieloves31 1 in Family

he is a very rage-filled person, he is a conspiracy freak, he gets angry and takes things the wrong way, he is over-controlling, needs to loosen up, i hate alot about him, i want him out, my family and my mum would be far better off without him, he doesnt understand teenage girls at all and calls my problems i have as a teen girl silly and hates me to be a girl it seems, i had nightmares about him as a kid, i fear him.
i need help.

2007-12-25 23:08:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

....is a good man, with good family values and wants to do well for himself and his wife and possibly have stuff in common?

I am thinking long term.....as I tend to see a lot of couples who decide after a while they do not fancy one another any more and then go off one another......

I have seen him on a dating site but not met him yet. I can honestly say I don't fancy him at all by the pics I have seen of him but he is a lot of traits I am looking for......so unsure if I should give it a go?

I have not dated a man for 8 yrs (that includes snogged etc) and sometimes I do think to myself....I really wish I could have a kiss and cuddle with someone. So I think even if I didn't fancy him....at first....because I am err a bit desperate at the moment....I might end up fancying him. What do you think?

2007-12-25 23:04:42 · 27 answers · asked by Blue_Bell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex sent me quite a shocking threatening email the other day after i asked him why he had being signing me up to spam, i replied saying how shocked i was that he had threatened me, he replied again saying his car had been hit and he was really angry at the time, he was sorry and he will stop signing me up to spam. i replied again and then he began being nice to me, he has a profile on bebo and for the first time in ages he accepted me adding him because it was private. Why is he suddenly being friendly again? Do you think he wants a new start? i also sent him an email just to scare him saying i would contact the police after he threatened me.

2007-12-25 23:01:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 23:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by Pistol Knight 7 in Singles & Dating

Just looking for chat with married women. I dont see anything wrong with harmless flirting . Does anyone know any sites that are good for this ?

2007-12-25 23:00:43 · 8 answers · asked by Qurious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 22:59:42 · 34 answers · asked by dhanurdhari1987 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For many years I had really very long hair, my boyfriend always told me he liked it. A while back some of his University friends came over for dinner and after we had a few drinks, & when chatting one of them said she was amazed he liked me because his girlfriends had always had short hair and to my surprise he agreed!. I became so obsessed and worried about it I went to two hairdressers one after the other and asked them to cut it short , had it completely cropped and cried bitter tears when I came home. But when he saw it although shocked at first he admitted he really liked it. At work some of the girls make fun of me and said that I look “butch” and I now feel so unfeminine when I look in the mirror but I I so want to please him I wonder how do convince him to let me grow it again without hurting him or worrying that he doesn’t find me attractive?

2007-12-25 22:57:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 22:54:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but we broke up 2 years ago. i don't want him back, i already told him that. and that is what i also want to tell myself.. when i saw him with a girl last christmas eve, i was jealous coz i thought it was her new girl only to find out that it was a common friend. why cant i get him out my mind.?. do i dtill love him? why i am feeling this way.

2007-12-25 22:51:56 · 22 answers · asked by shortydos 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 22:50:05 · 16 answers · asked by leoprince_28 3 in Weddings

normal BUT he is planning to get maried to a 20 years old.who is younger of all of his children is this normal,do I have the right to talk to him about the huge gab between the two of them?????

2007-12-25 22:46:31 · 17 answers · asked by farha h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 22:42:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a girlfriend and she's live in another country. I really want us to be together,but it's gonna be really difficult for the both of us because of differences in culture and religion.Sometimes,I really do doubt myself,"What if I can't make it through this relationship? Wouldn't it be just a matter of waste of time?" But do you guys think that I should continue on or just play along until she finally gives up? I really need you advices and support....

2007-12-25 22:42:20 · 10 answers · asked by Ferrero Rocher 2 in Singles & Dating