Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

i've been seeing this guy i really liked for less than two months. the thing is, he's trying to move the relationship really quickly (no sex, but everything before it). he talks about still being together in the future and such but when he describes what he likes about me, it's only physical characteristics. is this guy actually a keeper, or is he only interested in being physical?

2007-12-25 18:36:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why sex life should be good and healthy between a couple after marriage?

2007-12-25 18:36:06 · 16 answers · asked by shwet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Since i have been at college, I am a freshman, I have been hanging out with this girl. She is the first girl that I would say I have truly been friends with. However since Ive met her she has been in a relationship with a guy from another college. They have "taken breaks" and during those breaks we have hooked up. Finally, they broke up for good about two weeks ago. Now I am wondering what to do. It is obvious that we both like each other and I know I have to give her time because she had been dating that guy for three years. But, she is a girl that I can definitley see myself in a relationship with. But I also dont want to ruin our friendship

2007-12-25 18:35:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 18:34:36 · 11 answers · asked by stuck in Florida 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 18:34:33 · 15 answers · asked by russel john 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you share ur work at home? Is it only ladies have to do the cooking if both are working?

What to do? How do you divide your work?

2007-12-25 18:33:56 · 5 answers · asked by jenni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you overcome a restraining order if you feel the other girl wants to see you? we had a breakup and got into a huge fight - she cheated and i said some thing like threatening to go to her ex husband where she would lose her custody.i didn't mean it. before we had the chance to talk about it - she filed a temporary restraining order. the argument was over another guy she began seeing while she was with me for two months. i went over to her place when i wasn't supposed to so i could pour my heart out, and was afraid i was losing her to the other guy. she called the police. the restraining order went permanent. in the last four months, she has heard through friends why our relationship fell apart and now she understands and wishes she could see me, but she's very scared of losing custody b/c if she drops the restraining order, her ex will use it against her in her current custody battle. what could i do in this situation b/c i still love her?

2007-12-25 18:32:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think and suggest from your past? Do they really change if they confess.

My 2 years bf started cheating on me and he was sleeping around with that horrible girl. I really feel awful, but after I found, I said I am going to call her to find the truth.
He broke up with me that night. I was mentally depressed, not yet recovered, a year now. He still calls me and says, what a terrible mistake he did.

He broke up with that girl because the girl turned out to be a bad girl, sleeping around with many guys before..etc

What do you think about this person?

2007-12-25 18:31:32 · 20 answers · asked by jenni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 18:30:34 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ zara ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is visiting me and I am planning on taking her for a tour of the city since this is the first time she is visiting NYC.

I plan on proposing to her. However, me and her are kinda shaky at the moment. We are still definitely together and loving, but we have a few quarrels between us, that we need to work out. (its a common thing [unfortunately])

I am not sure when i should do it. I know for a fact that she will be VERY happy when i do propose to her, because she is always talking about it..

She arrives in the morning, and leaves next morning. I really want for her to be happy with me the whole time she is here, so i thought i might propose early. but then i realized that it would be more dramatic and meaningful if i did it later in the evening, or right before she was about to leave.

What should i do? should i wait till the next morning or evening and find another way to cheer her up?, or shall i propose right away, so that she can be happy

2007-12-25 18:28:57 · 19 answers · asked by SpiderPig 2 in Weddings

My girlfriend is visiting me and I am planning on taking her for a tour of the city since this is the first time she is visiting NYC.

I plan on proposing to her. However, me and her are kinda shaky at the moment. We are still definitely together and loving, but we have a few quarrels between us, that we need to work out. (its a common thing [unfortunately])

I am not sure when i should do it. I know for a fact that she will be VERY happy when i do propose to her, because she is always talking about it..

She arrives in the morning, and leaves next morning. I really want for her to be happy with me the whole time she is here, so i thought i might propose early. but then i realized that it would be more dramatic and meaningful if i did it later in the evening, or right before she was about to leave.

What should i do? should i wait till the next morning or evening and find another way to cheer her up?, or shall i propose right away, so that she can be happy

2007-12-25 18:28:36 · 4 answers · asked by SpiderPig 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend she is very hot n sexy.i love her. even she knows. bt she already has boy friend.but i then to care of her. i have seen her many times with her bos he will be puting hand on her waist and rubing,touching her and he drops her to her house.and if i give any tng she dst take but ifsome one else gives anything she takes and haves it.plz sugest me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

2007-12-25 18:28:09 · 9 answers · asked by arun.u a 1 in Friends

My question is if u will me, how do u make a decision first of all my sis has been sick for very long with breathless and sore throats very critical has been hospitalised to undergo treatment and i have been wanting to do well in my business so have to think a lot of ideas... and recently i am clinching a business and my sis in critical condition... What should i do should i give up thinking and care for her. very troubled....... and if it was cause by someone how should i take revenge using legal ways

2007-12-25 18:27:59 · 2 answers · asked by Janet 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello,

this is really strange but just when I am about to orgasm it feels like someone presses the mute button inside my head where my body orgasms but my mind does not. My mind feels like it goes blank sort of like it’s on the mute button has been pressed in my head which prevents me from having an orgasm.

I have tried keeping my mind busy with fantasies but it still happens and I have not been able to orgasm since...

please help

2007-12-25 18:26:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In his God's Word, the Bible, we read: "Husbands ought to be loving their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself, for no man ever hated his own flesh; but he feeds and cherishes it, as the Christ also does the congregation."—Ephesians 5:28, 29.

The Bible long ago foretold that during "the last days" of this system of things, many would be "abusive," with "no natural affection," and "fierce." (2 Timothy 3:1-3; The New English Bible) The prevalence of spouse abuse is simply another indication that we are living in the very time period designated by this prophecy. But what can be done to support victims of physical abuse? Is there any hope that batterers can change their course of behavior?

2007-12-25 18:24:47 · 3 answers · asked by Messager 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 years old and have same year girlfriend. I want to have sex with her soon but first i must know she is virgin or not, then we're gonna decide to have sex or not.

2007-12-25 18:23:16 · 11 answers · asked by z_man 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm married and I don't have a good relation ship with my in laws. Unfortunelly my wife doesn't care about that and she invite them to our house with-out my agreement. I don't want them in my house. What can I do when they are in my house?. Can I call to the police for put them out?.
Sorry for my grammar I'm learning English. Actually I live in San Frncisco Ca.
Thank you for your help.

2007-12-25 18:22:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After long thought and consideration, I have decided I want to become celibant :D

I am in a healthy and loving relationship with a man that I am going to spend the rest of my life with ( I think he is going to propose on New Year's Eve!!) . I know that he will support my decision, but I just don't know how to bring up the topic. The reason I want to become celibant is because I just want to take a break from sex to enjoy other things in life. And I am also at the point where I feel that it is all that we do, so if I become celibant, on our wedding night, it will be somewhat "special".

Any help is appreciated. Thanks in advance.

2007-12-25 18:21:54 · 9 answers · asked by BreANda BO 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone still do these?

I have one - but it seems not very many people know what they are!

2007-12-25 18:21:06 · 16 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Weddings

well latly i've been feeling like i should just give up, i know i should never give up but i feel like i should just give up with my music, tryen to stay in shape, and tryen to be happy/ my girl hates when i talk like this, but what should i do?

2007-12-25 18:19:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This year my husband didn't get me a Christmas present. We have 4 kids, and they were all well provided for, I got him a present, and I really had no idea that he didn't get me a present until Christmas morning. At first I thought he was joking. But he wasn't. He did say later that he felt a bit guilty about not getting Mummy a present. He did buy a Christmas cake that I really loved, and he did make sure we had all the food I like to cook and special extras for the day. Do you think I'm being a bit silly and sentimental for wishing I had a wrapped up present just for me? I know it sounds a bit selfish, but I couldn't help feeling hurt, although I didn't betray that at all, I just said oh don't worry about it. He was working for most of the day, so I was able to get over it more easily. He is a good husband and works hard to provide for us. Do you think it's okay for me to feel sad and hurt? Or silly and sentimental? You can be honest ....I've cried and now my heart can take it!

2007-12-25 18:19:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i went out with this guy
were only 14.
after i dumped him his best friend told me how he was talking about me, and how he said
"im nothing without her" and
"id rather kill himself then spend another moment without her"
after i found out, i told him i didnt feel the same and that we should stay friends
his best friend [who is also my friends]
told me that i should go out with him before he does anything drastic..
one day we hung out for the first time as "friends"
and his cousin told me how afterward he kept on ranting about how pretty i looked and how much he wanted to kiss me.
when i confronted the guy and asked him if all of it was true
and he said it was... at the time, but he changed his feelings
and now he likes a new girl and she likes him and they want to go out or something
is he lying and using that as a cover story
or has he really moved on?

2007-12-25 18:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by DinoxxLove 2 in Singles & Dating

i had beentalkng to dis guy for 2 yrs nw we wer frds .istarted loving him share lot of things sometimes i got various hints wen i knew dt he loves me too but dnt know wt holds him back to say that.he sys nw dt he is gettng married after 2 months nd he wud like me to be in his life as a frd coz he dsnt wnt to loose me but when i said i love you he said i never felt dt for u ever...wt does he meant by all dis shud i keep dis frdship for ever .i know i wnt be able to coz i love him so much nd wud like him to be wid me forever.he said dis is d last time hes taklkng to me nd tc when i tld him i cnt continue d frship as i wnt mre..

2007-12-25 18:16:39 · 20 answers · asked by SUNNY 2 in Friends

come from work and your wife tells you..."to men asked to climb up inthe tree and get them some oranges dad"....and you say to her "my god they wanted to see your pant" and she replies .."i knew it thats why i removed it b4 climping the tree????????????????????????????????????????

2007-12-25 18:16:37 · 3 answers · asked by paymore r 3 in Marriage & Divorce

After over three years and having had a baby together who is now 10 months old, I have decided that I want to leave my parter. I am a very involved mother and do everything possible with my son, when I am not at work. However, my partner has failed to grow up and is still out doing what he pleases. He is very uninvolved. I just no that this is not what I want but I am finding it so hard to walk out the door. Does anyone have any ideas to make it easier for me to leave. Thanks, xox

2007-12-25 18:15:31 · 7 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The question I had about the senior and me dating..... well it's weird cuz whenever I think about him, which is a lot, my stomach gets in knots.... any ideas on how to relax?

2007-12-25 18:13:30 · 3 answers · asked by soccerbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 18:12:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 18:12:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-25 18:11:18 · 4 answers · asked by Δ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 28 year old, single, straight, good looking, successful male and I have a great personality (from NY). I have much going for me in life. I have a great job, I live at home with my family without any expenses, I go to graduate school and I am involved in many community service related activities. For some reason though, I have not been able to meet anybody worth dating. I have only gone on two dates in my entire life and they were more the result of luck than anything else. Most of the people I know that are my age are single and always have been. I never had a girlfriend and haven't even experienced my first kiss yet. Are we just living in a dream world influenced by Hollywood that tells us we live in an oversexed world in which everyone experiences romance starting in their teens? The older I get the more I reallize that love is a rare thing indeed. Lol, how do people even get girlfriends? It must be purely luck or arranged relationship type setups.

2007-12-25 18:10:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating