Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

i have a mate in college and we are very close but she has a bf and shes had alot of problems with him and iv always helped her and they are very happy , but i have strong feelings for her and she knows that and we both agree that when she spilts up with him we both will go out but it really hurts me alot when i see them or she comes for advice or help to me . i just need to know what i can do or any thing that could make me feel better as it gets me down so much ..... and befor any one says we are close mates so i wont stop helping her with her problems and i only want decent advice nothink stupid.

2007-12-25 03:49:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

no wonder you like that kinda music, Right??

2007-12-25 03:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by themojoman_dj 1 in Singles & Dating

I have lee andrews in kingsteighnton. I rang 118 118 but they only had one number And it was not his! can some one please help me? Thankyou

2007-12-25 03:40:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I feel like even if I wanted kids, I don't because I feel like they would never be treated fairly by my sister & brother in laws and that it would be especially previlant during X-mas because of presents, etc. Therefore, among other reasons, we have chosen not to have kids. I don't want to bring a child into this world to be treated like a blacksheep, but part of me feels like I shouldn't let other control me this much. What do you think? It just kills me that I KNOW my SIL/BIL and ILs would never treat my kids the way they treat theirs. I would never want my kids to feel that hurt.

2007-12-25 03:33:16 · 7 answers · asked by SadToday22 3 in Family

well got just sed yes 2 my bf but im not sure if i want 2 go through wit it

2007-12-25 03:30:34 · 38 answers · asked by Ashley A 2 in Weddings

What can I do??

2007-12-25 03:29:35 · 12 answers · asked by themojoman_dj 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 03:24:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I mean, my girlfriend is the gift that keeps on giving. So why was my wife so angry?

2007-12-25 03:23:47 · 11 answers · asked by progrockfan80 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My nephew (by marriage) is really annoying. He's 7, almost 8, and can do NO WRONG in my in-laws or SIL/BIL's eyes. They think they child is so "cute" and "funny" why he says things like "Why are you fat" and "I'm rich and your poor", when in fact their family is not doing well financially at all. This little boy will add up the amount of Xmas presents and ask why people didn't buy him more. I don't mind my nephew's parents, or my in-laws, just when it comes to him. I have very hard time handling him and refuse to babysit or do any favors because of the way this child acts. My husband doesn't think we should say anything to the parents because they HAVE to know how annoying he is. I would think so too, but you never know. What would you do? This kid is like nails on a chaulk board to me.

2007-12-25 03:23:14 · 15 answers · asked by SadToday22 3 in Family

I enjoy adult movies, however my wife seems to prefer reading erotic stories. Is this common? Do any of you prefer reading, or perhaps even writing, erotic literature as compared to watching a movie? If so, why???

2007-12-25 03:22:31 · 3 answers · asked by Rhett Butler 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, my parents want me to stay away from my aunt because she married a guy without letting us know. She got me a present that's about $200 for x-mas and if she mails it, my mom'll be curious. I really need help. I don't know who to tell because i might be blackmailed. Really need help

2007-12-25 03:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by john m 2 in Weddings

10. You can always find someone to do it with.

9. If you get tired, you can stop, save your place and pick up where you left off.

8. You can finish early without feelings of guilt or shame.

7. When you open a book, you don't have to worry about who else has opened it.

6. A little coffee and you can do it all night.

5. If you don't finish a chapter you won't gain a reputation as being a "book tease."

4. You can do it, eat and watch TV all at the same time.

3. You don't get embarrassed if your parents interrupt you in the middle of it.

2. You don't have to put your beer down to do it.

1. If you aren't sure what you're doing, you can always ask your roommate for help!

2007-12-25 03:06:11 · 6 answers · asked by olz 1 in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend didn't get me a Christmas gift and I put a lot of time, thought, and effort into his. It's not a money issue because he's rich, but he said he just didn't have the time to go shopping. Should I give him his gift?? What should I say when he doesn't give me one?

2007-12-25 03:03:19 · 8 answers · asked by TracieLacy 2 in Singles & Dating

I love him.
No matter how much I love him. There is only a certain point that I can reach with my emotions and heart and I can get no closer to him. I cannot get close.

I went through hell all my life. I am used to caous. I am used to everything blowing up in my face. Used to getting hurt deeply. Used to those the closest to me, hurting me the most. I resent my biological and my step father.

Now, I am trying to be in a relationship.

Everything he says I automatically believe he is lying to me and try to figure out what the truth really is.
I don't trust him to be sincere or genuine. It is like I cannot believe that he is truly in love with me.
I resent him, sometimes for no reason. I keep waiting for him to hurt me.
I keep trying to figure out how he is manipulating me.

My whole past, I thought was behind me. Now, that I am in a relationship. Everyone that has hurt me, all the violence I saw, and etc-from my past. I keep waiting for him to turn into.

2007-12-25 03:00:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 02:59:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I'm here with my family ready to celebrate the holiday.. and I'm feeling so blue and down. Part of it is b/c I'm in between jobs/trying to figure out things.. the other is I'm pine-ing for my guy friend back home. I feel like that guy who confesses to Keira Knightley in "Love Actually".. [but I'm not gonna do that].

Any words of comfort or cheer? Thanks.. oh and Merry Xmas/happy holidays to everyone.

2007-12-25 02:58:03 · 9 answers · asked by two_design_kitties 3 in Singles & Dating

I go to my hubby's friend's house with my toddler so that he gets to play with his toddler. Mostly, when his wife is at home. But my friend is like putting his hands on my shoulder, or holding my hands or putting his hands on my waist whenever his wife is not in sight. He keeps telling me how stunning I am and how much fun he has when I am around and I that I am so much fun to be with. Then one day, he kissed me on my cheeks when no one was there. (He came to my house coz my son was sleeping and I needed him to carry my bags). I didnt know how to react to this? What is this called? I know him like 5 years and he is never like this at all. Why this change?

2007-12-25 02:48:32 · 19 answers · asked by Sanshine 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean i personally DONT think im stunning, but have been told by people that i am. I'm pretty shy, bit of a geek really lol. I love my mates and hanging out with them but people have told others they hate me cos they think ill steal their boyfriend or something- what do i do?

2007-12-25 02:46:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Fall in love like honestly, i feel as if guys always just want one thing and never ever fully commit to a woman do u agree or do u think there is hope that one day they will fall in love?

2007-12-25 02:42:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been messing around with a guy that has a girlfriend (he lives with her..NO KIDS) for a couple of months, he says that he loves me but that he also loves his gf is it possible? He says that he feels happy when his with either of us. I know its wrong wat im doing but I really really like him. Some advice please!!!

2007-12-25 02:37:13 · 12 answers · asked by carla_mendoza005 2 in Singles & Dating

Ideas? What would you like to receive from your husband?

2007-12-25 02:34:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently seperated from my husband. I have a 1 year old daughter. My husband was someone who never loved me or his daughhter and just treated me like a doormat. That was the reason I moved out with my daughter. But now inspite of my family support I feel lonely! I have no one to talk to, no one to share my feelings...tell me how do I dispel this loneliness? What do I do? I love my daughter and enjoy my time with her yet I am lonely...

2007-12-25 02:26:46 · 12 answers · asked by pari 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi everyone

well i thought id buy a heart pendant for my girl seeing as see loves all those lovey dovey heart pendant stuff, but could you please help me pick one of the three pendants for her.

I've posted the three links below so check em out and give me ur opinions/suggestions on which one you think i should buy her...

1)
http://i260.photobucket.com/albums/ii27/ali4ash/PreciousPlatinoPinkCubicZirconiaHea.jpg

2)
http://i260.photobucket.com/albums/ii27/ali4ash/SterlingSilverPaveCubicZirconiaHear.jpg

3)
http://i260.photobucket.com/albums/ii27/ali4ash/SterlingSilverPinkCubicZirconiaHear.jpg

thanks tons :-)
happy xmas

2007-12-25 02:25:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy online and we had drinks. He had a dinner engagement (holidays, you know) so we parted with heavy smooching and petting right in the street, which I ended coyly saying he'd be late. He later texted me, "I want you!!!!" I replied, "You're sweet." I always thought if you left them wanting more, they'd come panting after you. Well, that hasn't happened. Why wouldn't he follow up on what is obviously a sure thing? change of mind? hangover? I should mention lives about 2 hours away and is only in town on weekends, etc. to see friends and family. so it seems pretty risk-free for him if he were worried about attachments or something. I can't believe a guy would be satisfied with just snogging. why isn't he gagging for it and ringing my phone off the hook? And what are the consequences if I call first? I always regret it when I cave in like that and make the first call. It doesn't usually end too well.

2007-12-25 02:20:16 · 19 answers · asked by beatrice 2 in Singles & Dating

They called department of Social Services on me and made false reports just to get us investigated and to harass us.

He lives 10 hours away!

2007-12-25 02:07:20 · 7 answers · asked by standman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ones that are awesome to hang around and are cool to talk to. i mean everywere i go its the same thing i ask girl out we go out and later she cheats on me. WTF. i just want a desent looking girl that is looking for a ... well nice guy tell me there are great girls out there

2007-12-25 02:06:33 · 7 answers · asked by texas soldier single 1 in Singles & Dating

I would rather be alone and actually enjoy my day off then waste my whole day going to my family- esp. my brothers
who don't give a crap about anyone but themselves and then
they are stupid enough to ask what you're up to and all the dirt
and the reality is you don't even talk to them the rest of the year
and they really live in their own world- so what's the point???
Why act like you're all close when then reality is- its just
a chirade for the day? The truth is when problems come up
they're not there for me. Only I am. So I say screw em-
they're worthless - and I can do just fine on my own.
But if they ever need me- God help em- because i sure won't

2007-12-25 02:05:19 · 5 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family

do girls like?

sweets guys, but not over sensitive (me)

or

man who are totally manly

2007-12-25 02:02:17 · 17 answers · asked by Playa P'z 2 in Singles & Dating

or the guy that you like?

2007-12-25 02:02:15 · 11 answers · asked by New mem 3 in Singles & Dating

actually this boy is in b tech it and i am in manufacturing, we usually talk and my friends notice that he keeps looking for me, and gives me a very b'ful smile!! wat u think????

2007-12-25 02:01:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating