I mean i personally DONT think im stunning, but have been told by people that i am. I'm pretty shy, bit of a geek really lol. I love my mates and hanging out with them but people have told others they hate me cos they think ill steal their boyfriend or something- what do i do?
2007-12-25 02:46:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say "people" I think you mean girls. I'm sure if you are stunning boys won't hate you.
2007-12-25 02:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by matty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are just jealous of you, i had the same problem when i was younger as most my friends thought i wanted to steal their boyfriends in the end i sat down with them and said look i do not approve of stealing my friends boyfriends, i would not even go out with them if you split up so you either trust me or you can not think much of me as a friend, and we really should not see each other again until you realise your friendship is more important to me than a man, it worked i still get on better with men but my friends now i would never do anything to betray them, so just have a word with them i am sure when they see how much you are hurt by their actions they will stop treating you like the enemy and more like a friend. best of luck honey but it is their insecurities that is going to break your friendship apart.
2007-12-25 11:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by fruitcake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people mistakly think of a shy person as someone who is stuck up .Dont worried about it hun. Im the same way.
2007-12-25 10:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i have the same problem it really annoys me , most of the time i just want to hang out ,with out any trouble , or with out guy mates always wanting to date me
2007-12-25 11:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply ignore them, once you did not steal anyone's boyfriend you really don't have a problem.
2007-12-25 10:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are flirting with other's boyfriends, stop. if not, then it sounds like theres nothing you can do. your not even trying to get thier guy and they still think that you rae so that doesnt leave any room for anything u can do to change it.
2007-12-25 10:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy & insecurity on their part.
you need to get some new friends - your friends should think more of you & have more trust in you than to think that you'd be capable of running off with their men.
2007-12-25 11:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Vix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ppl are basically selfish. I have the same problem as you and I think its's why i don't have many frnds...
2007-12-25 10:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by tooinvolved1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos you get all the attention honey..anyway how are you 2day your looking real nice..did you just buy that top its really nice..it suits you x
2007-12-25 10:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by DogzBolokz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy can be a real strong thing at times :]
besides it's not your fault, it's those guys that are just not that faithful
2007-12-25 10:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋