Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

there's this annoying guy who won't leave me alone. he's pretty gross too because he's always joking about taking my clothes off and sleeping with me. plus, he keeps on looking at me and he always teases me about the stuff i do. however, i'm NOT into him at all...i was at first but once i got to know him a little more...he became this weird prevert =p.
so whats the deal with him?

2007-12-25 09:29:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Christmas eve we had an argument.. bottom line she slandered my integrity as a man.. so I told her if she feels that way than we shouldnt be together..

Long story short she left. Christmas Morning she wants to tell me how she was wrong and that she said things cause she was upset but didnt mean it.. Im like you say things so much I can only take so much..

Heres the thing we made up made love and she never told me that she threw my Ring away.. My mom peep't it out while at her home Today.. I was devastated by that cause I never checked.. I got up from moms house.. took the fiancee' back to her car... and said have a good day with your family.. Now im home cleaning up and thinking that her impluses is a deal breaker.. She says she sorry that I had to find out that way. But my thing is that she could have told me when she was apologizing and saying she want us to work.. I think she says what she feels just to get by.. Im so Heart Broke..

2007-12-25 09:28:10 · 7 answers · asked by ☻Jay ™☻ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We will have sex only about once per week. Also she rarely has time for me because she is soo busy. Also I asked her to move in with me, I was joking when I said it. And she shut me down. We been dating three months. Also she loves her best friend more than she loves me. should I dump her?

2007-12-25 09:25:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was w/ my bf for 2 months when he broke up w/ me. It has been 2 weeks since the breakup. I know that isn't a very long time but I am heartbroken and miss him SO much. The reason he wanted to end things was b/c things were moving very quickly and our feelings for each other were very strong in such a short amount of time. He said this really scares & overwhelms him. He is also in school full time and works part time. Things were working great but I think it all just got too much for him and he freaked out and got scared. Before me, he had been single for over 2 years and I think being w/ me took him out of his comfort zone. He also has issues w/ women and really has his guard up (his mom is mentally ill & is very needy of him, his dad is on his 3rd marriage and they have all been gold-diggers, his ex gf of over 2.5 years cheated on him and left him for an older rich guy). So I do understand why his defenses are up.
PLEASE KEEP READING BELOW....)

2007-12-25 09:25:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pregnant with his child. Now she won't talk to me

2007-12-25 09:23:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

by family,I mean parents and siblings
this is an adult couple,not young kids

2007-12-25 09:22:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 09:19:35 · 6 answers · asked by jukeboxhero23 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever ran out of things to say?? I have and i would appreciate it so much if you would give me examples...lots plz [:

2007-12-25 09:18:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's wrong with kindly telling a young 6 yr old boy to not drum on and rub a 11month old baby's head because you think the head's still soft? Why did I need to get my leg whacked by his stepfather?

2007-12-25 09:18:29 · 4 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family

I have started to like one of my best friends. Now how can i hint to her that i like her without asking her the actual question and the correct answer?

A bit of info. We have been great friends for 2 years and trust each other. She does care for me. For example when i ended up in hospital one day she immediately send me a message asking if i was fine. But at times she is reserved but still i think that she spends more time with me than with other guys especially when we go clubbing. Also she trys not to say things which might offend me but her other flatmates who are also my close friends do not mind saying it to me. Why is this the case??And i do not mind them telling it to me, since after all we are friends.
Now what signs will she give me to that she is interested in me.
What should i say/ask without asking the proper question. This is because i want to make 100% sure that she likes me before i ask her to avoid spoiling our great and wonderful friendship.

2007-12-25 09:16:45 · 9 answers · asked by Adam 3 in Singles & Dating

This is someone who has been digging me for a while and vice versa. Last month he came over and one thing led to another. We had oral relations then. He lives out of town. So last week he calls me up to tell me he's coming for Xmas and to explain why he has been too busy to respond to my latest emails. And that I shouldn't feel that he's ignoring me. Anyway he called up me last night to invite me to a movie. No physical contact during the movie and afterwards he didn't try to kiss me. He just took my hand and shook it. While still holding my hand I leaned over to kiss his cheek and he sort of leaned away. I was very embarrassed and confused. I know he is an aquarius and they tend to act strangely towards females they like and even act meanly towards them. Example: he called me a whore and a heffer at the consession stand! lol....We use to work together about 5 yrs ago (thats how we met). Back then he would flirt with me a lot and touch me too. Now he's giving me a handshake?

2007-12-25 09:16:43 · 19 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 09:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy that im pursuing as a boyfriend is a big brother to a guy i hook-up(meaning intercourse with no attachments) with and i had no idea. I dont no if we should talk about or i should jus forget it. Also b/c i dont like telling pple about how i did what with cuz it kinda breaks the code. If you have any suggestions or comments fell free to do so. Thx!

2007-12-25 09:12:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 2 years and have been through alot making us very close.We have a special bond not like any other couple.He has always been there for me as have I.I know I love him and I know he loves me and he tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me all the time.The other day I was telling him how my mom was asking if we wanted to get engaged soon and this isnt really something that ive thought about(at 19) but i know i want to spend the rest of my life with him and if he would ask me to marry him i would say yes(have a long engagement tho). He said that he has been thinking about that but the way I am wen I get upset worries him and I do admit I might not be the most reasonable person wen im angry but its not like I go crazy and we both need to work on how we are when we r upset. Does he just say these things to me or does he really mean them...and if he does mean them y wouldnt he want to get engaged? Does he not lov me as much as i lov him?

2007-12-25 09:02:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

"It's the most physical pain of my life giving birth (to you)"

How would you feel?

Bad or good

2007-12-25 09:02:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-25 09:01:32 · 11 answers · asked by celiasdream 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 08:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been engaged for around a month now and been together for two years but still haven't told either parents as we're too scared! Any ideas how we could break it to them gently?!
Cheers!

2007-12-25 08:56:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Whenever I do a poor job at washing the dishes, my mother curses at me in front of my four year old little sister. Was there a certain point on why she wasn't even concerning about the child's language and future? She keeps a stack of Playboy magazines on the bottom book-shelf. Easy enough for a child to reach for. Is she MAD? What do you think? And also, I have no certain idea why those were there. My mother also divorced my beloved father. I loved him! What was she thinking?! There were no industrial problems, no relationship problems, and yet, she divorced him. I need advice, I'm too worried of the circumstances to talk to her about this.

2007-12-25 08:53:43 · 2 answers · asked by Entombed 1 in Family

ok I have a crush on my neighbor. Give me some excuses to go over and talk to him without being annoying.

2007-12-25 08:53:31 · 5 answers · asked by Adriana27 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like he's just constantly doing me favours by spending time with me...

When we do get together, our whole meeting is interrupted: his phone won't stop ringing, and everything is timed according to when he has to leave. Our meetings last no longer than an hour, and between all of the interruptions, we barely have any time to be friends. When it's time for him to leave, he gets nervous and rushes me out.

I haven't complained at all to him about it, but he senses my disappointment (even though it seems like he thinks other things in life are getting me sad). I understand he's busy, but I feel that he's forgotten about me...

He constantly pushes me away... It feels like we're becoming distant from one another.

What should I tell him?
Keep in mind that probably nothing will change in his behaviour.

Should I let him go?...

2007-12-25 08:53:18 · 18 answers · asked by --- 2 in Friends

I have been widowed almost four years. I have not gone out seriously with anybody. I have gone out a few months with a 53 year old. A few times we have taken my young daughter who is six years old. It has never gotten romantic just being friends. Is it too early to even think of it? He is a gentleman and mature with a sense of humor which I admire.

2007-12-25 08:52:46 · 12 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

and they've tried counciling, pills, talking, God, exersise, doctors, a specialalist (basically done everything it says depressed people should do and it still does **** all/made things worse)

2007-12-25 08:52:12 · 25 answers · asked by hermit 4 in Friends

2007-12-25 08:51:09 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys, why do you do this?
guys-
they're either trying to play you or you're a name on a long a s s list they have and their girlfriend is probably at the top.
says he's scared to be with her because he doesn't want to be played while at the same time he's showing signs of interest in other girls.
a ss.
guys, why.do.you.do.that.da.mn it???
I guess I'll just have to stay away from YOU ALL cause I can't ever tell which ones are sincere.

2007-12-25 08:45:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 08:45:36 · 11 answers · asked by alliesha12 1 in Singles & Dating

im jus wonderin because this has never happened to me before.i will like to know why those this happenes? & what does it means?...i have irregular periods bt can i still get prego if nuttin drips out of me? plz HELP! thanx

2007-12-25 08:42:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All I remember was that I came home drunk from a guys night out and went straight to bed and passed out, while my gf was still up and had her friends over. When I went to go take a shower in the morning I noticed what looked like a belt mark going across my behind. Who could have done this?

2007-12-25 08:42:00 · 13 answers · asked by artiyom 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm pretty cute...(or thats what I'm told...)& I cant seem to find Mr.Right.....I've dated several guys but they were @$$ holes.....& now I don't even have a guy....but thats good I guess...it would be pointless to date a guy who isn't the one....is there anything I can do to find my MR.Right?????

2007-12-25 08:40:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes told me how hes felt but i feel the same but havent told him he knows my past relationships with guys have been users and i want to tell him but iam afraid i want to tell him how i feel sunday we were in the lving room and his g/f in the showere he leaned over and kissed me and then just aas he stopped his g/f peeked quick and had asked if we had been kissing we both said no.how do i tell him how i feel.

2007-12-25 08:38:26 · 3 answers · asked by sweet_smile872000 1 in Friends