Christmas eve we had an argument.. bottom line she slandered my integrity as a man.. so I told her if she feels that way than we shouldnt be together..
Long story short she left. Christmas Morning she wants to tell me how she was wrong and that she said things cause she was upset but didnt mean it.. Im like you say things so much I can only take so much..
Heres the thing we made up made love and she never told me that she threw my Ring away.. My mom peep't it out while at her home Today.. I was devastated by that cause I never checked.. I got up from moms house.. took the fiancee' back to her car... and said have a good day with your family.. Now im home cleaning up and thinking that her impluses is a deal breaker.. She says she sorry that I had to find out that way. But my thing is that she could have told me when she was apologizing and saying she want us to work.. I think she says what she feels just to get by.. Im so Heart Broke..
2007-12-25 09:28:10 · 7 answers · asked by ☻Jay ™☻ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMG!!!! Thats sooooooooooooo messed up!! How could she do that?? That just goes to show you what kind of person she really is. YOU DO NOT NEED HER!! When she threw away the ring she threw away everything that you guys had build together and basically she told you to kiss her butt. I'm so piss b/c its chicks like her that gives women...you know what im not even going to give her that title...she's a girl and she has lots and lots of growing up to do!!! I'm so soorry!!
2007-12-26 02:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by ~I'm A Keepa ~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't heart broken, you need your *** whipped!!! This is the second or third time she has slandered you, made you less of a man than you are and you take her back.
Perhaps you feel as if you are not worthy of someone better but with your education, you willingness to work, and YOUR MUSIC you can do much better.
This girl IS NOT the girl for you. I had pussy footed around the situation before telling you to do what was right and you still let her take you apart piece by piece.
LET HER GO!!! Don't let her break up with you, you need to break up with her!!!! She is not worthy of you. You need to learn how to love yourself a whole lot more and understand your true self worth. I have a sneaking suspicion that the only thing that really makes you feel "worthy" is your music. Your music is banging....but you are more than banging as a person.
Let her go and take care of you. You are old enough and wise enough when it's over. It's BEEN OVER!!!
Do yourself a favor and learn how to love yourself first and then worry about adding someone later.
You're not heart broke, your making yourself your bad.
EM me if need be!!
2007-12-25 18:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing sucks more than getting your heart broken. And it seems like it's always the good people that get dogged out. It's not fair but that's just life. And I know that there's nothing that I can say or anybody else for that matter to make the pain go away, but I'm sorry that this had to happen to you. And if it doesn't work out with you guys always remember that you have friends on answers who will always be here for you when you need to talk about anything. And someone better when come along eventually.
2007-12-26 14:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by ~Cheta K.~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve SOOOO much better than that. I am sorry this happened at Christmas but consider it an education. I mean she is not going to change. Look at it as a gift you didnt marry her. Your initial sentence about her slandering your integrity says it all. She does not respect you. This will recur in times of difficulty. Sorry about the ring but it is actually a good price for what you learned. Take a break from dating for a while. Who needs that?
2007-12-25 17:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by barthebear 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old is this chick? Dam# right throwing the ring away is a deal-breaker!!! Please move on too someone more mature, a grown woman!! I have never heard of such foolishness...your token of a promise to lover her forever is in the trash were she feels it belongs. Really do you throw something like that away???The most you do is put it in a drawer or jewerly box.....never the trash....why the trash????
2007-12-26 00:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by Miz Peaches 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where is your pride,get over it already?If people believe you are gullible,this will happen frequently.Repeat to yourself "I AM NOT THE ONE" then you yourself must believe it.So move on and be gone like today was yesterday.
2007-12-26 17:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by yp_will_chicago_369 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you been sassed man !!
exit door for her.
2007-12-25 21:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋