I have started to like one of my best friends. Now how can i hint to her that i like her without asking her the actual question and the correct answer?
A bit of info. We have been great friends for 2 years and trust each other. She does care for me. For example when i ended up in hospital one day she immediately send me a message asking if i was fine. But at times she is reserved but still i think that she spends more time with me than with other guys especially when we go clubbing. Also she trys not to say things which might offend me but her other flatmates who are also my close friends do not mind saying it to me. Why is this the case??And i do not mind them telling it to me, since after all we are friends.
Now what signs will she give me to that she is interested in me.
What should i say/ask without asking the proper question. This is because i want to make 100% sure that she likes me before i ask her to avoid spoiling our great and wonderful friendship.
2007-12-25 09:16:45 · 9 answers · asked by Adam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This all is because she really likes you but waiting for the right moment to strike the spark. For the time being you can ask her,'.........(her name here), help me understand why I am always afraid in my mind how shall I be sustaining if ever our friendship took a bad turn. Only you can console me. ......(name here again)"
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2007-12-25 09:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that above all you don't want to ruin the friendship in any way, but would love to take it one step further, but if it would damage the relationship you have now, that you will settle just being friends. You can not go another step without being completely honest. Nothing is 100% so you are going to have to take a chance and ask.
2007-12-25 09:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you on your problem. Kinda tough situation since considering the fact that she is a good friend of yours. Yeah, I would take it at an honest approach. Tell her how you feel about how you wanna take the relationship further.
Say something like this,"I know we are friends but I want to tell you that I like you, it's your choice if you want to take up a relationship with me."
Just be honest with her man, she will like that.
Good luck and Merry Christmas to you too.
2007-12-25 13:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like she might like you, but are afraid that you might not feel the same way. Try to be more romantic instead of being a typical guy friend. Try to put your arms around her and rub her arm or kiss her on the head.
2007-12-25 09:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on a nice card along with a small flower "I'm afraid to ask ,but I am wondering if maybe you like me a little more than just being friends, as i have started liking you in this way" "we can still keep it as just friends, if that is what you prefer"
2007-12-25 09:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of your maximum suitable wager is to observe her physique language. If she angles herself in the direction of you once you 2 are at the same time, this is an unconsious way of announcing she may well be drawn to you. additionally, in basic terms start up subtly flirting along with her, because of the fact she will think of roughly it later. this additionally will make her start up pondering you as a boyfriend. So as an occasion, somewhat of announcing, "What have you ever been doing in the present day?" a flirty thank you to declare which would be, "So what style of hassle have you ever gotten as much as at present?" As an component notice: you isn't one hundred% specific she likes you till you ask. additionally, be careful, because of the fact in specific cases relationships spoil friendships in spite of in case you the two like eachother.
2016-12-11 12:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to the guy under me, obviously they talk dummy, wel anyway, i think that you should just be more flirty with her, but not tooo forward, then if she gets sick bring her flowers on her porch that say that you like her in a little note or something (girls love romantic things even if they pretend they dont) and just hang out with her, give her attention then shell start to like you alot, and youll like her then if it was meant to be it'll happen =)
2007-12-25 09:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say things that get closer to asking
for example ask her how is everything with the boys
and then ask her who she likes
and im sure she will get the hint
2007-12-25 09:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by kdlfakjldsfjka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to her more, and have a closure!!!
2007-12-25 09:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋