Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

We are going to my friend's house first so i still get to see my friends but we're going to his friends after...
But...
I don't know them very well i've only met them a couple of times and I feel i can't really be involved in the conversation they spend a lot of the time talking about high school etc (we're all around 21-23 yrs old btw)...
Any advice for how I could not make it look like i'm bored?
It's just that my boyfriend and I want to be together at midnight because it's special and all!!

2007-12-25 22:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

doesnt it really piss you off when somebody you know has been with someone for like a week or two, even two or three months and say that they are in love? how the hell can they say that is LOVE?! - btw before anybody makes a comment about me being a humbug and stuff, im currently in a relationship which i have been for 3 years. just want peoples opinions on this, do you think it is even possible to be in "love" in the space of two weeks? tbh it just annoies the hell outa me!!!!

2007-12-25 22:33:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 22:33:42 · 5 answers · asked by meix 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So there's a guy who I was dating for 3 months and he said that he actually wasn't looking for a girlfriend. It hurt me. I can't forget. After a month I texted him, I still like him and he replied he did too, but he just didn't want a relationship. I said I can't handle that..He asked what he should do then. Nad I replied what would you like? And he said: Don't be bold, I'd like to stay friends but I'd want to take your clothes off all the time, so that wouldn't work...What should I think about him?

2007-12-25 22:32:06 · 12 answers · asked by Luiza D 1 in Singles & Dating

A gentleman? What a load of crap.

A relationship is suppose to make life easier for both people financially by helping share the costs of life.

So why do so many of you women keep bringing back chivalry? We're equal! You have equal rights as we do. You pay also! I'm under the impression that many girls go into relationships just for the money. You work, I work! Stop depending on us!

2007-12-25 22:30:45 · 13 answers · asked by The MAN 1 in Singles & Dating

I've just turned 20 and talk to a girl on msn and on the phone. I know it sounds sad but i really like speaking to her. We have been talking a while now and can still speak hours and not be bored or anything. Recently though i've been feeling like, if she was to go with a guy from down there or if i went with a girl from here, it may create a certain amount of hurt feelings. I know i dont have a right to feel like that but i do. Instead of just sitting feeling like that i thought that mabye we should speak about it. Sometimes i feel really close to her then other times not so close. I also asked "Say we met in....., would you want to be more than friends or what?". She said that she would. If i do and she does, i think thats something worth discussing also. She is shy on the phone and i feel like i'm being a stalker or something. Do you think i should ask things like this or just leave it?

2007-12-25 22:24:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a "friend" and I don't really like her. She annoys the crap out of me. She always calls me and ALWAYS wants to hang out. She thinks we are pretty good friends, but she dosen't even know me becasue I can't really be myself around her cause she is super sensitive. She gets offended easily but treats others badly and thinks it's ok. She trys to be the center of attention way too often.
I would totally dismiss her but our husbands are really good friends.
Any advice?

2007-12-25 22:22:53 · 11 answers · asked by wxyz 4 in Friends

Is it better to be alone and therefore avoid being eventually disappointed by people or is it better to start yet another relationship with someone (romantic or otherwise) and run the risk of being disappointed for the billionth time?

I can't decide.

2007-12-25 22:19:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and we broke up very suddenly and she went back to her ex. well than she found out she was prago. he dumped her I was really mean in the break up but want to know if its my kid she b prago with. we only knew each other for like 2 weeks the amount of time we went out. and we have not talked since i kinda think she may not want to tell me or maybe is scared of what i might say do to me being a toatal jerk +++++++some when my emotions are toyed, with and I act pretty sadistic. so how do I go about finding out details befor I ask her straight out. and I will ,but I must give her time. gotta be patcaint on these deals. she didnt want to talk to me aftar the break up and wouldnt respond to me so I guess im scared of the rejection. do women have a hard timebut giving the situation it would be hard for me to tell some one that too but what the heck am I gonna do. cause if it is mine I gotta marry her and not letr her get an abortion cuase its half mine

2007-12-25 22:10:08 · 14 answers · asked by whatup? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 22:09:33 · 8 answers · asked by meix 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

in marriage? and would they tell you if they had? Would you know if they were telling the truth? and would you condem them for it?

2007-12-25 22:05:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I asked my ex to get back together with me. He dumped me and feels I haven't fixed myself that quickly. I was insecure and played emotional games with him. I realize this all comes from trust issues and low self-esteem. I feel that I am getting better and he told me to keep working on it. He has a new girlfriend and claims to be happy. I told him I am happy for him and that I wished him well. But actually, I feel miserable. What should I do?

2007-12-25 22:00:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 21:50:50 · 17 answers · asked by sh p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 21:49:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do nice looking girls like quiet guys? The kind that sit back look interested, smile, but just don't say much?

2007-12-25 21:47:53 · 19 answers · asked by squashwriter 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 21:41:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have the best guy friend in the world i tell him everything he help me get together with the best boyfriend ever but all that changed when he told me he liked me last year. so i broke up with my boyfriend cause he was pressureing me too and i couldn't get out of it. So now i jsut started 8th grade and he has a girlfriend but she moves away so its just me ,him and my friend. he told me from the beginning of 8th grade that he didn't like me. so i am single and so is he lately he is starting to get rough with me like hugging me and touching me. he is really strong and what happen is that he was really mad so me and my friend wanted to see what was up so i pulled back his hood and he grabed my arm and it lift a print. and when i tell him i like someone he goes straight to that person and tell them to stay way from me i feel like he is my mom when he gets mad when i talk about the guy i like
what do i do
i need help
PS i went to the consoular and she just talk to him?
HELP

2007-12-25 21:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by His Angel Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

for the reason that my husband refuses to get a job and support his children? Will a judge let me take my kids out of state where cost of living is less and my parents are near so that I can support them on my own? I am currently living in NY state.

2007-12-25 21:34:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

may recent bf is married and my parents did not know about that and im trying to keep it between me and my bf and now my bf leave to work abroad.He's ok with my parent and my mom are arranging our wedding.what should i do my bf always telling me that it is ok because he is separated(but not yet annulled)and his wedding is just civil and we are going to have church wedding...
im confused..I love him and i don't want to lose him.....

2007-12-25 21:24:13 · 15 answers · asked by silence 1 in Family

I was just told this story by a friend of mine. She started going out with this new guy. They were at his home on a date, watching a movie, and she was going to sleep over. Like around midnight or so, his ex calls him, because she claims she is stranded and has no way of getting home, or where to go for the night. She claims she fell asleep in the library and woke up after all the public transportation has closed. She claims she has no money for a cab to get home. So the guy feels bad and wants to help, basically ends the date with his new girlfriend, and goes and picks his ex up at the location where she is "stranded". The girlfriend got really mad a him because that is disrespect for him to be breaking up their date to go and rescue someone who is no longer in his life. So, she gave him the ultimatum that if he dont take her with him to go and pick up this girl, she was going to leave him. So they went and picked up the ex, and he gave her money for a hotel. Is this guy an idiot?

2007-12-25 21:22:37 · 9 answers · asked by Yahoo User 3 in Singles & Dating

i am so disappointed in my life right now. i feel like i hav no way out of this relationship. i feel like i need this person in my life bc he brings me happiness but then i think about how he tried to get back with his ex gf and i forgave him for it when i found out about it. idk what to do anymore...i feel like i need him to breathe bc he is such a big part of my life. but i have other friends and family that tell me to leave him but i cant do it right now. i feel like i know the right thing to do is to leave him but my heart wants to stay bc i have faith that he will change and learn to respect and honor me but its been almost a year since he started ******* up...and idk how much more i can take of this. i would love to hear feedback from anyone with good advice bc i have been struggling for so so long. i feel that bc we are in a long distance relationship right now, we started to argue so much on the phone but we are ok when were together but he does respect me fully...idk...

2007-12-25 21:18:43 · 13 answers · asked by bizzybee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 21:13:28 · 12 answers · asked by Alex R 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee and I are planning on getting married in May this year in the Philippines. However, I have been told that it is better to get her to the States before we get married. What would be better in your mind; getting married there or here in the USA? Any advice would be great...

2007-12-25 21:05:15 · 5 answers · asked by joe 2 in Weddings

A woman at work who I was good friends with has recently just completely switched off and now ignores me... how can someone do that?

Background... she had an abusive husband who she left at the end of 2006, she came back to work and she and I were already friends but she became my close friend, with her relying alot on my strength and support, which was fine and we were, I thought, good close friends - best friends in my view as she shared her life with me and I with her... anyway, she moved over to a new office in November, and I went over to the same office a couple of weeks later, and all of a sudden now she behaves as if she doesn't know me; ignores me, doesn't say hello, doesn't want to have lunch with me anymore.

I have agonized over what I might have done, but there is nothing. It hurts me as she was someone who I cared about and would have walked on coals to make her smile and now, she just ignores me. Am I right to resent her? I've asked what's wrong but she says "nothing".

2007-12-25 21:02:24 · 5 answers · asked by Harry Harrison 3 in Friends

This world is full of gift. Which gift I should give to my girl friend who is so young and beautiful. Suggest me gift according to her age and nature of 20 years girl.

2007-12-25 20:51:43 · 7 answers · asked by ashok k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just courious why older woman get married to younger guy, and why this guy wants her??is it love or financial benefit?? Why this young guy try so hard to approach her.Any opinion of yours??Speak up your mind plz...

2007-12-25 20:25:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

does it mean you have stopped caring about someone??

2007-12-25 20:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Growing up I endured abuse as a child and lived in a stressful family environment. As a teen, I suffered severe depression and had many incidences where I did wild things and even once seriously attempted suicide. Medical statistics say that people with that background have more difficulty finding stable romantic relationships.

I'm extremely fortunate and have been with someone for 3 years, he loves me dearly, wants to marry me, and all my friends say that he's just a dream man, with a good job, family values, he's even gorgeous to top it off. Thing is...I haven't really had trouble finding men to stay with me. I'm not trying to sound stuck up, I admit that I'm moody, get depressed easily, and even have emotional flareups commonly. But I am extremely affectionate and try to make it up after calming down.

Anyways, long question short, I feel like of all people I'd have the most trouble keeping someone, so what exactly is it that keeps a man in a relationship?

2007-12-25 20:07:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When when their boyfriend/husband watches porn that it's cheating? Even if they want to watch it as a couple some woman become insecure and angry. Why is this? I'm not talking about porn addictions either. I'm refering to oocasional porn watching in a normal relationship.
I watch porn and my husband watches porn too. Nothing in excess either. It spices up our relationship and i dont feel insecure about him watching the woman on the TV, its just a fricking movie. I dont understand, is it low self esteem or something? I dont compare myself to those woman, and my husband knows this. Its just visual stimulation for us.

2007-12-25 20:03:54 · 12 answers · asked by USMCgrlandMommy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister and her partner are not married. Precisely what does this mean and are there any legal barriers to not having their parents married when the children grow up. What are the social implications in some social circles. Thanks

2007-12-25 20:01:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce