Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

he was shot at 12 lost his left leg. he is now 18 and has gone away from home after blaming my parents in many nasty fights for his "position". he use to wear a prostetic leg which he lost at an airport after he fell asleep. He use to sleep at this airport hoping to get tickets out of the country back to our country in south america.Currently we don't know where in New York he is, he was last seen walking with crutches wearing khaki pants and a hoodie. my mom dreams about him every night and wakes up crying so does i; i have odd dreams of him. What does this mean? what can i do? of course theres a whole lot to this story but i want to put him out of my head for now and focus on college or else i'll have a second meltdown and my schooling will be put back because of family issues once more. help

2007-12-25 15:56:57 · 4 answers · asked by lovely cancer 5 in Family

i've been dating this guy for a year , and we both loves each other, and i know he loves me and i know i love him much more than he does me...
but...........he left me for christmas and went home to his parents (its his mothers bday too)
its not the first itme he is leaving me , but before we would swear he would not do it again ever to me,
i spend this christmas alone, i couldnt go to see my parents abroad and he knows it , but still left me,
he wont introduce me to his parents either because he is afraid of them,.. they want him to take a girl from his background and i am not
i am tired of hearing i love you but i have to go
what should i do?
i love him so much but cant take it anymore either
i feel lonely

2007-12-25 15:55:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im gonna lose him...
any1 got a story or problem or watever they wanna share?? any1 in a similiar/ complicated situation wit their bf/gf?? care 2 share pls, so i dont feel so lonely...

2007-12-25 15:55:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 15:53:55 · 25 answers · asked by star2free 1 in Singles & Dating

The latest will was written before the marriage. It gave everything to the ex. Will it deprive the current spouse of inheritance? Couple live in Oregon but will was written in California.

2007-12-25 15:53:30 · 5 answers · asked by treesei 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been marriaed for 15 years together for 17.... I just found nude pix of him in a file on cpmputer WTF?? ...eveything til today was fine but now I am so freaked...I want to get out of here...this is not our only problem but ...I think i may hate him now...yuk....

2007-12-25 15:52:56 · 11 answers · asked by Stacies Mom 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife, 2 year old daughter, and I drove to NC to spend some time with her family and we were supposed to come back to Northern VA on Christmas Eve day. Well, my wife and I were having some disagreements which led to my coming back to VA alone. The reason I left is because my wife wouldn't let me back into her sisters house after we had an argument.

So I spent Christmas Eve and Christmas alone up here in VA. And now my wife is saying that I have to pack up and leave before she gets back to VA on the 26th. She is bringing her sister to watch my daughter up here. (I personally can't stand her sister who in my eyes is a deadbeat)

I am currently not working and was watching our daughter while my wife was working (we recently lost our day care provider).

Can she legally make me leave the house? And is there anyway that I can block her sister from being the day care provider for my daughter?

2007-12-25 15:51:57 · 7 answers · asked by DC United Fan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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Without seeming like a stalker or over the top . Since it is over the internet i want her to feel comfortable.

2007-12-25 15:50:26 · 3 answers · asked by Brandon 3 in Singles & Dating

She called to tell him she was planning to come pick it up tommorow! i havent even had a chance to get my van yet to accomadate for our growing family. i am so angry i want to scream and am having serious doubts about whether i realy want to give my car to my mother in law......regaurdless of whether i get my van or not! what if i dont get a van for a while how will i get to my doctor appointments to check on our unborn son? am just being selfish or do i have a right to be upset?

2007-12-25 15:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by Thumbs down me now 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 14 year old girl and I have a 13 year old brother. For Christmas my grandmother sent us each a gift that she had to of put alot of thought into, because mine was one of my best gifts ever. I received a pearl ring, bracelet, and earrings that she chose just for me. When I talked to her on the phone I told her "Thank you so much for my gifts. They are so pretty!" She said, "Sorry, grandma doesn't have alot" etc. and she sounded so sad! She wouldn't believe that I loved them so much, which kinda made me feel bad. My grandmother always feels like she never gives enough, but if only she knew how much she has given to me. Not necessarily in objects though. How can I show her how much we love all that she has done for us as well as the beautiful gifts we received?

2007-12-25 15:49:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a best friend that I really like. We are always together and really touchy feely, and I like that. I want to move further sometime when we are alone together, but he has a gf. They have only been together a month and its a really weird relationship....everyone expects they will break up soon. But would it be ok for us to do anything and not mention it publicly until they break up?

2007-12-25 15:48:20 · 13 answers · asked by notcrazyunwell 3 in Friends

Im 21years old I love my boyfriend. We are planning to get married my dad told me if I give up having him pay for a wedding reception , He will pay for a small wedding and my brand new car I got (I could afford that if I needed to). I thought sure I will pay for the wedding reception and he can pay my car off. Today my fiancé and i brought that up. I said all you have to pay is the car and a wedding dress, I said you don't have to pay for the church or preacher or anything. He said no if he paid for the car that no one else could help me pay for a wedding if someone helped then no car. he started yelling at my fiancé because his job just cut his hours but he got transferred so he is back at 40hrs. My dad started saying he was no good he was worthless, he plans to be a pilot and he is joining the air force. He is starting a great career and Im wanting to go to college to be a teacher. Anyway he chased my fiancé out the door and swung at him. My boyfriend did not swing.

My question is how do I comfort my fiancé he is upset. They had gotten along before. My dad is also know for physically and mentally abusing me and my mom. Im a little upset to because he told us we are never allowed at their house.


He offered he gave us a wedding and reception or a wedding and a car. I picked the car and I would pay for the reception he got pissed when I said I would pay for the reception he said I could only have a car. I don't live near him Im a Virgin so Im not shacking up I have two years of college behind me and so does he. He has taken pilot classes. I don't need to hear a stupid answer like stop digging in t o your daddy's wallet I DO NOT NEED HIS MONEY

2007-12-25 15:47:57 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

secretly screaming inside that they "have no idea" how they are really like?

2007-12-25 15:45:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine has fallen in love with a woman who is not in love with her husband anymore after 18 years of marriage and they have children.

He told me that it was not his intent to fall for her but they have a lot in common he is 38 and she is 40. She never brings him up in conversations only talk about her kids.

She told him that he never tells her he loves her, buy her things and just come home from work and watch television. I told him that it seems that she is lonely inside and wants out of the marriage but it hard because of the children and it seems like they are more of friends that husband and wife.

She does see him and have feelings for him but I think she does not want to get hurt or caught in doing the wrong thing.

It seems they married young which is not an excuse but it seems time of not giving to each other made the relationship stale.

The marriage I believe will be over soon it depends on who will leave first. I think they are good for each other.

2007-12-25 15:44:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 15:43:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would they seem feminine if they did not?

2007-12-25 15:43:38 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 15:42:16 · 6 answers · asked by Ian K 1 in Singles & Dating

i always got good grades got in trouble a couple of times like any other kid

2007-12-25 15:41:56 · 11 answers · asked by bright 2 in Family

2007-12-25 15:41:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a 17 year old son that made a false police report and almost cost my husband our job and home and other kids

2007-12-25 15:41:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anna M 2 in Family

MY 15 YR OLD BOYFRIEND GAVE ME A RING AND ITS SO PRETTY HE SAID ITS A ENGAGEMENT TYPE PROMISE RING WHAT DO YOU THINK HE HAS IN PLAN FOR OUR FUTURE???

2007-12-25 15:40:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

would you date a guy who partys alot and only wants one thing

2007-12-25 15:40:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am scared to swear infront of my parents and im 18 years old. it is a serious problem and its controlling my life.ever since i was little my mom made us terrified to say any swear word even some minor swearwords like "damit" and "hell". it is so insane how far i will go just so my mom wont find out i sware. for example when ever i bring friends over i tell them that they cant swear in my house because then my mom might findout and i would get in so much trouble. also my mom and dad are split up and when we visit my dad we won't swear because i dont want him to know i sware either because i feel like im doing something wrong if i sware.also im afriad to kiss or touch or even look at girls when my parents around. i think it has already made me loose my mind. what do you think?

and sorry about spelling i have dislexia

2007-12-25 15:39:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-25 15:39:24 · 8 answers · asked by goodguy4u63 2 in Friends

we both have moved on with our lives am i still married if we have been separated for this long with no contact

2007-12-25 15:38:53 · 14 answers · asked by PURPLE D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up in April. He still loved me and i loved him i just needed some time to think or get things together. Well now he has a girlfriend. I know he still cares about me and i told him how i felt and how much i miss him. He simply says he has a girlfriend now. His girlfriend and i have already had it out because she read his mail when i told hime how i felt. I need him, i know i cant be without him. Please what should i do to get him back? She just isnt right for him. She already has done things to make him question his "love" for her. All ten months we were together we never had an arguement, noe did i do anything to hurt him.

2007-12-25 15:37:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few days ago, I told this guy I've been dating for about 6 months that I don't want a relationship. We agree to remain close, and close friends, we've been through hell and back together these 5 months, including a pregnancy that lead to a miscarriage...

anyhow. he gave me a giftcard to a spa... he chose for me to get a manicure and massage, saying that I never would spend the money on myself so he will. It came to $109, as it says on the certificate. He says he doesn't want it back. But he bought it when he thought him and i would eventually be in a relationship. What to do?

2007-12-25 15:36:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Besides hide in the closet?

2007-12-25 15:35:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Such as does she still like me? Does she like me?

2007-12-25 15:35:47 · 4 answers · asked by sgrag3003 2 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my girlfriend and it's getting hard to deal with it. I still love her and care for her, and still want to be with her... but I just can't. I mean she said she'd take me back but I can't. I told her I wouldn't hurt her and I need numerous times, and I treated her wrong, even though she claims I didn't. I acted like a asshole the night before we broke up and it really got to me to the point were I couldn't cope with it and just had to break up with her. Anybody know how I deal with this or do about this?

2007-12-25 15:35:08 · 22 answers · asked by LC 1 in Singles & Dating