Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

I m 21years old I love my boyfriend. We are planning to get married my dad told me if I give up having him pay for a wedding reception , He will pay for a small wedding andmy brand new car I got (I could afford that if I needed to). I thought sure I will pay for the wedding reception and he can pay my car off. Today my fiancee and i brought that up. I said all you have to pay is the car and a wedding dress, I said you don't have to pay for the church or preacher or anything. He said no if he paid for the car that no one else could help me pay for a wedding if someoone helped then no car. he started yelling at my fiancee because his job just cut his hours but he got transfered so he is back at 40hrs. My dad started saying he was no good he was worthless, he plans to be a pilot and he is joining the air force. He is starting a great career and Im wanting to go to college to be a teacher. Anyway he chased my fiancee out the door and swung at him. My boyfriend did not swing.

2007-12-25 14:52:09 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

I know in my heart this relationship is over. He make me so unhappy, stresses me out everyday, makes me cry, takes enjoyment out of things I love. He doesn't hit me or call me names, he just has his own way of making me feel like crap. But I'm 100% dependant on him for money. I have no job training, or an education for that matter. I'm a stay at home mom to our wonderful children. If I leave him then I have no way to take care of our kids and I know he won't help more than he has to. Wich isn't even enough to pay one months rent. I also have some minor, yet difficult, health problems and no family other than him & our kids. Do I try to stick it out til our kids are at least school aged and I can get job training, or do I uproot all our lives and live in a shealter? What do I do????

2007-12-25 14:46:02 · 7 answers · asked by qwerty8404 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my x gf soon to be gf again she has c cups they say boobies have fat in them thats imposible cause she is way skinny

2007-12-25 14:45:41 · 7 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

this question is for men that cheated, and was also involed in a really serious relationship with kids. when you cheated on her did you love her?

2007-12-25 14:45:33 · 1 answers · asked by femmelao714 1 in Singles & Dating

My hands get really sweaty( iam searously thinking of getting botox in my hands) I really like my girlfriend and i want to hold hands. I feel like a failure cuz i dont wan to make her hands sweaty. Can only holds hands when out in cold.(hands dont sweat) Would you hate to hold hands with a guy who has sweaty hands or am i making a big deal about it. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-25 14:43:52 · 5 answers · asked by sweetguy 1 in Singles & Dating

1.)I've been friends with this girl for a few months, she had a boyfriend then, but he cheated on her a couple months ago, so I was there to cheer her up of course. (She already had some rebound guy)
2.) We started talking seriously while I was vacationing in Florida. She'd ask me to call her, and always wanted to talk with me etc... and our conversations would be long and great.
3.) I get back, and hang out with her a few times, and we had a great time together, she'd always want to be close to me and cuddle. Continued the good late night phone conversatons and everything.
4.) One random night, she goes to a friends house, and comes back home having a new boyfriend, that I'm assuming her friend hooked her up with.
5.) Now she won't even talk to me, and I'm wondering what the hell I could have done, or what could possibly have gone through her head. She won't even talk as friends, or respond to my IMs, or anything...i dont get it

2007-12-25 14:43:38 · 17 answers · asked by The Man 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I had plans to go do something. While I was getting ready, his friend called him and wanted him to come over to have him install a car radio and to just hangout. He blew me off so he could do that. How mad should I be at him? I don't want to over react.

2007-12-25 14:39:29 · 30 answers · asked by bluemonarch17 3 in Singles & Dating

I've wanted a Nintendo DS Lite since I was 13 (I'm almost 15 now). I kept asking my parents for it every year for Christmas, but I never got one. Then, this year, my 10 year old brother (let's call him Danny) got one. He freaked out when he got it and bragged. When I asked if I could see it, he just said no. And he knows that I've wanted one for two years. I got a camcorder that doesn't even work, and I might not be able to return it. Is this fair? And if I could return it, would it be rude to ask my parents for a Nintendo DS Lite instead (they are the same price)? Thanks to everyone who answers! :) ♥

2007-12-25 14:38:42 · 9 answers · asked by iheart_you_too2 3 in Family

My mom was telling me about how she wants her new boyfriend to move in with us this weekend. I told her it was fine but first of all, her divorce doesn't go through until next October and it wouldn't be legal for any man to move in with us until it went through. Also, they've only been together for a month. So... should I tell her my true feelings? If so, what are some things I could say?

2007-12-25 14:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by Hood Smart; 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I have a wonderful relationship and never have arguements. We have really close and talk like best friends. The things is, whenever we talk and I say something that bothers me or makes me sad then he feels sad as well. Then, he gets really quiet. I am the kind of person that wants to talk in those moments and when I ask him 'what's wrong' he is quiet. That makes me more hurt that he doesn't speak and then he says sorry and talks and hugs me after 30 minutes.

Do you get in these situations?

I need to learn to not say anything and let him have his time and then talk about it when he is ready.

Advice or stories greatly appreciated~

SEASONS GREETINGS!

2007-12-25 14:36:37 · 9 answers · asked by HotJewels 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my mom was watching t.v and i was in my room my dad comes out and says these weird stuff and he left but i think he will come out again and start to fight with my mom im scared im shaking right now im biting my fingernails please help me
merry christmas

2007-12-25 14:36:07 · 27 answers · asked by John sXe (Straight Edge Savior) 5 in Family

2007-12-25 14:35:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 14:30:09 · 8 answers · asked by ms attitude 2 in Family

Sorry to bring out this kind of question guys, but not only am I unhappily married, but Iam extremely confused in my relationship and lots of uncertainity about my future out come. It does not look to bright at all. I am just merely curious about this. Thanks guys!

2007-12-25 14:29:32 · 7 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband of 4 yrs wishes to adopt my first child from a bad, earlier marriage. she still sees her biological dad (visitation, etc). does she still need to continue doing that?

2007-12-25 14:28:33 · 6 answers · asked by Marsha 1 in Family

If she died, I would literally kill myself. I am pretty sure though, that she likes more than just a friend. And, I think that I might possibly be in love with her, too. But, I dont know what to do? Please help. She doesnt know I feel like this yet.

2007-12-25 14:27:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm getting married to my dream guy in July and he is Lutheran and I am Wiccan. So....what should we do?

1) Should one of us convert out religion to the other's?

2) If not, how can we combine our religions into our marriage?

3) Most of my family is Christian, what should I do about that?

2007-12-25 14:26:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi, my name is Brady. I'm a boy 17 years old and I like to wear girls underwear.

I tried on my first pair, when I was 11. I was playing hiding-go seek, with my friends. And I was look through drawers in the bathroom for a falshlight, cause it was dark. And I opened a drawer and it was my mom's underwear. I tried on a cheetah thong. It was really comfotable. After that I went down there to bring 3 pairs up to my room. And I wore them to sleep. I really like them. And I don't want to give them up. But is this wrong?

2007-12-25 14:25:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I got married to my husband soon after she was born.My daughters father wanted me to abort her.So I thought he might always resent her.Amongst other personal issues that I didn't think would be fair to raise her around.But now she is almost 7 and I want to tell her the truth in a very gentle way.But I have no idea how to find him.All I know is the last address he ever sent her money from.Does anyone know how I can find him?I don't have much money.So I can hire a pi or anything.

2007-12-25 14:24:13 · 3 answers · asked by sunkissed299 4 in Family

i always lived a decent life, i think.. i always used to 'play santa' at christmas, for the kids.. i'd go out late at night on christmas eve dropping off presents.. i'll admit i drove fast sometimes but, there was never any traffic out on christmas eve and i was always in a hurry, dropping off the many gifts.. i dont really remember the accident but, one year, i was in a wreck.. i'm paralized from the mid-chest down now.. and i just get so sad this time of year.. often i think about suicide.. i'm so helpless and lonely in this world.. i have nothing to do but get on yahoo and make up crap stories like this one.. ha ha

2007-12-25 14:22:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married for close to 3 years now. It has always been up and down. Most of the time my wife and I enjoy our lives together. But on occasion we have really bad fights. I try many different things to keep these arguments from happening or getting out of control. We've both left home before... but mostly her. But we always make up, no matter how bad the fight. Today is Christmas. And I'm home alone. I let her plan everything this xmas so that she would be happy, because she gets crazy (in my opinion) around the holidays. She dosn't work and we have no kids. I spent near 5 grand on presents and decorations. Up until today everything went pretty smooth. Then all hell broke loose. Basically she ripped me a new one. She told me she "didn't want me to go to her moms with her", "that I should die", "Piece of sh*t", "I hope this is the last xmas we spend together" etc. This is what always happens... and I eventually loose my cool. What can I do? How can I go on like this?

2007-12-25 14:20:49 · 21 answers · asked by passin_time77 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I decided to not have sex before marriage, a commitment we've made to God. I am 43, my girlfriend 33. We have both been married before and each have children. Is this practical by today's standards?

2007-12-25 14:18:58 · 38 answers · asked by John M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you feel that it would be a sin to view pornography with your spouse if it causes no lust and only feelings for one another?

2007-12-25 14:18:39 · 15 answers · asked by GodsGrl4Real 3 in Marriage & Divorce

pls answer this to your best abiliy! no criticisms please! thanks!

A) How do I get a stripper? How much? WHAT CAN I DO SO SHE'LL LET ME TOUCH? (im 18, pretty good lookin too lol ;)

B) Where are my chances HIGHEST for getting a girl to take back to my room?...(not paying a girl for that and am only 18 so no club)

2007-12-25 14:18:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Over the past two months I became friends with this girl in physics class. She always makes an effort to talk to me and be nice, and even made me a cd for me a while back after she asked me if I liked a band. She also copied notes for me and asked me my number recently, so we could study together. When we got done studying and I was walking to my car she stopped and picked me up and we talked in her car. We went and got coffee at school the next day after she waited a few mins for me to finish our exam. She also dropped out of her lab project group to be in mine after I couldn't get in hers. She then asked me to goto church with her recently, and we've studied together outside of school. In passing one time she said didn't want a relationship when talking about this guy from church that called her...we've been hanging out for a few weeks now at her house or going out to other places.

2007-12-25 14:17:38 · 6 answers · asked by cracky 2 in Singles & Dating

My family is not near & I didn't want to travel to see them. Also I don't have REAL friends only associates.

I was not depressed about spending Christmas alone. In fact I was content and enjoyed the day relaxing and reflecting.

However I feel the need to lie when people ask me what I did for Christmas. Why is that?

I know they will say something like "aww" or "that's sad" and make it seem like a pathetic pitiful thing when I don't feel that it is. And they will ask if I have friends or family. Even though I'm cool with it, I actually think it does sound pathetic to says that you have no friends and don't feel like seeing your family.

How can I respond in this situation?

2007-12-25 14:15:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There has to be a better solution.Neither one will listen or follow my rules.I am more than fed up.There has to be a better way as she will either end up pregnant or not finishing high school and messing up her life.T
hey are thick and could care less.I have talked myself silly on deaf ears.they lie and sneak every chance they can get and I have had enough.I need good advice fast.I am meeting with them both to discuss this once again and I need something they will listen to.Or an answer to resolve this.It has to stop before I lose my sanity over it.They are not married and obviously too young and everything I've taught has gone out the window..disreguarded.i regret ever letting them date.It has turned into a nightmare.She has ripped my heart out throwing her life away on this unspeakable kid.I need more advice quick...I wish I could throttle them both but they would care less.They are thickheaded and foolish.Please help asap.

2007-12-25 14:14:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to be inlove with your ex husband???

2007-12-25 14:13:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 14:11:16 · 18 answers · asked by rozi i 1 in Singles & Dating

i think this guy likes me but sometimes he calls me a sluttt/ho i dont know if its a joke or he really means it.

2007-12-25 14:10:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating