there is no such thing as true love. marriage is a sham to make women into slaves. under marriage you are there to cook, clean, and have his kids, basically you are free booty call. all men cheat. Its the reason why there is the spread of disease. men dont know how to love. I also am unhappily married to a cheater. I refuse to have sex with him and now he wont pay me. he wants to take my kids from me and not give me allimony so I stay married to him. for the kids sake.Marriage is not worth it.
2007-12-25 15:39:12
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answered by plumblossom_inc 3
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When you go out with couples you know who is still truly in love and who isn't. Fake love is easy that is all the married couples. Once you say "I do" your loving relationship is over. Some people realize it in weeks and get divorced others lie to themselves for years. You just realized it!!! Good luck with the future. If are ever lucky enough to fall in love again don't ever get married and destroy it!!!
2007-12-26 14:57:17
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answered by Anonymous
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You may like to read "Soulmates" by Rita Rogers.
It is easy to read and summarises different aspects of love but mainly focuses on man-woman relationships. It gave me peace and encouraging down to earth advice, hope it gives you something positive too.
Good luck, wish you the love we all want need and deserve.
2007-12-25 23:47:04
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answered by KungFuCareBear 2
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You love your kids, you love your parents and brothers and sisters, but what you feel for your companion it's a whole different thing, maybe it's economic security, or sexual desire, or too many years together, that you're afraid to begin again, but there's no such thing as true love.
2007-12-25 23:24:05
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answered by Anonymous
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I am so sorry that you are unhappily married.
I do believe the only "Love" that exists is for oneself, and then for ones children.
The other people in our lives come into the category of Fondness and Lust... Never LOVE,
Good Luck. I hope that things get better.
2007-12-25 22:38:42
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answered by marheather 5
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There are many different kinds of LOVE....love for parents, children, family, friends etc. If you are unhappy in your current realtionship, you owe it to yourself to either work it out of get a divorce and find someone that makes you HAPPY.....
2007-12-25 22:33:07
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answered by barb 6
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It is all in your head.
If you could learn to not tell yourself lies, and stop believing all your mental BS, you will find the truth.
Good luck.
2007-12-25 22:32:41
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answered by box of rain 7
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