Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

Would you rather date a girl who ALWAYS had a sexy hairstyle or a girl who is NEVER in a bad mood and who always loves u?

2007-12-25 13:45:25 · 6 answers · asked by Manda--Bye? 2 in Singles & Dating

Does she want to be a queen? Or would she still seek the prince if he had only himself?

2007-12-25 13:44:31 · 7 answers · asked by prince cupid of rare blue 1 in Singles & Dating

I tell him all the time how good he looks, complimenting him on his hair, outfit, whatever, but he doesn't feel attractive, even though he is. And it's not just me that thinks it, lots of my female friends tell me how lucky I am to have a hot guy. But he just rejects my compliments, and thinks he is hideous. Usually this is a girl problem, but I really want him to feel good about the way he looks, and let him know I find him attractive...how can I do that?

2007-12-25 13:44:29 · 2 answers · asked by Julia 4 in Singles & Dating

ive slept with,is that nasty??

2007-12-25 13:44:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help.
i like this guy. he has a girlfriend tho. he flirts in a weird way... i flirt bck. we text/aim each other ALOT and we talk in class.he talks to his girlfriend sometimes.... shes in a differnt grade...9th or something like that. theyve been going out for bout two months. he text me and says hes board when he hangs out with his gf. i think bout him ALL the time. he knos i like him.... my friend asked him[without my permission] if he like me and he said. donno.... ? waht does that REALLY mean. i hve no idea.... but i really like him.... ohh and all my friends and some of his friends say we would look cute together. hes tall-im tall-both brown hair- both blue eyes..... and we have alot in common. please help...... does he like me? does he just hink of me as a friend? what should i do.....

2007-12-25 13:43:16 · 7 answers · asked by babe! 2 in Friends

Okay, here's the deal. My husband is 63 and I am 43. I have 3 children ages 21, 19, and 14. His children are 36 and 33 and are Jewish. I mean they claim to be very Jewish. My family is very christian. My husband is Christian also. His ex wife and her husband are Jewish. When we visit with them ( his son just got married to a Catholic) but insisted on a very jJewish ceremony. When they visiited us last spring, they stayed with us and were offended by the cross ihad hanging in our home and my cross jewerly that I wore. They would not attend chruch with us because they said that would be hypocritical. I did not expect them to go and was not offended. I completely understood.. So last Christmas I sent them both Hannaacha cards and good wishes. But they werer livid that we did not send them a Christmas giift. My husb and said that I was selfish and just wanted to spend more money on my own family.I don't know, call me crazy, but I thought that Jews did not believe in j Christ

2007-12-25 13:40:38 · 10 answers · asked by gatetrek4 2 in Family

So... I had this boyfriend. Things weren't the best, so I broke up with him, and now we're just good friends! But he's dating the one girl that I hate! Suddenly, my feelings are just rushing back! : [ I know I don't want to date him again, but I still kinda like him.

Help!

2007-12-25 13:39:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you find a nose ring sexy?

2007-12-25 13:37:41 · 14 answers · asked by 4REAL 2 in Singles & Dating

Thanks

2007-12-25 13:37:35 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you tell if you like someone?
I mean, how do you fell when you look at the person you like? Especially if they're a friend.
This guy at my lunch table told me he liked me and I told him I only liked him as a friend, but now I regret saying that, because now I think I like him.
But, my mum thinks I'm just getting wrapped up in that feeling of him liking me. And my friends are giving me crappy advice when I ask them this, so, shoot.

Thanks!

2007-12-25 13:35:38 · 3 answers · asked by xf in a :)x[ 4 in Singles & Dating

Would you be in trouble, etc.?

2007-12-25 13:34:55 · 16 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a mother of 4 from age 22 to 10. I made sure Christmas was amazing for them--looking till I found the perfect gifts, etc--
Plus getting special gifts for my husband. I had NOTHING to open this morning! I had my heart set on a least 0ne special gift under the tree--but nothing. He didn't even take the ten year old to get me a card! My oldest 2 are on their own and struggling and i know they could't afford anything--but I have a 18 year old step=daughter that makes about $400 a week ( and lives at home) we are not struggling money wise--Hubby could have afforded something! Am I wrong to let this get to me??Just feel so UNSPECIAL!! Thanks for letting me get this off my chest--

2007-12-25 13:33:28 · 13 answers · asked by cwcarol82 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I are 2.5 hours apart. He wants me to move where he lives. He likes me to visit him of course and shows that he cares about me a lot, but he takes very little effort to visit me so I am not so sure how much he cares....this could be a money issue also because he says it is expensive to travel. He doesn't find it necessary to call me everyday...but when we do talk we talk for at least an hour. When we talk he lets me know how much he loves me and how I am his better half, but why does he not take more effort to visit or call everyday? Is how he is acting normal in a long distance relationship?

P.S. I know that he is not cheating because I got to meet his parents who loved me and I do trust him and we aren't sexually active.

2007-12-25 13:32:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with him for a week & 15.
He used to be a HUGE DRUG ADDICT =/
He says he's gone clean [off of drugs] for me! =]
As happy as I am for him,
I know the minute a break up with him,
He'll start doing it ALL over again! =/

I'm scared for him.. Why does he do that to himself?!
=[

2007-12-25 13:32:41 · 31 answers · asked by Brii. 3 in Singles & Dating

well ive got this friend, who ive recently gotten into a fight with. and they really really want to become friends again. and i dont know what to do because i have this reall bad gut feelings that i shouldnt, so your opinions, follow my gut feeling, or ignor it?

2007-12-25 13:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by jess:) 2 in Friends

If so tell me how to get my GIRLFRIEND back

2007-12-25 13:31:02 · 17 answers · asked by chris w 2 in Singles & Dating

last friday i took off work. thats usually not a big deal. BUT i had to go to work because i forgot to right vacation time on my time card. when i got to work, one of the techs says "dang heidi, i wish i could get a Friday off!!!". i was totally SHOCKED! but anyway, i'm wanting to take off on Thursday because my Great Grandmother's birthday party (she's now 102 years old). i have to take off because it's out of town. i have to ask the girl that was mad @ me if she could work for me. but i was thinking that i could say, she can take off on Friday and i'll work for her all day. i need the hours anyway. should i even ask her. i did forget to say, about 4 hours later, she texted me and said she's sorry for blowing up @ me, and that she didnt mean it. what should i do? ask her or not?

2007-12-25 13:30:53 · 8 answers · asked by ○HiD○ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

If my daughter chose someone else to be her Maid of Honor, what is a mother typically supposed to be or do at her daughter's $25,000.00 wedding?

2007-12-25 13:30:34 · 28 answers · asked by itsme 6 in Weddings

i was adopted 21 years ago by a wonderful family...as a child my cousin and i grew up together. we both knew that what we wanted we couldnt have because the fact that our family would never understand. we hid our relationship from our family for years now. two years ago she and i had a child together. my question is that is it wrong for me to have a child with my adopetd cousin? again i was adopted and my cousin and i are not blood cousin....

2007-12-25 13:30:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is a lier and he talks to other girls. He says hes not in a sexual manner but he always denies talking to other girls I have to look thru his phone and when I call the girls up and ask if they know about me they have no clue. what should I do????????

2007-12-25 13:28:41 · 12 answers · asked by itzjustupixie 1 in Singles & Dating

When i fantasize about someone else like Beyonce, i don't want 2 disrepect my girlfriend by sexually fantasizing about her all the time.

2007-12-25 13:27:53 · 34 answers · asked by Saint 3 in Singles & Dating

i was looking at all the posts of cheating men and i was thinking about putting my ex-hubby on that page.. on thers words and lists on this guy and i want every female on the internet to know what a back-stabbing,self-absorbed asshole that he is... well anybody have any stories they want to share, because this xmas has been poor and bad and i want someone to talk to about this whole thing.. so let me know ladies.

2007-12-25 13:27:46 · 4 answers · asked by Sunshyne 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband can not last longer than 1- 10 seconds (I am not in anyway over exggeragting) As soon as he's in, he's done. Our counselor has suggested he say a doctor cause he might have depression. Zoloft can help with depression and (PE) Premature ejaculation. I don't really care if I have an orgasm everytime, but it's been months since I've had an orgasm. . He refuses to see a doctor. I hate doing this but I'm not having sex w/ him anymore, I'm tired of having sex without any orgasms, it's been months since I even enjoyed have sex. He might think I'm being mean, but I'm so tired of getting excited to only get let down. This problem is causeing a huge problem. He gets mad when I masturbate, but it's the only way I can achieve any pleasure. How can I convince him to get help? I think he's being selfish by not at least trying to get on zoloft. Any advice or anything is GREATLY apprecaited.

2007-12-25 13:26:23 · 20 answers · asked by msulli2366 1 in Marriage & Divorce

someone plz help

2007-12-25 13:24:34 · 3 answers · asked by lauranrob4eva 1 in Family

Meaning, that a women ugly has to make more of an effort to keep a man.

2007-12-25 13:24:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 13:23:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime me, my husband, and mother-in-law are driving in the car either her or my husband brings up his ex-girlfried. I just get very quiet and don't say anything. Why do you think this always happens?

2007-12-25 13:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she told me that they were in love for 5 years, and that HE left her, heartbroken. she has not expressed any regret about being involved with him. i can't help thinking i am a better man than that, and that maybe i am "too good" for this woman, if that (abuse) is normal to her. i get the impression that she would still be with him if he had not left her for another woman. what do you think?

2007-12-25 13:22:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 13:22:04 · 18 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3 in Singles & Dating

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

2007-12-25 13:17:10 · 12 answers · asked by Georgia F 1 in Marriage & Divorce