When i fantasize about someone else like Beyonce, i don't want 2 disrepect my girlfriend by sexually fantasizing about her all the time.
2007-12-25 13:27:53 · 34 answers · asked by Saint 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-12-25 13:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Eric J 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. There is nothing wrong with that. Actually I admire you when I read the line " I don't want 2 disrepect my girlfriend by sexually fantasizing about her all the time." I myself do fantasize about other people sometimes. Although I already have a boyfriend for 6 years. And besides it makes me long for him more. :-)
2007-12-25 13:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by anne_bez 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, you have to be married to commit adultery. Second, its called Coveting to fantasize about another woman. And third I think your girlfriend would be glad to know that you fantasize about her all the time. I would find it flattering. But also in the same note I would not be upset if you fantasized about a celebrity cause she is pretty much unattainable. I would only be upset if you fantasized about my sister or the girl who sits in class behind you. You know something like that.
2007-12-25 13:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Landry 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First Dude how old are you? Are you EVEN married?
If not then it is not adultery. Look up the definition.
Who fantasizes about other people? Like imagining yourself their type or admiring?If you are imagining yourself there get some help!
Also if you are admiring and your GF has a problem with it. Reconsider your relationship because she has self esteem issues!
2007-12-25 13:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy PR Mom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, it happens, but I try to remember it's a sin. I try not purposefully fantasize about other people. You're only human but if you can help don't do it all the time on purpose. Try to fantasize about her then maybe tell her about these new ideas. If you tell her maybe she'd be excited, but try not to pressure her into things she doesn't feel comfortable with.
2007-12-25 13:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by msulli2366 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not disrespecting her if you don't choose the other girl over her. We can't help what we feel..it is in our nature to fantasize about other people. We are not just going to stop looking at people because we have another person in our life. You can't help it..just dont do anything with the other person and you are fine!
2007-12-25 13:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Brianna 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, not at all. and if this girl gives you grief over it then leave her alone. when you become involved in a relationship it is a given that you can't actually mess with other people but it's perfectly harmless to fantasize about them. it may be an issue if that's what you have to do to get in or stay in the mood, but to supplement your sex life or just to go off into your own world... hecks no!!!
2007-12-25 13:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mighty 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First off - dude get fricken serious.
Fantasizing about a fricken sexy superstar? Now if you skip meals and deny her sex because of it, then it may be a problem, but if you're watching a music video or something, then all it means is that you're NOT GAY!!!
If your girl finds out and has a problem with it, ask her about her favorite male stars, and watch her get the 'deer in the headlights' look
'WHAT?'
2007-12-25 13:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would say it is healthy, and OK.
just don't tell her!
lol.
and by some religious beliefs you are an adulterer when you fantasize about ANY woman you are not married to, including your Girlfriend.
2007-12-25 13:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by lewis_temple 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No you're not an adulterer. You're a normal person, fantasies are NORMAL.
The only time fantasies can cause problems is if they become the main focus, instead of the person you're with. Then you've got a problem.
2007-12-25 13:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Yup!!!!! You have already disrespected your g/f. I hope she finds out one day what a jerk YOU really are. What comes around goes around BABY
Dude, You are farmost NOT a Saint. LOL Get a grip
2007-12-25 13:35:46 · answer #11 · answered by conny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋