He is a lier and he talks to other girls. He says hes not in a sexual manner but he always denies talking to other girls I have to look thru his phone and when I call the girls up and ask if they know about me they have no clue. what should I do????????
2007-12-25 13:28:41 · 12 answers · asked by itzjustupixie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u can do better dump him
2007-12-25 13:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by golfcart123456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically it would be up to you itf you would break up with him. It is your decision because you are the one who is in the relationship. Think about your situation and what are the consequences that would happen if you break up with him. Think not only twice. Think over and over again until you come up with the decision. I also have the same experience with my boyfriend. What I did is I broke with him and then talked to the girl and told her that she can keep my guy. After a week, his parents talked to me and they said that he asked their help because he wants me back. I told them I don't want to be hurt anymore so I didn't reconcile with him. A year already passed and he still doesn't have a girlfriend and still asking me to comeback but I keep on telling him that it were better off as friends. Although I still love him.
2007-12-25 13:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by anne_bez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very jealous.
If it bothers you that much dump him. you need to make sure it's not your jealous side taking over.
If he's doing this and it bothers you that bad and he's still doing it, then again....dump him.
Just keep your jealousy intac though. I only say that due to you "going through his phone".
Is this the way you want to live everyday?
I didn't think so....
2007-12-25 13:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For both of your sakes, you should break up with him. You don't trust him, perhaps with very good reason, but what is the point of having a relationship where you need to constantly snoop into his phone calls?
2007-12-25 13:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I hate when girls do this. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your boyfriend talking to other girls unless he is FOR SURE cheating on you. Otherwise, don't be so nosy. I'm sure you talk to other men as well.
2007-12-25 13:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ewa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this bugs u then dump him. but i really don't think its a good enough reason. ur bf is allowed to have a life and talk to other girls. u shouldn't restrict a guy lol.
2007-12-25 13:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you obviously don't trust him or you wouldn't be questioning. Why are you staying with someone you don't trust? Leave him, he is not goint to stop talking to them. The question is..has he ever given you a reason to not trust him. If he has then you should leave him..if he hasn't then leave it alone and stay with him.
2007-12-25 13:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Brianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too.it's OK to talk to other girls but there should be no secrets on what the talk is about and you should be able to meet them as well.he is playing the field and your a right now girl.dump him.
2007-12-25 13:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be snooping to begin with, but if youre that insecure about him talking to girls, you guys should not be together.
2007-12-25 13:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just being insecure. if you don't change this attitude, you'll end up feeling this way towards any guy who becomes your bf.
2007-12-25 13:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by meltman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋