Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

ok so I had a bf n we like went out for like idk probly 2 months n then he broke up wit me when we had this huge fight... he said that he didnt have the heart to love me nemore n I was rilly hurt but I knew he didnt mean it n he even said tht he didnt then we went out a second time for like a week n then only reason we broke up wuz cuz one of my friends called him n told him I wuz cheatin on him n now his friend called me today n asked me out for him but he has been kinda mean lately like hangin up on me so idk if I should go out wit him nemore cuz I love him n all but idk if this is gonna work. Wut would u do????

2007-12-25 14:09:25 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Amber♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

her and her boyfriend are having an arguement..
her boyfriend says that if you hold in gas you die..
and my mom says its not true..
she told me to ask yahoo answers....
its stupid.. but can you answer so they can stop?

2007-12-25 14:09:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am ingaged and i have 2 kids named annasophia and Sal.They are so cute!!!My almost husband does not like my kids because there not his (i got a divorse) What should i do because i am only 17!!!!!

2007-12-25 14:08:48 · 12 answers · asked by Carlene P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

DO YOU AGREE?

shy guys are cute, but you would not be attracted to them
confident guys are sexy, and you would feel more comfortable approaching them

2007-12-25 14:07:56 · 7 answers · asked by Obama's GF's BF 1 in Singles & Dating

ok here is the deal i've been married for 3 1/2 years i'm 23 years old and my husband for the entire time we've been married treats me and my sons like crap, always yelling in our faces and constantly telling me what i can and cant do where i can and cant go who i can and cant have as friends and so on, i care about him still but i feel like i'm done.....i met a guy 3 months ago who is the most awesome guy i've ever known he is sweet thoughtful and genuinly cares about ppl, he is reeally good with my sons and my sons like him also. i really care about him and feel like i'm in love with him and he says the same about me........what do i do?? please help me i'm so stressed out i feel like i dont know which way is up anymore thankyou so much for any of your help!!

2007-12-25 14:07:11 · 18 answers · asked by crystalbbl143 2 in Marriage & Divorce

was that a bad decision?

2007-12-25 14:05:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean little spats about things like doing dishes or where to go out..
ღBF and I have been together for 9 mo and have just had our first spat. We never yell or raise our voice at each other (we are in our 30's BTW) Is that too soon for a first argument?

2007-12-25 14:05:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This question is for adult females only. Please state your own height as well. The heights may be in cm or feet and inches.

2007-12-25 14:03:46 · 50 answers · asked by coolguy 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband ben was married before and has a 7 yr old son with his exwife.The problem is his exwife hates me and is very jealous of me. So his exwife is allways getting gifts for my husband that makes "diggs" at me and reminds him how inportant she is for giving him a child.For example for x-mas she gave him a very nice frame with a 8x10 pic of her,my husband and thier son that said "our family" or for my husbands b-day she gave him a nice dish that had poem about thier son and how he was made in love. If she just wanted to have thier son give a gift why not have him make one? Why does she do this and what should i do?

2007-12-25 14:01:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband ben was married before and has a 7 yr old son with his exwife.The problem is his exwife hates me and is very jealous of me. So his exwife is allways getting gifts for my husband that makes "diggs" at me and reminds him how inportant she is for giving him a child.For example for x-mas she gave him a very nice frame with a 8x10 pic of her,my husband and thier son that said "our family" or for my husbands b-day she gave him a nice dish that had poem about thier son and how he was made in love. If she just wanted to have thier son give a gift why not have him make one? Why does she do this and what should i do?

2007-12-25 14:00:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How easy/difficult has it been for you thus far?

2007-12-25 14:00:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Girls only, please. I've known her/ her family for a long time... really started talking and such this year.. her family is WAY overprotective, to a point that her mom doesnt even like her talking to guys... We're going skating with our church SS class tomorrow, and i bought a necklace for her a while back(while i was on vacation) which i was planning on giving her. Right now, i have it wrapped in a note that says:

Each of these necklaces has a meaning; And, although I picked this one because of the color of the flower, it must be a coincidence that this one stands for beauty...right?

Hope you like it;

Merry Christmas, and God bless.

The company has a meaning for each design, and the meaning for the one i got her is beauty... And, could we still be friends when i told her that way, over the traditional way, if it doesnt work out? Little help?
Pretty much:

Really like the girl, bought her the gift, giving it to her at skating..?

good/bad idea?

How would you feel?

2007-12-25 14:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past 3 years she's openly told me every once in a while that she likes this guy in our grade. She's told me how much better he is than me at some things and once that she wished she could date him/ have a relationship with me like she would with him. She told me she wrote a story about them at the beach where they makeout and stuff and she sent it to me to read about 2 years ago. Three months ago she told the guy that she's liked him off and on since 7th grade (we're seniors now) and that she wants to get to know him better and become friends like little kids on the playground. This hurt me and since then I've found that I havent liked her as much. A lot of things she does annoy me... even little things like saying hello in the hall. Sometimes she is too immature for me. We talked about it and she said she thought we were no longer friends but she still wants to date. I'm not sure what to do about it because it's 3 months and i thought it'd get better. What should I do

2007-12-25 13:58:23 · 5 answers · asked by TallJoeJPN 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my parents got divorced when I was 4 and ever since last summer I switched homes every 2 weeks. My dad is a jerk. He is always making me sad (telling me what I do or look like is bad, comparing me and trying to make me change) and make me feel useless (there's no room for my opinion or for what i want to do). When I'm with him every other weekend now he is still being a jerk to me and I can't stand it. Is it just me, or should I be able to live how I want, I am 16 years old, and I don't want to see him! He makes me so sad and mad and hopeless! I want to be with my mom! He is so stubborn, he thinks everything is okay! Can I refuse and not go with him tomorrow? Could I get in trouble? I told him i wanted to go shopping and he said no because "that's what girls do" and I feel horrible why does he even want me I feel hated absolutely HATED
I try to be strong I try to have a good attitude but it ends up hurting me in the end!!!!!!
I don't think you understand I legally have to go

2007-12-25 13:58:16 · 11 answers · asked by tomdawg ツ 4 in Family

Ok I'm here in New York for the holidays and my boyfriend [he's in Miami ]has become really obsessive with me for the past few months. I really don't want to be with him because to get straight to the point he's a bum. No job. No school. Living with his parents at 22. Gave him many chances for him to change but never did. I'm fed up. I was just thinking of sending him a letter the relationship is over and changing my cellphone number. Should I even feel bad?

2007-12-25 13:57:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wife does not love me anymore, but cares about me

2007-12-25 13:56:21 · 13 answers · asked by kaliab 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been going out with dakota for a little over a month so this will be our first "date movie" ((IE 1st movie we'll go see together since we've been going out))...which should we go see on jan 4th? Juno or One Missed Call...any reasons why one over the other? please and thank you!♥katie

2007-12-25 13:55:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any movie you have ever seen that would be a great first date?

2007-12-25 13:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering what some really fun and creative date ideas were. Any ideas?

2007-12-25 13:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by superlunchboxgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

She got mad with me because of an issue we dicusses several times already. She jumped on me one day and fought me. After the fight she wanted to know how did we get to that stage in our frienship, llike nothing happened. Then she said she intentionally fought me to see what I would do. She had a very bad pass with her father. He beat her and dated her aunt and left them hungry one time when she was little. She criticise my walk, don't likeme asking certain questions and just fuss and make me feel bad. She kept saying I reminded her of him and every time she sees me she gets mad as a result of the fight. The main thing is she started the fight and I only try to protect my self. She said I direspested her house by fighting her in her house. I told her I had the right to defend my self. She said she was going to kill me as she choked me and she said for me to go to hell and wanted to throw the cross I gave her to the dog. She looke dlike she wa demonic that day wild.

2007-12-25 13:52:40 · 9 answers · asked by stephanie b 1 in Family

It was something like:
I don't want to bring up bad memories, but I want to formally apologize to a girl I treated pretty badly a few years ago. She's my best friend now, and you didn't deserve that. You should hate me now, but you don't. I was so stupid, and I know nothing will ever make it ok, but I promise I will never treat a girl like that again.

I don't know what to say to that. I know he wants me to say something, he sent me a message asking me when the last time I got on the Bulleting Board was. What shoud l I say? I forgave him the second he apologized, we're ok. I just don't know how to word it.

2007-12-25 13:52:14 · 7 answers · asked by The Broken Doll 4 in Singles & Dating

http://www.exposay.com/celebrity-photos/

2007-12-25 13:51:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my ex broke up with me cuz he thought i was self-centered and impossible. Now im dating a new guy and i like him a lot. But apparentally my ex still liked me. So now he hates my current boyfriend. Hes the one who broke up with me so i think its fair for me to move on. The main reason hes jealous is because hes extremely arrogant and unhappy that i got over him so fast. But I dont want my ex to hate my boyfriend. What do i do????

2007-12-25 13:51:30 · 27 answers · asked by BasketballBabe 2 in Singles & Dating

My son was involved in an incident yesteday where he and another boy were breaking off wood pieces from a condemned neighborhood park play structure(it is being repaired) While he should not have been doing that, and we did deal with that issue, I feel the lady that caught them went way overboard. She was yelling and screaming at them and the other boys mother. She demanded my son come with her into her home(I don't know this lady). She questioned him about his dad and what he did for a living, before having him call us. She told my husband on the phone that the boys "destroyed the playground." She also said it was either call us or the cops. She threatened the cops to my son and his friend. My son was terrified and I know for a fact he was not disrespectful to her at all. I spoke with her after the incident, and while I appreciate her stopping them, I told her that I did not like the fact that she was threatening and screaming at the boys.

2007-12-25 13:51:03 · 12 answers · asked by tmdeas 1 in Family

Well i like this guy and and he says he kinda likes me but yet he nly wants to be fb's is that like a sign of hbim using me or what?
and should i have sex with him

2007-12-25 13:51:01 · 2 answers · asked by meg 2 in Singles & Dating

she has been gay for a long time & always said to me that if she was going to turn strait is would be for me, around 3 years ago she meet a guy on the net that she fell inlove with, she has known for most of the time we have known ea other how i feel & she has said that she has thought about us, she wants kids & has said she thinks we would be gr8 together, but the other day she asked me to get a loan to pay for a trip to the us for her & me so she can go & find out if this thing between her & her online bf can work, she says she need me to be there with her, we live together atm, & she knows it will rip my heart out to do it for her, but deep down she knows i will do anything for her.

Am i letting her take to much from me?, should i pay & go with her to the us?, should i just wait it out & hope?, or should i move out & just walk away?

Btw i do everything for her & her bf treats her like she's just there when he wants, should that matter? & how much does it matter?

2007-12-25 13:50:01 · 16 answers · asked by Glenn H 1 in Singles & Dating

trying to save a marraige? If it honestly feels like the other person has some serious issues. Either from childhood or mental issues. He is absolutely the worst at holding grudges and bringing up the past. Granted I'm not perfect myself. I've made my fair share of mistakes. How do you try to save a marraige when you're dealing with a mentally sick person that refuses medication, will only goto couseling if its couples. However we can't do to pervious history or domestic abuse. We've been together for 9 years married for 6. Been having these issues for over 6 years.

2007-12-25 13:48:11 · 8 answers · asked by kdlamb24 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 5'6 115 lbs.
I have shoulder-length golden blonde hair.
I have very large blue eyes.
I smile a lot and I'm extremely outgoing.
Oh, and I'm 14.
What do you think??

2007-12-25 13:47:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Situations:

An attractive, confident man approaches you to talk

An ugly, confident man approaches you to talk

An ugly, nice personality man approaches you to talk

A handsome, uncofident man approaches you to talk

An ugly, unconfident man approaches you to talk

A handsome, mean man approaches you to talk

PLEASE TELL ME WHICH ONES YOU LIKE/DISLIKE, AND WHAT YOU WOULD DO.

2007-12-25 13:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by Obama's GF's BF 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a online male friend that I talking to everyday. We talk about everything personal. We are both married to other people. I tell my husband all the details of the stuff I talk to my friend about, but my friend doesnt tell his wife. My husband knows that it is just harmless fun, but I am not sure if my friend thinks so. What should I do?

2007-12-25 13:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by lumpy_6 2 in Marriage & Divorce