So my ex broke up with me cuz he thought i was self-centered and impossible. Now im dating a new guy and i like him a lot. But apparentally my ex still liked me. So now he hates my current boyfriend. Hes the one who broke up with me so i think its fair for me to move on. The main reason hes jealous is because hes extremely arrogant and unhappy that i got over him so fast. But I dont want my ex to hate my boyfriend. What do i do????
2007-12-25 13:51:30 · 27 answers · asked by BasketballBabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's none of your exes business who you date, just as it's none of yours who he dates. You two are exes for a reason, and when the relationship ended so did any rights to having a say in the other person's life.
Your ex doesn't hate your boyfriend, he hates that you HAVE a boyfriend other than him. He'll get over it eventually...he and your current guy may never be friends, but his feelings aren't anything personal toward the new dude. Your ex, as you said, is just jealous and hurt.
2007-12-25 14:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so he feels betrayed and obviously he's not ready to put away childish things or he would just be done with you, not his child. Being with a man's sister is just like bring with his brother. It's something you don't do ! Bi or not. Only thing I could say is talk to him. Tell him what you did has nothing to do with your child. How long ago did he find out? Was it recent? If so, give him time to cool off and think. He'll come around. But absolutely do NOT throw yourself on the table with begging or what not.
2016-05-26 05:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that you can do. Nobody likes to see their ex with someone new and happy. The thing is that if they run across each other and exchange words they will probably end up fighting. Believe me I have gone through this a few times.
2007-12-25 13:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by myfav1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your exboyfriend is right. You are self centered. How horrible for others around you. I think you need to take a good look at yourself and see that you are the type of person people do not like not now, not later in life. It isn't all about YOU YOU YOU. For once think about others.
2007-12-25 13:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy to shake his head up and face the consequences of the actions that he has taken. He put himself in this situation, not you... the person who should be thinking about the actions is him, not you.
Go and watch a movie with your boyfriend and try not to think about your ex.
2007-12-25 13:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Orion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like your ex is jealous. Ask him to stop bothering you and your bf. Trust me your ex is always going to hate your current bf :-) it's just human nature.
2007-12-25 13:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by oo7male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have truly moved on then why do you care.Are you just using this guy to make your ex jealous?He's arrogant and your self-centered,a match made in heaven.
2007-12-25 13:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by kia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what your ex thinks. he is the one that ended the relationship. there is a meaning to an "ex." you have every right to move on with you life.
2007-12-25 13:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by azprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you screw your ex and go out with ur boyfriend if ur ex has feelings for u he was stupid to break up with u in the first place soo its his fault he lost u and i think you should just go on with ur life with ur boyfriend and ignore ur ex but try to be friends if he is nice about it
2007-12-25 13:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's not really your ex's fault...it's just like 2nd nature for your ex to hate your current boyfriend. He's just human!
2007-12-25 13:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋