I am ingaged and i have 2 kids named annasophia and Sal.They are so cute!!!My almost husband does not like my kids because there not his (i got a divorse) What should i do because i am only 17!!!!!
2007-12-25 14:08:48 · 12 answers · asked by Carlene P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go back to school and learn how to spell. And don't ask stupid questions. Your children should come first.
2007-12-25 15:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart,
If you are 17 and have 2 children, they should be the most important thing in your life. The next most important thing should be getting an education so that you can provide a good life for them.
If any man does not like your children, then he is not worth your time or trouble.
Once you marry him, will he want to have children that are his? If you do have more children, will Annasophia and Sal be treated differently than 'his' children? If he will not treat your children well, then please think again about marrying him.
You brought two beautiful babies into this world - you have a responsibility to them FOREVER. You are the Momma - that's the most important job in the world.
There are men out there that will love your children because they are part of you. I loved my boyfriend's children the instant I met them because they are a part of him and I love him so dearly.
Think about your children and about making the best life you can for them.
Good Luck,
PS - I love the name Annasophia. Very pretty
2007-12-25 22:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tauri Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your #1 thing now in life are your kids. It does not matter what you like. Sounds like you do not need to be dating anyone until kids are 18. 2 kids under 17??? I feel sorry for the kids. Have tubes tied.
2007-12-25 22:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by s f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he don;t like your kids run now before everyone gets hurt! Now you see how hard life is going to be for you being divorced and why didn't you check before you jumped into bed with a man you weren't going to stay with? You only make the 1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000. women to do this crap! No respect! you deserve no respect! Your poor children, your poor,poor children, oh how they'll hurt in this life and you can care less as long as you get what you want!
2007-12-25 22:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you're still so young!you don't have to get married again soon!unless you feel you really love each other.but to love you the man should learn to love your kids too!pour your heart on your kids first.then someday,when you're already stable,and the right age,somebody will love and accept you for who you are and your kids.the first thing to look for in a man in your situation is if he'll be a good second father to your children.
2007-12-25 23:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by αςhα ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god, you start early, if he doesn't like your kids, you should get away from him, because it will be trouble, you will be better alone with your kids, many single moms get married because they think it's gonna be difficult to them to raise their children without a father, but that's not true, think in your children and take a wise decision so you don't have to regret in the future.
2007-12-25 22:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in heavens name would you bring a man into your home who doesn't love your children?? Let me clue you in: YOUR KIDS COME FIRST! No man should ever, ever, ever, be allowed into your life unless it is absolutely the best thing for your children.
2007-12-25 22:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Terri J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better find another dude and wait until you are a little older to be married and such..
2007-12-25 22:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by imtheonenobodylikes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your kids come before your man... no matter what
2007-12-25 22:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by BigMaMa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better find another boyfriend>
2007-12-25 22:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by woodyjudy1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋