Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

This is a second marriage. We are both 51. I am shocked and heartbroken. Guys and girls of all ages do you agree with me?

2007-12-25 12:40:01 · 17 answers · asked by christy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

him or me?

What do you think?

it's been on the tip of my tongue for the last couple of weeks but i just don't wanna say it if i'm the only one....although i think he does too but still...it would suck if he didn't say it back right?!

2007-12-25 12:36:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 12:35:13 · 5 answers · asked by pdc5200 4 in Family

2007-12-25 12:34:02 · 11 answers · asked by jeff b 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I really really just screwed things up here. I'm dating this girl right now and her parents really can't find out about us, well I was going to meet them pretty soon so they would be ok with it.

Well

Today her and I were texting each other about some "things" and I guess her mother took a look at the phone I saw some of these messages.

Well she automatically called me and said to stay away from her daughter and what not.

What do I do? Right now I think I am straight up SOL but I'm hoping there may be a tiny bit of hope that I can talk to her mother about this and explain a bit

Any advice? This is really really bad

2007-12-25 12:34:00 · 10 answers · asked by Ghost 2 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! ex boyfriend problem??!?!?!?
my ex has ignored me since september because
i moved away.. and now im back for a week seeing
my other relatives and he writes me after months
of silence he wrote an e-mail saying "merry christmas"
and that was it!!!! what should i do?? should i write him back?
what should i say?????

.. i kinda have feelings 4 him, but im hurt that he ignored me..
& if i write him back saying merry christmas to you too..
well.. what if he doesn't write me back?? then i will be hurt
again.. but i rele do miss him.. so what should i write??

2007-12-25 12:32:02 · 14 answers · asked by ♡ 4 in Singles & Dating

Just curious for ideas. I'm always looking for new ways to keep things spiced up and alive.

2007-12-25 12:31:03 · 5 answers · asked by Phillip 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone just asked if it was common to have multiple orgasms well i want to know if it's normal to have none?

2007-12-25 12:30:27 · 16 answers · asked by Felicia *Proud Mommy Of 2* 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If your someone who believes that there is a real moral-corruption to what feels like the increase in the decline of relationship and personal-integrity (CHEATING, lying etc.)

What do you feel is the real cause? there are a lot of people-hurting the people they claim to love and care about. But the actions don't match up with the words. I'm sure some of you might know people. I mean "married dating?!" I just feel there is a lot of FRAUD going on.

So what do you feel is the real root cause, for I feel we don't recognize as a problems? are they problems anymore? or is it every man for them selves?

If you know it's gonna hurt your partner, crush your partner, just devastate them. And still do it with a secomd though really. From I hear is common.

Is that not a problem?

2007-12-25 12:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I make about $225 bucks a week and i can save about $150 bucks a week im really trying to save up for a car and im wait for my income tax to come in to help well does anybody have good advice for saving up for a car or jst saving up money well i do spend a lil bit on food and other bits of stuff and i save as much as possible need your help!!!

2007-12-25 12:28:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He just isn't the same any more. Like I don't matter to him anymore. Although he says I do. Do I leave him? How? He starts crying etc...

2007-12-25 12:27:55 · 42 answers · asked by anitomic 2 in Singles & Dating

10 points for honest opinion!!!?
why dont i get on with my parents??

Everytime i spend more than 1 day with my parents we always argue to the point where i get my bags and leave, for examply we had a horendous argument today christmas day!

My dad has a short fuse and my mum and dad are only interested in you if you are doing things for them i have found i have become totally disinterested in them to the point i am thinking about changing my number so they cannot contact me?

I find no matter what i do they belittle me and put me down?

2007-12-25 12:27:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think a man that is getting sex regularly will still be likely to cheat? Cause most people always say it's cause their not getting it at home.

2007-12-25 12:27:43 · 31 answers · asked by Felicia *Proud Mommy Of 2* 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I am good looking so when a guy stares at me it makes me feel uncomfortable .... I mean I have a pretty face but a avrg body .... so um I dont know what to do when a guy just cant stop starring at me. Help!

2007-12-25 12:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. My BF and I have been dating for 5 years now, and we bother want to turn it up a knotch. We don't want a child, but we want to have sex with a condom. Should I? We are both 21, and mature enough. If you think I should, then what are some good moves?

2007-12-25 12:26:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have a little girl that has been sick and requirs my wife to be a way from home for 4 months i go see them 1 or 2 times aweek 3hours away i have to be home to keep the bills payed and she don't show me any effection even when we are alone but she talks to others and will play pool with people so she has time need advise

2007-12-25 12:25:05 · 5 answers · asked by jayjay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out today My dad has porn on his computer. Now I would always think my dad would never look at stuff like that, but he has so much of it. He would also grap my upper theigh and " tickle it" put his hand around it and I hate that, but he's been doing that for a long time. Should I tell my mom or dad? :(

2007-12-25 12:24:35 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-25 12:22:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so here's the details: Two months ago I ran into one of my neighbors that I went to high school with at the mall. Well, we talked for a little while and then she gave me her number and told me to call her. The first couple of times I called her we had some good conversations but eventually she stopped answering my calls.

So yesterday, I get a message from said girl asking if I wanted to go see a movie with her and that she "forgot" to return my calls from TWO MONTHS ago. Of course, I didn't reply because I plan on ignoring her just like she did me. Yes, I know it's vindictive but I just want her to know how it feels. Maybe I'll reply back in six months.

Will this make her feel bad? I'm hoping it should

2007-12-25 12:21:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a male coworker who has a 6-figure salary paying job that he seems to enjoy, 2 small boys and 2 small girls, and a wife who stays home and watches them. She is a Martha Stewart type of wife who can cook, clean, and decorate. She seems like a nice and generous lady on the outside (I don't know her well). I don't know how their intimacy is, but his wife is average looking and he says he's falling for a younger female coworker who is more attractive than his wife. No, it's not me. lol

2007-12-25 12:21:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"Embarassing Dad" Moments at Christmas?
So this Christmas my family had about 10 or so people over for Christmas "dinner" (okay, our "dinner" was at like 2:00 but whatever). Everyone there was either family or VERY close family friends.

Anyway my dad became adament on singing Christmas carols (I come from a very musical family; my dad and my uncle are in a jazz/blues band, and two of the other Christmas dinner guests are in the band with them). He brought up the keyboard and bells and a harmonica and everything... and started singing "we wish you a merry christmas" really loudly, while smiling really goofily and tapping his foot extra loudly ...it was so embarassing!

no one actually wanted to sing christmas carols, we all sort of gave each other an "oh god what's he doing now" look, and refrained from singing at first, but eventually we sang along anyway.

KEEP READING =]

2007-12-25 12:20:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im pregnet with triplets and i got a divorse from the father but he abuses me when he sees me he was in prison for killing his mom and i dont know wat to do and he thinks i am pregnet with someone elses baby. wat should i do

2007-12-25 12:20:19 · 18 answers · asked by Nicole L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 12:19:38 · 18 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

At dinner at my grandparent's house last night (my mother in law was invited) I let it slip that I didn't want anyone at the hospital when I go into labor, and my husband and I would be calling people after the baby is born. Dorothy, my husbands mom, started arguing with me about it. She said that it's her grandchild and she'll be there if she wants to be. When I objected, she told my husband to call her after I've been given pain medication and she'll show up whether I want her to or not. I think that since it's my labor, I should be able to be as comfortable as possible. I can't do tht with my whole family hovering over me during contractions. I want my husband there with me and that's it. How do I get her to listen and respect my decision? I have a feeling that if I let her have her way on this instead of doing what I want, she'll try to take over when the baby's born. She lives 10 minutes away and I don't want to see her in our house every day while we try to get to know our child.

2007-12-25 12:18:24 · 21 answers · asked by garcia_lives86 2 in Family

my ex has ignored me since september because
i moved away.. and now im back for a week seeing
my other relatives and he writes me after months
of silence he wrote an e-mail saying "merry christmas"
and that was it!!!! what should i do?? should i write him back?
what should i say?????

2007-12-25 12:17:45 · 10 answers · asked by ♡ 4 in Singles & Dating

my boy friend proposed today.in front of his parents who are split up.not at all romantic.i was half way through dinner with no make up on as i have no time to myself.in short i feel it wasnt good enough especially all the crap i have been through.he an alocoholic who recovering aand iv had to nurse him through it with a small baby.i want recognition of my care with an at least half thought out proposal.

2007-12-25 12:17:33 · 9 answers · asked by tonightwefly 1 in Singles & Dating

ight well theres 3 guyz i like a lot.
but only one i live near by and me and him donot tlk at all though i want to.
then the 2cd one he has lied to me about him and i feel like he is a stalker now.
the 3rd one would be perfect but he lives like 4 states away and i really donot want a long distance relationship.
ik they donot work at all.
i am tired of being single and i am so confused.
ppl say i am gorgeous but no one cares to go out wit me i just donot get it.!
i need help/advise plz
thnks =)

2007-12-25 12:17:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad and my mom got divorced how should i tell my dad to convince to get together because my mom wants to

2007-12-25 12:17:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My kids are almost grown and they just opened their gifts and said thanks and got back on their computers. I feel so sad and I really would like to have another child but I am not sure if it is just from feeling lonely and sad about not having a child small enough to play with anymore or what. Anyway, I feel so lonely and sad today. I am married and love my husband, but it is like I am having empty nest syndrome early or something. Things aren't like they used to be and soon it will just be me and my hubby. What should I do?

2007-12-25 12:16:21 · 7 answers · asked by susan9 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ya see, ive been switing bf's for a while and the longest relation ship is about one monthand 1 week. i really need some advice. ladies help me!

2007-12-25 12:15:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating