Ok. My BF and I have been dating for 5 years now, and we bother want to turn it up a knotch. We don't want a child, but we want to have sex with a condom. Should I? We are both 21, and mature enough. If you think I should, then what are some good moves?
2007-12-25 12:26:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, get married first.
2007-12-25 12:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by anna 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
5 years and no sex, wow. I couldn't do that. Yes, sex with a condom is perfectly safe. You should also probably get on the pill, just to increase your protection against pregnancy. As for moves, just experiment with your boyfriend.
2007-12-25 20:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest going on the pill first because ur gonna have sex then want to do it more and if you think your ready is the only time you should have sex and thats good that youve waited 5 years most people dont even wait 1 year
2007-12-25 20:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by rooaarr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better be very carefull, like a condom and some spermicide or better yet get on birth control. Be Very Careful. This world does not need any more unwanted children.
2007-12-25 20:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by sandy t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first time is supposed to be a bit awkward. If both of you are virgins then little expectations should exist. In all honesty, you can't plan what you are going to do. If YOU are ready, then do it. If not, then don't. It's as simple as that.
2007-12-25 20:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by CiCi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be very mature if you have to ask total strangers whether or not you should have sex. I think you shouldn't based on this question. Grow up a little more and then consider it.
2007-12-25 20:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you can answer that question. Do you feel ready?
If you want my honest opinion, I would never have sex outside of marriage. But it's up to you!
2007-12-25 20:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley Ward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do it when you are ready, not because a bunch of wackos on yahoo answers say so! If you do go for it, the moves come naturally
2007-12-25 20:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Moves, just go with it and don't think of it.
As for whether you should - you waited longer and are more mature about this then 99% of people on this planet. Way to go/go for it.
2007-12-25 20:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by Corvus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Birth control pills
2007-12-25 20:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! 5 years is a long time! and you guys are 21! i think the time is right
2007-12-25 20:37:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋