Okay so here's the details: Two months ago I ran into one of my neighbors that I went to high school with at the mall. Well, we talked for a little while and then she gave me her number and told me to call her. The first couple of times I called her we had some good conversations but eventually she stopped answering my calls.
So yesterday, I get a message from said girl asking if I wanted to go see a movie with her and that she "forgot" to return my calls from TWO MONTHS ago. Of course, I didn't reply because I plan on ignoring her just like she did me. Yes, I know it's vindictive but I just want her to know how it feels. Maybe I'll reply back in six months.
Will this make her feel bad? I'm hoping it should
2007-12-25 12:21:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you blew it. You should call her back, make the date and then don't show up. Not returning calls is for wimps. Be a man, Stand her up. Extra points if you get her to pay and then stand her up.
2007-12-25 12:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Advice Giver 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in her reply, if not let it go and move on. Little "ignore you" games are childish and accomplish nothing but waste time.
If she really was interested in you, she wouldn't have let 2 months go by w/o contact, but perhaps she was checking out someone else during that time and things didnt' workout.
Either way, if you decide not to reply to her now, then don't bother ever doing it...and no, I doubt it'll trouble her over much if you don't reply. She may figure you've hooked up with someone else and moved on...
2007-12-25 12:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she could of had some family problems a lot of things could be a reason why she didn't call you back , and feels bad for ,not returning your calls , i think you should catch a movie and a dinner and ask her why she toOK so long and if you are really interested then tell her , you could really be messing up a good thing, give her a chance ok
2007-12-25 12:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it out of spite, but I would do it. You deserve to be treated better than how she treated you. I'd guess she was spending time with someone else and that didn't work out so she's working on you. Instead of wondering if it's bothering her, the next time she calls, tell her you were interested in her then but because she didn't treat you with the respect that you deserve, you now have no interest in her. That will put her in her place!
2007-12-25 12:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by whatzername? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be the better person. Forgive her, but I don't suggest forgetting because then you might get burned again. Anyway, she deserves at least the benefit of the doubt, maybe she did forget. (Not likely I know, but still....) Whether you decide to be "friendly" or not is completely up to you, you could go either way.
2007-12-25 12:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Might backfire on you. If she had no trouble forgetting about you for 2 months, who's to say that she'll think about you in the next 6?
2007-12-25 12:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nah, she will just move on to someone who doesnt play games.
Maybe there were things going on that kept her distracted and she didnt feel right calling you back.
Grow up.
2007-12-25 13:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. Yes, you know, I dislike games and I bet you do, as well, but it's karma, at this point.
Sure, I can say "be mature" and tell you to respond saying "Yes, I'll go" or even "no" but, judging by her "ignoring" ways, she'll just screw you over again.
Go for it dude.
2007-12-25 12:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by Corvus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. That's my advice.
Tell her thank you, but no thank you and leave it at that. It's fine you're hurt and all but it solves nothing when you're looking to be vindictive. All you're doing is hurting yourself. Just move on and forget her.
2007-12-25 12:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
FART in front of her
lmaooooo
no seriously, that happende to me 2. girls are sometimes like that! mine realllllly liked me and stared at me alot.... (i didnt like her as much anyways). well after i knew that she liked me i thought i'd give her a chance and be closer to her and talk to her more and stuff.... but as soon as i did it, things changed, she started acting and ... she probably thought im kinda dying for her or something.. but i wasnt.....!
so after that i didnt even message, talk to her at all. its that easy!!! there are so many more around for u budd! juss leave her! i dont like a*ss holes very much
2007-12-25 21:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋