I have a male coworker who has a 6-figure salary paying job that he seems to enjoy, 2 small boys and 2 small girls, and a wife who stays home and watches them. She is a Martha Stewart type of wife who can cook, clean, and decorate. She seems like a nice and generous lady on the outside (I don't know her well). I don't know how their intimacy is, but his wife is average looking and he says he's falling for a younger female coworker who is more attractive than his wife. No, it's not me. lol
2007-12-25 12:21:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just wondering why guys like this would cheat on their wife when they seem to have the whole package.
2007-12-25 12:22:35 · update #1
Well Mz. Jaxon the answer is so simple (and obvious) I'm not sure you will believe it.
The intimacy they once had were traded in on the curb appeal of the perfect life with 4 children.
Sure, she can cook, clean, decorate and iron a perfect shirt every time... but does she complete this man's heart anymore? Nope. She forgot all about that.
The younger female coworker is going to get sucked into the vacuum of what is missing from him.
Coworker's looks have nothing to do with it by the way.... How he feels when he's standing next to her (coworker) listening to what she has to say.... means everything to him.
Even Martha Stewart has a fatal flaw now doesn't she?
2007-12-25 12:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by ezxqz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet you his wife give doesn't give him what he needs!!! We need more than cooking and decorating!!! She probably looks like Martha Stewart too!!! The men that easily cheat the most are the good looking men and the rich men because they have the most options. You obviously haven't learned the facts of life yet!!!
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
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2007-12-25 21:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of men are like that. They think that the grass is greener on the other side. When they finally get to be with the other woman then they realize that things aren't any better after all. Sometimes things can be worse and then their wifes no longer want them back.
2007-12-25 20:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, when you look at someones life it may seem wonderful, but you have to actually be them to know what it is like. There could be lots of reasons. Maybe they had an argument, and he is getting back in a stupid way. Maybe he is just plain stubborn. Maybe the mother/wife doesn't satisfy him? there's alot of reasons like i said before.
2007-12-25 20:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by marya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Martha Steward? I can tell you that she PROBABLY is wounderful with the kids, does the doilies on the table with the fresh picked flowers, and climbs into bed and says, "not tonight dear, I've got a headache and I'm really tired besides, I got my period again".
2007-12-25 20:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man will do things with his mistress that he will not want to do with his wife. I think men think of them as 2 separate entities? I think they like to have the mom/respectful one at home and have average/good sex with her; while he has a g/f on the side who is fun, exciting and they have wild uninhibited, forbidden sex.
2007-12-26 00:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys get bored and if she is so good at all the other stuff she could be lacking in the department he needs her most in and that could be the result of him falling for someone else...at least when she leaves his sorry A$$ she will get could money for him being an unfaithful d*ick.
2007-12-25 20:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by confused<3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a mid-life crisis, or if hes young, hes one of those guys that has got to constantly prove to themselves they are still a stud. I have a friend just like this, 32, married, 2 kids and constantly splitting and getting women while hes split to prove hes He-Man!
2007-12-25 20:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating has to do more with the person than the spouse...men with better income tend to cheat more....hes selfish, egoistic and doesnt care much about his wife, i doubt theres any other reason unless the marriage is going through a crisis.....even so theres no excuse for it
2007-12-25 20:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman do it at well it could be the wife takes care of the kids all day so at night she dont have sex with him no more to me a person that cheats is a real loser
2007-12-25 20:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋