we have a little girl that has been sick and requirs my wife to be a way from home for 4 months i go see them 1 or 2 times aweek 3hours away i have to be home to keep the bills payed and she don't show me any effection even when we are alone but she talks to others and will play pool with people so she has time need advise
2007-12-25 12:25:05 · 5 answers · asked by jayjay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what you need is an english teacher! Sorry, I know--to the point: I understand you have a sick child, and maybe its stressing her in different ways than you. Not to say you dont stress, you have to go back and keep working and pretend everything is normal. But we all grieve differently. I know you need affection/attention. We all do, but in these unique cirumstances, maybe give her a little slack?
2007-12-25 12:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a lot on her plate if she is having to be gonna all the time, she could possibly be building up resentment at the situation and sad for you that you are the one at the brunt of it...I don't know if that is true, but from what you stated that's my first guess as to why she shows you no affection...hope this helped.
2007-12-25 20:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by confused<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with her.
she is probably under a lot of stress because of your sick little girl.
maybe she feels resentful? I know you didn't do anything wrong, but people sometimes get mixed up feelings, and react in odd ways.
i hope things work out.
2007-12-25 20:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not thinking of that with her stress. She is trying to deal with it. she needs time away before she will feel like that.
2007-12-25 21:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this is why they call it lOVE, it will keep you warm, and content when problems arise that keeps our inimate moments near zero! good luck!
2007-12-25 21:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋